What is my ex Leo gf thinking? Will she come back?

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geminichoo
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Hi everybody, I'm a gemini guy. I was with this Leo girl for 2 months. She is 27 year old. During times when we were good, she is like a sweet darling that stick around with me almost everyday. We spent our time going out for dinners, movies and drinks. The relationship was wonderful. But later on, I kinda find her rather immature or perhaps fickle in our relationship. 2 incidents happened.
The first being 1 month into our relationship. Her ex suddenly came and looked for her and they met up but did nothing. Suddenly her attitude changed, she's no longer the loving type that she used to be and I asked her why. She told me that she's feeling confused now as she had met up with her ex and she's felt that she still has feelings for him. After which, our relationship turned into an on/off status almost everyday. One day she may tell me she still wanna continue with me, the next day she will say she has no more heart in the relationship. Again, the next day she will text me again and then we will meet up. This goes on for about a week until I finally gave up and ignore her calls. She suddenly changed and tell me not to think of those unhappy things that happened and let's be together again. Things went back to how it's supposed to be, both of us were so loving again, and I must say that knowing a Leo needs a lot of attentions, I did gave her a lot of care and attentions and she was very happy.
Until recently, when I told her that she should draw a line between herself and those guys that keep texting her and telling her sweet little things, she got angry and we quarreled. She blamed me for not trusting her. Then on, her attitude towards me turned cold again and finally she told me that she wants to end this relationship. I told her that it's not that I don't trust her, it's just that I was jealous. Things didn't turn around this time and we had ended recently. I was sad because I couldn't understand why is it that I've been such a sensitive and attentive boyfriend and yet she can just give it up like that? I didn't contact her but she still texted me for the past few days, asking me how am I and telling me about her day. But I am unsure what am I suppose to do now? Does she still loves me? Will she come back to me? I have to say it one more that that I've never let her down during the time when we were together. Help is appreciated here. Thanks a lot.
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You've already made a thread about her, so why are you making another one?

Sigh..

You are reading too much into her Sun sign. Her being a Leo doesn't mean much without knowing the other placements. Look at her not as a Leo, but as woman who may still be emotionally/physically attached to her ex.

By refusing to end things with the guy, despite seeing how much it had upset you, she has shown you that your feelings were not a priority.

The problem was that you allowed yourself to become her own personal doormat. Nothing wrong with doing nice things for your girlfriend, but you were also neglecting your own needs. Learn from it and move on.

If she does come back, it's likely for more attention from you.
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geminichoo
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You've already made a thread about her, so why are you making another one?

Sigh..


You are reading too much into her Sun sign. Her being a Leo doesn't mean much without knowing the other placements. Look at her not as a Leo, but as woman who may still be emotionally/physically attached to her ex.

By refusing to end things with the guy, despite seeing how much it had upset you, she has shown you that your feelings were not a priority.

The problem was that you allowed yourself to become her own personal doormat. Nothing wrong with doing nice things for your girlfriend, but you were also neglecting your own needs. Learn from it and move on.

If she does come back, it's likely for more attention from you.



Hi, I made another one is because I think my first one was a little too draggy. Thus I made a simpler one and straight to the point. _—
Anyway, thanks for your advices. I really appreciate.
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I remember she did mentioned about hers with Scorpio something.



Honestly, I would focus less on astrology since there's so little info on her.

How are you feeling?



Hi, thanks for your concern. I'm feeling ok. Just a little sad as I've always been the devoted one in whatever relationship I am in.
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That's not good, seems like she may have felt smothered by you and wanted out. No need to feel down, there will plenty of other opportunities. The right woman will appreciate your devotion and reciprocate. 🙂

Good luck.