is it in my head or my chart?

i've been dating this sag guy off and on for 3 years. i love him tremdouly, but it just never seems to go smoothly (long story). i'm not asking if you guys think we will work out. i was just wondering what in our charts keeps us so drawn to each other. we feel a deep soul mate connection with one another but just for fun i was wondering is there a strong connection in our charts that would make us feel this way?

Mine
Sun Libra 7.16
Moon Cancer 22.24
Mercury Virgo 19.25
Venus Leo 27.19
Mars Virgo 0.38 (more leo mars traits)
Jupiter Sagittarius 6.41
Saturn Scorpio 3.41
Uranus Sagittarius 6.02
Neptune Sagittarius 26.37
Pluto Libra 28.35
Lilith Aquarius 22.00
Asc node Gemini 18.26

His
Sun Sagittarius 7.15
Moon Libra 11.10
Mercury Sagittarius 23.40
Venus Libra 22.26
Mars Libra 6.48
Jupiter Sagittarius 18.42
Saturn Scorpio 10.46
Uranus Sagittarius 9.14
Neptune Sagittarius 28.10
Pluto Scorpio 0.54
Lilith Aquarius 28.42
Asc node Gemini 15.49