I am cancer.From school to study of bachelor now i liked 4 girls and all were libra in common but not dated a single due to phobia of incompatibility.can libra be drawn to cancer ?if not then what is the astrology behind cancer(me) being drawn to libra?
Is it possible?

phobia of incompatibility? Astrology is just a system, it has flaws any other system has, any sign can be attracted to any other sign. It depends on the goal of two people, if they truly are in love and want a relationship together, it doesn't matter which sign they are under.
Some planets to look under for attraction:
sun
moon
venus
mars
rising
Some planets to look under for attraction:
sun
moon
venus
mars
rising
lv_cuspy might be rigth...
I'm a Libra, and was wondering for a long time, why are so many watersigned men around me. I have a mate who knows quiet much about astrology, and she told me, that it's because I have all three watersigns in my chart.
By the way, I'm really into a cancer man lately 😉
I'm a Libra, and was wondering for a long time, why are so many watersigned men around me. I have a mate who knows quiet much about astrology, and she told me, that it's because I have all three watersigns in my chart.
By the way, I'm really into a cancer man lately 😉
May be sun sign does not wholly describe the person.i have one of my scorpio classmate he sits along the last bench of the class and does not luk domineering like mars people and go alongwith interest of others.Morever he doesn't bother me leading him.
And other is my roommate.may be lib-scorp cusp.he never goes alongwith outside his circle of friend .he loves to sit alone silently in the dark evenin evening in the ground.i like his libra smile.he has very good gemini and aquarius friends.
And other is my roommate.may be lib-scorp cusp.he never goes alongwith outside his circle of friend .he loves to sit alone silently in the dark evenin evening in the ground.i like his libra smile.he has very good gemini and aquarius friends.

IMO - Astrology is just a guide. I def wouldn't let it hinder any of my major decision making. I am a Cancer w/ a Libra man. I also have a lot of Libras in my immediate family/friend circle.
What I have to offer is from my own experience. I really believe that the rest of the chart (at least your ascendent, moon, and venus) have to be examined on both ends as well. At least before you make any 'decisions'.
Libras and Cancers pros and cons are as follows:
Cons>
Libras... are an air sign, meaning that they are free willing, very mind motivated (as oppose to 'heart' and emotion) and tend to like to keep things new and fresh. Along with being very social and 'in the mix'.
Cancers... are a water sign, meaning that they feel with their heart, and act on emotions; rather than using logical thinking. This is opposite for Libra. Cancers are very needy attention-wise. Libras hate to be smothered. Sometimes Cancers can be too needy; or too smothering as well.
Pros>
Libras and Cancers have an appreciation for a harmonious home life. They love beauty (scenic, physical, etc). Cancers tend to admire; and Libra eats the admiration right up. If you are close and comfortable enough in the relationship; Libras can help Cancers make logic of their emotional reactions. While Cancers can help Libras feel more compassion; and relate more emotionally to a situation.
One thing is certain no matter what; the compatibility is there. What it depends on is the effort each side is willing to put in to make it work.
What I have to offer is from my own experience. I really believe that the rest of the chart (at least your ascendent, moon, and venus) have to be examined on both ends as well. At least before you make any 'decisions'.
Libras and Cancers pros and cons are as follows:
Cons>
Libras... are an air sign, meaning that they are free willing, very mind motivated (as oppose to 'heart' and emotion) and tend to like to keep things new and fresh. Along with being very social and 'in the mix'.
Cancers... are a water sign, meaning that they feel with their heart, and act on emotions; rather than using logical thinking. This is opposite for Libra. Cancers are very needy attention-wise. Libras hate to be smothered. Sometimes Cancers can be too needy; or too smothering as well.
Pros>
Libras and Cancers have an appreciation for a harmonious home life. They love beauty (scenic, physical, etc). Cancers tend to admire; and Libra eats the admiration right up. If you are close and comfortable enough in the relationship; Libras can help Cancers make logic of their emotional reactions. While Cancers can help Libras feel more compassion; and relate more emotionally to a situation.
One thing is certain no matter what; the compatibility is there. What it depends on is the effort each side is willing to put in to make it work.
I think she knows me and my feeling but she isnot getting why i amnot initiative ather.whenever i see her i start to think that she is so beautiful would not get less than prince and idealize her so and so further.is it some sort of inferiority complex ?
I think she knows me and my feeling but she isnot getting why i amnot initiative ather.whenever i see her i start to think that she is so beautiful would not get less than prince and idealize her so and so further.is it some sort of inferiority complex ?

Sounds to me like you are being the typical mushy Cancer. My advice is to knock that off. Libras (as well as many opther signs) can't stand that mushy/needy/sort of smothery attitude Cancers give off.
You've got to put your shell up a bit in this situation. I'm a Cancer w/ a Virgo Moon and Scorp rising... so I can put up that "hard a $ $ " front pretty well when I need to. They say us Cancers wear our feelings on our shoulder. Meaning that not only can we pick up on everyone elsess feelings, they can see ours. Our facial expressions show our true emotions like plexi-glass.
I'm telling you - you will send that Libra running the other way if you just stare at her and gush all over her every time you see her. Tell her how you feel (she most likely already knows). If she does; then leave it at that and enjoy doing things together. Act like it ain't much to you eithey way; you just like her company. But keep it interesting, Libras can get bored if things get dull.
And don't text, stalk, bug, call, show up, etc all up in her personal space constantly. Libras are air signs, and they need freedom. They need time to step away and sort things out - so don't call her immediately after your date, or try to set up the next date while still on your current one. Libras love to chase - so the idea is to show interest; but not be so available.
This is like petting a cat backwards against the fur for us Cancers. It's hard because you want to do it all when you finally fall for them; but just be patient. Libra will meet you there; they just take the time to think it over 😉
You've got to put your shell up a bit in this situation. I'm a Cancer w/ a Virgo Moon and Scorp rising... so I can put up that "hard a $ $ " front pretty well when I need to. They say us Cancers wear our feelings on our shoulder. Meaning that not only can we pick up on everyone elsess feelings, they can see ours. Our facial expressions show our true emotions like plexi-glass.
I'm telling you - you will send that Libra running the other way if you just stare at her and gush all over her every time you see her. Tell her how you feel (she most likely already knows). If she does; then leave it at that and enjoy doing things together. Act like it ain't much to you eithey way; you just like her company. But keep it interesting, Libras can get bored if things get dull.
And don't text, stalk, bug, call, show up, etc all up in her personal space constantly. Libras are air signs, and they need freedom. They need time to step away and sort things out - so don't call her immediately after your date, or try to set up the next date while still on your current one. Libras love to chase - so the idea is to show interest; but not be so available.
This is like petting a cat backwards against the fur for us Cancers. It's hard because you want to do it all when you finally fall for them; but just be patient. Libra will meet you there; they just take the time to think it over 😉

i agree with sucha_doll, you need to pretend a bit more like you don't care and let her chase a bit. she will enjoy the chase. she probably already knows that you like her. take it slow and don't worry. but libras do love romance so be sure to treat her like a princess, and you can be her prince!
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