Libra girls, asking for your help please.

Alright there is this Libra girl and she goes between acting like she really like me and then ignores me she goes between the two extremes and i only get to see her like 10 minutes in a day if you don't count our club meetings, like yesterday she went out of her way to compliment and seemed really into me but today i was sitting across the room from her and she wouldn't even look in my direction it was like she was especially trying not to look at me, but then the day before she was constantly looking at me, today i looked over at her a couple times to see if i could get her to look but she wouldn't.. did i do something wrong she is so up and down with me one day she acts like i'm the best and other days she acts like i'm not there why? is there anything i can do to get her attention more? I was thinking of asking for her number, i have known her since early October, we only get to talk like 10 minutes a day though, so do you think it's too soon? oh and I'm an Aries.

Its hard to say but I think one of two things is happening. She either 1 knows that you like and she's not that into you. She makes small talk because she thinks your a cool person but doesn't want you to get any ideas so she , every now and then, falls back. Or 2, she likes you and trys to show you by flirting here and there but is waiting foryou to make the first move. We like for our men too be aggressive. Its hard to say which fits your case so my best advice is to go for it. The worse she can say is no. But your a aries so that shouldn't be too hard. Do you know what her moon sign is? Or your for that matter? U seem like a water moon

Posted by playswitfire83
Its hard to say but I think one of two things is happening. She either 1 knows that you like and she's not that into you. She makes small talk because she thinks your a cool person but doesn't want you to get any ideas so she , every now and then, falls back. Or 2, she likes you and trys to show you by flirting here and there but is waiting foryou to make the first move. We like for our men too be aggressive. Its hard to say which fits your case so my best advice is to go for it. The worse she can say is no. But your a aries so that shouldn't be too hard. Do you know what her moon sign is? Or your for that matter? U seem like a water moon

I was thinking exactly what you said it is one of the two things you said and wow your an amazing guesser,

Here is my chart and her's i have been doing compatibility with charts and she was more fire in her chart which would make her more compatible with me but, I have a cancer rising.

Me:
Rising Sign is in 25 Degrees Cancer
Sun is in 19 Degrees Aries.
Moon is in 00 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 29 Degrees Pisces.
Venus is in 09 Degrees Taurus.
Mars is in 25 Degrees Pisces.
Jupiter is in 12 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 08 Degrees Pisces.
Uranus is in 26 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 23 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 27 Degrees Scorpio.
N.Node is in 24 Degrees Scorpio.

Her:
Rising Sign is in 20 Degrees Sagittarius
Sun is in 25 Degrees Libra.
Moon is in 15 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 00 Degrees Scorpio.
Venus is in 17 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 07 Degrees Leo.
Jupiter is in 18 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 06 Degrees Pisces.
Uranus is in 22 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 20 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 26 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.

I say go for it ..... She's digging you. If she acts stank, get stank back. Balance her every move, but make sure you want the Libra, once we're in we move fast then get bored, pick it up a little, get scared, push you away, start testing you with annoying crap, piss you off and then want you back and just be prepared. We love easily, but not easy to love sometimes. I love Aries ... love love love, but y'all asses get bored too ..... lol.

U both have moon in aries so that's good, but your moon is very close to pisces which is prob why I thought you had a water moon...lol but from lookin at the charts I would think that she's really into confident, cocky, agressive type men. It seems like you may be more on the shyer side maybe. If you want to get her attention approach her with a lot of confidence (even if you have to fake it). Be sincere and straight forward. If she turns you down take it too the chin...lol don't take it personal because we can definitely play hard too get at times. Act like its no big deal. Speak to her, but not always first. If she acts like she doesn't see you, then act like you don't see her either (trust me! She'll notice). See what brews from there. But remember to be unfazed by a possible turn down. We tend to like our men not too emotional and very playful. Hope that helps

Posted by JOJOJO
I say go for it ..... She's digging you. If she acts stank, get stank back. Balance her every move, but make sure you want the Libra, once we're in we move fast then get bored, pick it up a little, get scared, push you away, start testing you with annoying crap, piss you off and then want you back and just be prepared. We love easily, but not easy to love sometimes. I love Aries ... love love love, but y'all asses get bored too ..... lol.

alright i will thank you for her advice and I will try and I don't give up that easily.

Posted by playswitfire83
U both have moon in aries so that's good, but your moon is very close to pisces which is prob why I thought you had a water moon...lol but from lookin at the charts I would think that she's really into confident, cocky, agressive type men. It seems like you may be more on the shyer side maybe. If you want to get her attention approach her with a lot of confidence (even if you have to fake it). Be sincere and straight forward. If she turns you down take it too the chin...lol don't take it personal because we can definitely play hard too get at times. Act like its no big deal. Speak to her, but not always first. If she acts like she doesn't see you, then act like you don't see her either (trust me! She'll notice). See what brews from there. But remember to be unfazed by a possible turn down. We tend to like our men not too emotional and very playful. Hope that helps

Alright thank you so much for your help and alright I'll try the mirroring thing, and I am confident it's that i'm cautious and dislike rejection, and really thanks again for the great advice =)

Posted by playswitfire83
U both have moon in aries so that's good, but your moon is very close to pisces which is prob why I thought you had a water moon...lol but from lookin at the charts I would think that she's really into confident, cocky, agressive type men. It seems like you may be more on the shyer side maybe. If you want to get her attention approach her with a lot of confidence (even if you have to fake it). Be sincere and straight forward. If she turns you down take it too the chin...lol don't take it personal because we can definitely play hard too get at times. Act like its no big deal. Speak to her, but not always first. If she acts like she doesn't see you, then act like you don't see her either (trust me! She'll notice). See what brews from there. But remember to be unfazed by a possible turn down. We tend to like our men not too emotional and very playful. Hope that helps

Also do you think i should ask for her number or is that being too straightforward?

Yes. Try to stay lighthearted but be straightforward and ask for her number. I hate rejection myself so I understand.

Posted by playswitfire83
Yes. Try to stay lighthearted but be straightforward and ask for her number. I hate rejection myself so I understand.

Alright I will tomorrow and yea no one likes rejection....

she's putting herself out there, and figures that if you like her, you'll meet her halfway. you don't, so she pulls back.

please don't mirror her. you'll just upset and confuse her. mirror her when she's being sweet, sure, and don't react at all when she isn't. smile more. if you seem interested but shy, make her feel like she's got the power to go after you, like she's a goddess to you, she'll probably put herself out further, maybe even make a move. but if you play games and make her feel like you're just jerking her around for fun, she will hate you. libras are very sensitive, and you shouldn't play with that. at least not if you're really into her.

Just gotta say WOW, Aries boy.. this Libra chick has you SPUN! I count FIVE threads started by you about her. Its adorable, yes - I'm a real sucker for romance, too. But you might be wise to ratchet it down a notch or two.. if she picks up on your crazy intensity, you might drive her away. Libras like it to be easy.. smooth-sailing.

Plus, I see your chart has a DELUGE of Water in it.. whoa dude, between that Aries fire and that Water intensity... careful you don't scare a Libra girl half to death while she's trying to weigh and balance and make her decision LOL

Posted by curious visitor
she's putting herself out there, and figures that if you like her, you'll meet her halfway. you don't, so she pulls back.

please don't mirror her. you'll just upset and confuse her. mirror her when she's being sweet, sure, and don't react at all when she isn't. smile more. if you seem interested but shy, make her feel like she's got the power to go after you, like she's a goddess to you, she'll probably put herself out further, maybe even make a move. but if you play games and make her feel like you're just jerking her around for fun, she will hate you. libras are very sensitive, and you shouldn't play with that. at least not if you're really into her.

hmm I don't want to play games with her at all, and i really would do anything for her, and alright thank you for the advice.

Posted by Nefer
Just gotta say WOW, Aries boy.. this Libra chick has you SPUN! I count FIVE threads started by you about her. Its adorable, yes - I'm a real sucker for romance, too. But you might be wise to ratchet it down a notch or two.. if she picks up on your crazy intensity, you might drive her away. Libras like it to be easy.. smooth-sailing.

Plus, I see your chart has a DELUGE of Water in it.. whoa dude, between that Aries fire and that Water intensity... careful you don't scare a Libra girl half to death while she's trying to weigh and balance and make her decision LOL

haha yes i really like her, and yea your right i have to learn to tone down my intensity.