Libra man: vague. or uninterested??

Ahhh.... Ok. Finally I can post this and stop talking to my friends who do not care about signs at all about it. There's this libra guy that I've had an ongoing.. something (??) with... for the past month or so... we've flirted a lot. texted and often ended up at the same parties (sometimes on purpose/by plan and sometimes by coincidence).. and one night we kissed in the middle of a party (it was so perfect laskdjfsdjf) and then he asked me if i wanted to come home with him.. all we did was kiss a lot and sleep in the same bed (and he held me.. close.. it was romantic more than anything... he wasn't sexually pressuring me or anything) in the morning he kept hugging me and being all cute and stuff. but THEN the next day he didnt text me or anything all day and i was so confused so finally i gave in and texted him and said "i had a really great time with you last night" and he was like "yeah me too we should hang out again sometime soon" but.. that didnt happen immediately. he seems to really love phrases like "SOMETIME SOON". he is the king of vague. but then four days later he called me and asked if i wanted to get dinner (!) and so we did.. and it was great in every single way... but he didn't kiss me or anything ... eh. after that i was .. confused again. no calls or texts. saw him at a party and he kind of just acted odd like he always does.. i was a bit rude to him though, because im frankly getting sick of this. there are a whole lot of details im leaving out that basically consist of fairly pathetic texts Ive sent him. but i've been very direct with him. i.e. "Get dinner with me - or should i just leave you alone?" and he always responds positively "Yeah lets get dinner. When are you free?" .. is he just being a people pleaser?? he never follows through. i never really allow myself to get into this embarassing of a situation with a guy. i hate being at his mercy like this, haha. HELP! should i just stop — (i almost think i cant.. ive tried.. he has some kind of power over me) (and for reference i'm a Leo. major.).

-Taryn

yes, i think that your best bet would be to remove yourself from the situation--dont dwell on the situation and let him come to you, if he wants. SOme guys, it seems, just like the chase.

Don't wait around he's playing games . If he wanted u off the break he would be on ur heels. Believe me when I say Libra go after an get what we want.

Aye. Okay. This hurts to hear. But thanks. I am a bit too prideful I guess. Time to admit defeat, haha. Thanks everyone.

Sweetsherrie, what do you mean it takes a strong woman to keep them?

strong woman?
we're not talking about scorpios here are we? *grin*

This scorp was not strong enough to keep the Libra ... that's for sure.


@ Tiny - Been there; done that. It took almost 3 months for my Libra ex to even kiss me when we started dating. They are not in any hurry ... for anything. That man had more patience than I've ever seen. Almost to the point, I found him lazy. Maybe, perhaps, soon ... all common words. He never committed to anything concrete. And he even had a Leo rising!!!!! Our moons were swapped (mine in Libra; his in Scorp). Wasn't going to work ... My issue (as a water sign) is that air can't connect to us the way we'd like. They have a detachment from things that I feel should be present in a romantic connection.

To each, his own ...