Librans, why are you so complicated?

what's up with endless knots of strategies and mind games? more so the girls than the guys! omg every one of them they have a whole agenda of pointless manipulation 'to do's just for the heck of it! is it like you love drama? do you identify with this?

I appreciate some light on it since I attract lots of librans and even if I like them I'm petrified of getting into their web of deceit! do they spare the ones they love or manipulate them too?

an example: last year a friend of mine (leo guy) had a problem with my libran friend she bluntly lied to me that he borrowed money from her and refuses it so she asked me to get it from him since he's blocked her number. I found out he never borrowed anything, he just wasn't talking to her so this was her effort to make him. now she's threatened him saying she's gonna get some of her friends to beat him up for not talking to her! he isn't a macho one so he cracked! no, it's not about love or anything, she's married to a fat scorp for 3 years. I straight out asked her why? and she just kept changing subject and never game me a proper answer of try to play victim.

now don't get me wrong I love love librans that's why I even care to ask! also if you think it has nothing to do with astro but rather with people, then I've seen far too many coincidences. finally, what do you think about cancerians?

Cancerian girls: Super sensitive..over emotional ..this one thing leads to thousands of problems in their lives!! Always confused between what their head says and what their heart says! Finally they end up giving priority to their heart by winning the battle and convincing themselves by giving all possible 'positive' outcomes and very intellectually ignores the negative ones..resulting into endless disappointment and sleepless nights with wet pillows.
Though, they are very very emotional but they are not weak and knows very well how to handle themselves!
Once hurt..never forgets! Loves pampering..and in love..they give everything thdi partner needs just to make them happy! Loves compliments..very caring and gets attached to everything having even the slightest importance in life.
Gets affected and hurt by rude behaviour and acts like a mother when some one needs them.
Sometimes they may seem stupid but that's just because they are victims of over emotional hearts! They just cannot be practical!

I don't believe it has anything to do with loving drama, quite the contrary; From what I see they prefer to avoid any type of conflict. Sure it might feel like manipulation but from what I've experienced I believe it is moreso to figure you out, see what makes you tick. Just takes time and patience and that's going to depend on how you handle it. There is the old saying that goes "two can play that game," though it us ultimately up to what you think or feel. Don't let them get your goat. When my Libra does that shit to me, I just let them know where I stand and give the cold shoulder. The response is usually quiet and I let them have their time alone for a few days to sort it out. The mind games as you might call them tend to subside because they know full well what the consequences will be if not and they cannot stand the thought of that. Of course, not one size fits all where a solution is concerned. It's going to depend of course how well you know your Libra (in my case it's been 10+ years). As far as Cancer goes, I have to agree with the post from Iris above. Good luck!

Well, that's a different take..most of the gripes here are usually about Libra men...lol, but to answer your question, I'm going out on a limb and say most Libra's don't do drama. She may have some other placements that makes her crave drama and attention. Maybe Leo or Aries?? Aside from that, she just sounds like a butt wipe that likes to keep crap going. That's an individual thing. I personally stay away from Drama..PREFER to remain peaceful.

@Gemguyaz34 is correct when it comes to certain Libra behavior. Ignore the hell out of them and let them know they do not have the power of persuasion or manipulation over you. Libra's hate to be ignored.

I have two very close Cancer friends that are sweet as pie, but their very emotional at times. Sometimes overkill, but I realized that is just who they are. I have learn to accept it because aside from that, they are truly the type of people who will always be there when you need them. Cancers and Libra are a lot alike when it comes to committed love and friends relationship. Very giving of their time and energy to the people they love and allow into their inner circle.

Posted by gemguyaz34
I don't believe it has anything to do with loving drama, quite the contrary; From what I see they prefer to avoid any type of conflict. Sure it might feel like manipulation but from what I've experienced I believe it is moreso to figure you out, see what makes you tick. Just takes time and patience and that's going to depend on how you handle it. There is the old saying that goes "two can play that game," though it us ultimately up to what you think or feel. Don't let them get your goat. When my Libra does that shit to me, I just let them know where I stand and give the cold shoulder. The response is usually quiet and I let them have their time alone for a few days to sort it out. The mind games as you might call them tend to subside because they know full well what the consequences will be if not and they cannot stand the thought of that. Of course, not one size fits all where a solution is concerned. It's going to depend of course how well you know your Libra (in my case it's been 10+ years). As far as Cancer goes, I have to agree with the post from Iris above. Good luck!

oh finally something that reasons their ways! the Librans I've known are not for more than 2 years. true about 'two can play that game' lol, I really should work on it.

I remember some incidents where I yelled at them and they just stopped messing, though only for a short while! I guess there is just no permanent fixes huh? and what did you mean by "consequences"?

Posted by LIb4Life
Well, that's a different take..most of the gripes here are usually about Libra men...lol, but to answer your question, I'm going out on a limb and say most Libra's don't do drama. She may have some other placements that makes her crave drama and attention. Maybe Leo or Aries?? Aside from that, she just sounds like a butt wipe that likes to keep crap going. That's an individual thing. I personally stay away from Drama..PREFER to remain peaceful.

@Gemguyaz34 is correct when it comes to certain Libra behavior. Ignore the hell out of them and let them know they do not have the power of persuasion or manipulation over you. Libra's hate to be ignored.

I have two very close Cancer friends that are sweet as pie, but their very emotional at times. Sometimes overkill, but I realized that is just who they are. I have learn to accept it because aside from that, they are truly the type of people who will always be there when you need them. Cancers and Libra are a lot alike when it comes to committed love and friends relationship. Very giving of their time and energy to the people they love and allow into their inner circle.

yeah maybe it's just her and and the drama. crossing fingers on "ignore the hell"

Posted by Sugarfoot
I don't think Libras are all about keeping up drama. Lib4life hit on our issues when she said, let Libras know you're not susceptible to their persuasive techniques. Libra will try to get their way because we think our way is the best way. LOL.

If you're strong willed and you're dealing with a Libra that has some morals, usually, they will back off. Basically, if you want the games to stop, get a backbone, or just stop dealing with them. I don't like drama so I don't even keep people around me who do things like what you described.

Many of my Librans are peace loving, decent people although the manipulation part is never out of reach it's just minimal but the ones I've known that resort to malicious extremities are ONLY October ones (esp 10 - 19). all the September ones I know are like different people altogether!

yeah it kinda makes sense about the backbone part he should have stood up when she tried to do shit like that to another scorp guy it totally backfired.
Now that I'm not talking to her although I know she does awful things to the leo guy I feel guilty but oh the peace!

@ princessacancersagittaire:

Ha! Malicious extremities? Really? The October ones? Those are some of the best!

But seriously, when I speak of consequences I'm speaking more from the relationship aspect. It means that if you get me upset (and with Libra I have a lot of patience being a Gemini) I WILL go out of my way to avoid you, give you absolute cold treatment and crass treatment, no sex (which they love), no cuddling, no niceties of any sort. I will leave you guessing about what I'm doing. Lib4Life is absolutely correct with how she said it above. They will go absolutely bonkers wondering if I am writing them off and starting to see someone else or move on with my life without giving two craps. However, this is taking it to an extreme when you have done something to really burn me.

Now, for the most part it never gets that bad, so long as there is good communication and reciprocation; but it has, with the worst being a three year hiatus where I moved on and did my own thing. I had to place the ball in their court, I had no choice. "What other choice do I have?" was my conclusion. When you get ignored, or an individual wants to play games with your heart and mind and it begins to effect you emotionally and mentally, and it begins to have negative impacts on your daily life, that's when you begin to realize and need consider how much you have vested and what the friendship or relationship is worth to you. The same, then it is also the time to allow them the time to consider the same.

...Talk about really tipping the scales so to speak.

In the end, the best thing to do is just communicate your issue in a fair and balanced way and stand firm if you really believe you have been wronged in some way. Many times yes, they will go quiet because they are really trying to understand what they did wrong, so just back off. It's really about all you can do until they are willing to see the other side, which they will eventually.

I will add in closing, many times my issues have been a result of just a simple misunderstanding between us. Sometimes my Libra will get per-occupied with work and other things that they simply are so distracted they forget about the little things, which in that case I come to the conclusion it's not intentionally being done to me. You have to see it from their way and see what is fair and what isn't. Now, on the other hand if they are just being downright mean for no reason, that's another story.

nice, I could see how this would work. being a Cancerian, my "consequences" are more like yelling, crying or confrontational, I think gemini consequences are relatable to Librans I see, mine might make them further confused lol. thanks for the light on it. cheers.