living with a libra?

Okay, my brother is a Libra and I'm a Virgo. His birthday is October 22, and mine is September 14. He invites me to come live with him a couple weeks ago. He's 31 and I'm about to be 22. Here's the problem, we are getting along fine and I feel a sibling connection with him but there is some tension. Now I do not know where it stems from but sometimes he just looks at me with this look in his eye. We haven't seen each other in years. I think we're getting along but tonight he seemed a little annoyed. So we're getting along, but at times there is tension. And tonight he seemed annoyed I guess I was hyper or watever. I can't tell what he's thinking and I really want this living situation to work out.

I'm a virgo so I can understand them being logical and practical with their emotions, but I really cannot tell what he's thinking right now. He slept on the floor the passed two nights but then tonight he slept on the bed. Does this mean I sleep on the floor? He's also been a little picky about me using his body wash?

OMG, go and buy ALL of your own stuff..nobody likes to have their kindness abused, family or not. Regards to sleeping arrangements, best get that question out in the open TODAY..he wont start the conversation because of the confrontational angle, so take this advice and start it up asap. Maybe you??re too much, are you studying or looking for a job?? "familiarity beeds contempt"..im just saying!!!

i'm not sure how all libras are on this, but i'm really high strung when it comes to having people on my turf. home is home, and it's for me. i don't share it easily. i don't let people come over much, and if i do, i'm nervous the whole time. will they fuck something up? do they need something? are they comfortable? i don't want to be pushy about my hospitality, but what if they don't ask me for something but really want to? and plus, he's not really a libra. he's a lorprio (libra-scorp cusper). that makes them even more territorial and possessive.

don't use his body wash though. omg. don't do that. don't ever use anything of a libra's without asking. and if it's less than half full, don't ever ask at all. omg. you don't understand how our minds work. we keep so much information in the back of our minds. we work things out subconsciously. so he's got his body wash, and he's subconsciously figuring out when he'll need to get more, and for the sake of efficiency he'll want to group that with another errand he'll have to run, hopefully at the same store where he'll get the body wash. and ideally he'll do it on his way home. now he has to readjust his plans. of course, he could just have one day a week where he gets what he'll need in advance, but that's not really a libra thing. that's a virgo thing. we wait til the last minute.

most libras are also really picky about the things they use. our tastes are very specific. if that's the body wash he has, that's the one he likes.

libras are nervous and high strung and hyper just like virgos can be. we just have a really calm facade. we seem lazy, but that's because we work so much out in our minds. we seem like we're just sitting there, but you don't know what our brains are doing. someone else will spend all day working on something, while a libra will spend all day sitting on his ass, then do that same thing in the last 30 minutes. people will think "omg, imagine if he was always that productive", but that's because they don't understand that libra isn't really any more productive. he's just doing it differently.

just assume that there's method to his madness. and that anything that seems easy and thoughtless is probably more involved than it seems. we like to seem chill and easygoing, but we aren't.

as for the bed issue. libras are freaks. they don't want to sleep in the same bed as their slightly beyond jailbait sister. holy fuck, i can't imagine sleeping in the same bed as my little brother (9 years different also, a sag). i don't even feel comfortable sleeping in the same bed as a platonic friend or casual sex partner. i'll sleep next to someone if i am in love with them. otherwise, i'll just toss and turn and wake up a million times. and i don't have a dick. wouldn't you freak out if you woke up and he was sleeping there with his dick poking the sheet up? holy fuck. if you don't have a couch you can sleep on, do yourself a favor and get a couple of those comforter/bed topper things, pile them up on the floor and call that bed. you can roll them up and they'll be out of the way.

speaking of freaks, while i wouldn't try to do anything with my actual brother, well, i've had vague sibling/relative fantasies before. i've definitely checked out my cousins. again, they're my cousins and i'm not gonna try to cross that boundary. but i'd tear apart the capricorn one. damn is he a fox. at least i've torn him apart a few times in daydreams. yes, i have daydreamed about fucking my cousin.

he probably hasn't thought of you like that specifically. but he is probably a lot dirtier than you want to think he is. and you're probably a fairly attractive young lady. in his bed. how the fuck is that not supposed to make him uncomfortable.

Posted by curious visitor
i'm not sure how all libras are on this, but i'm really high strung when it comes to having people on my turf. home is home, and it's for me. i don't share it easily. i don't let people come over much, and if i do, i'm nervous the whole time. will they fuck something up? do they need something? are they comfortable? i don't want to be pushy about my hospitality, but what if they don't ask me for something but really want to? and plus, he's not really a libra. he's a lorprio (libra-scorp cusper). that makes them even more territorial and possessive.

Im soo like this too! Out of all my friends I have the biggest house but never invite people round! my house is MY house! I have finally came to the conclusion that i could never live with anyone! I hate my space being intruded i am very particular and set in my ways

I am one of the most generous people going but my stuff is MY STUFF!!! if you do not have what you need i will take you shopping and buy it all for you just dont touch mine.

I always remember being young and buying some crisps from the shop, i offered to buy my sister a bag and she didnt want them, she then asked me for a crisp and i said no. everyone was shocked at my behaviour but they were MY crisps, if she wanted some she should have let me buy her some 😛

omg. for real.

and i'm a hypocrite, because i'll totally mooch off other people's food. shamelessly.

for me, once i have an amount of food, i have decided how much i'm going to eat. and if i won't eat all of it, i've decided when i'm going to eat it later on. so if someone tries to take some of it, i will freak out. if i keep it inside instead of actually yelling, that's love. i've got to really care about someone for not screaming at them if they take one of my french fries.

if you're gonna steal from me, steal a couple bucks and buy your own damn fries with it. i would honestly be less pissed off.

cousins are legal...just

Curious Vistor made the most sense to me because he talked about the issue that I'm the most concerned about and put it into a real perspective. Such as: Yes, I am his just over jail bait sister, and YES, it would be weird if I woke up and his dick was poking up the bed sheets. And Yes he probably is dirtier than I'd like to think he is and this probably does make him uncomfortable but a couple of ya'll also made sense to me. Like yeah he is probably still getting used to be around me after all these years and it probably is still a bit strange. Now the reason we haven't seen each other for years is because we have different moms and his mom lives on the east coast and my mom lives on the west coast. we're old enough now to decide where we want to live so I decided to move to the east coast. Okay so everyone made some sense and this helped me get into the libra's mind. YOU GUYS ARE SO RIGHT HE DOES seem like he's just sitting there...

tonight we had the sex talk he told me "no sex with anyone unless you get tested, half the city is infected and if the guy can't meet you at 2:-- in the afternoon than he's not worth it anyway," then he said "wait until you find the special someone." it was so cute !! lol

Posted by PandorasBox
Coco: That is so adorable lol!! Lucky you have someone who's lookin out for you & has your back 🙂!

Lol no ToC, it's just you and your dirty mind..

I do have a dirty mind... but ToC is right! I got that same impression.

@LibraLuv what Decan are you? I have been doing some research with fellow Libras and the "My stuff is mine" thing seems to be a third Decan trait lol

Im not that clued up on the Decans, there was a post on the Libra board a month or so ago about them. Im 3rd Decan too (13th) best Decan in my opinion and not just because i am one 🙂 lol

Posted by libra sun
@LibraLuv what Decan are you? I have been doing some research with fellow Libras and the "My stuff is mine" thing seems to be a third Decan trait lol

Just wondering, does that apply to SO's too? I remembered I used my guy's body wash too, but I have told him that I used some of his after I used them. He answered it's fine but I don't know if it bothered him. 🙂

Posted by Inertia1128

Posted by libra sun
@LibraLuv what Decan are you? I have been doing some research with fellow Libras and the "My stuff is mine" thing seems to be a third Decan trait lol

Just wondering, does that apply to SO's too? I remembered I used my guy's body wash too, but I have told him that I used some of his after I used them. He answered it's fine but I don't know if it bothered him. 🙂

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With me it applies to EVERYONE. my stuff is mine lol. I hate people touching my things. Mine could be the 99p version and I would still prefer you not to touch it. Some things I will let go if i think im being unreasonable but inside I will still be annoyed.