love or hate this libra!

first of all im new 2 this but ima try 2 make this living nightmare short.im a aries an ive been dating a libra man 4 3yrs an its been hell!ive known him 4 17yrs and we dated a lil bk then we broke it off because of rumors wich wasnt true but he believed them anyway.so 3 yrs ago we seen each other at a club an we exchain nb.we talk 4 2 months b4 we had sex again an it was amazing!sorry 4 me but i was hooked and once he realized that the nightmare began!he is the biggest liar i have ever met.we stay 125miles from each other we would make plans 2 b together the wkend when i would come in town i would pay 4 the hotels and every thing i would get there at 3pm an he would get ther at 10pm!he would leave go 2 the clubs with his home boys an just leave me ther alone!mind u i allowed this 2 happen over 10times!am i stupid or what?what made matters worse i found out he has a wife!3or 4 other outside women!an when i confronted him bout the wife and other women he told the truth bout the wife but the other women he just flat out lied!b 4 i found out the truth he would always tell me he loved me!majority he wuld say it when we were having sex and i wold always tell him show me u love me an it never happend!its like the more i showerd him with love the more he treatd me like crap.the lst time we talkd i startd crying cause i couldt believe he was such a liar.when he heard me crying he started 2 laugh!and that hurtd worsier.he will not apologize.he had the nerve 2 tell me he had not did anything 2 me!i hadnot talk 2 him in a wk.guess what?he txt my phone this morning an ask was i in town an had the nerve 2 ask me could he see me!can ay 1 tell me whats wrong with this libra?cause im afraid he has something up his sleeve!by the way i have enough dirt on him that would rock his world!i think he believes ima use it against him but im not that type of person even doe i want 2 break his heart like he did mine!so wt do yall think bout this libr?by the way im aries.

He is just using you for sex. He admitted he has a wife. Why would you want to continue with this then? He laughed at you when you were crying. A real man does not do that.

Well if you're okay with having just a sexual relationship, then continue to see him. He's horrible to laugh at you crying about being hurt, I don't see that as a Libra trait. We hate hurting someone even though it seems to happen often on DXP, but you allowed him to much room to not respect the relationship. Libras are flirts so you don't allow them no room to be a hoe, when Libra move, you move! Now that the truth is out, are you going to continue to see him?

no. i refuse 2 date a married man!through all the b.s i still care 4 my libra but acually im cutting ties 4 his wifes sake!i respect her mo than him an i dont even no her.she gots 2 b strong as hell!or just plain stupid like i once was 2 put up with him!this man is off the chain!by the way when i hooked bk up with this guy 3yr ago he looked like a bummie!lol.i bought him clothes,shoes,jewels an as a person on the outside lookin in he had nothing!i told him our last convo any an everything i have did 4 u count it as a blessing!an i hung up.he has not called or txt.i txt him last night an ask him do he feel bad 4 all the lies an the way he played me he still hasnt respond!i thought at least he would apologize!but no apologys from him but it doesnt matter cause im fed up an cutting ties an hope the best 4 him!

wow! yes the sex was amazing!we did things that would acually put him 2 shame and he knows that.like i said we dont live in the same city but i have a friend thst comes and tells me every thing i found out he tells all the ladys he luv them!i use 2 call him my boo an the city he lives in you dnt hear folks using that slang!come 2 find out he has start calling his outside females boo!now aint that b.s?but im done!this man might b a walking std!nxt wk im having a complete physical.

don't feel sorry for his wife because they must have some kind of understanding. If he's out with all these different women, I'm sure she knows. If she is indeed pissed about, she's got a plan .... no doubt!

He's Libra, so no need to question his actions. If he's fine with what he's doing, he will see no wrong in it. So if you're not ready to get blamed for everything, let it go. You got to get out of bed sometimes and make coffee - WAKE UP CHICK!!!! Sorry.

but sometimes i feel as though this man has hexd me or something.God forbid!all my family and friends tell me baby ur just 2 fine and fly 4 him.and i know all these things bout him but it seems as if i cant get him out my mind!im not contacting him.but i want 2 so bad!and im afraid when im in his city ima run into himmy son and nephew r up and coming rap stars!and i dress them 4 there shows.and i know as soon as i see him hes going 2 turn on the charm!ive been thinkn not 2 even attend the show so i want run into him.by the way what i mean hexd over the last 3yrs we have dreamd the same dreams on the same night.right b 4 i cut ties with him he told me he started a garden an i b dern i started a garden the same day.i could go on an on but its kinda spooky!do any 1 know what that means 2 have a connection like that or is it just rubbish?

starfish225 i have heard about soulties and i believe thats what it is thats y i say its kinda spooky an yes i wish him well sometimes and then i think about all the dirt he has done and it makes me want 2 get even of course i know thats the wrong thing 2 do i just want him 2 feel the pain i think ima gonna let patience and time=karma do her job on him.of course im aries and patience is hard.by the way this is the first man i have ever allowed 2 do such thats y all my family and friends think im nuts!

There is always someone better... that needed to be repeated ...

lol nogames... walk away and don't look back - NOT even to remain friends!!!!!!!!!
The attraction between opposite signs is strong and air signs guys especially Libra and Aquarius guys have a way of suckng you in by word/mannerisms/mentally/intellectually, etc...

I don't mean to be so judgemental but some of the biggest low lives for messing with women even after they are married have been Libras and Aqua guys... The best thing about it is, they will always blame the woman... even though in their communities, these guys may want everyone to see them as respectable 🙂


There will be other libra guys to come! I'm an aries meslef, the attraction is fatal once developed...don't let it develop please... good luck!

yeah jojojo i know that theres some 1 better.but after this i need a breather no more dating until i get him completley out of my system i dont want 2 drag all the mishaps in that relationship in2 another 1.honestly i think he is afraid of pretty women.cause the ones i have seen also the wife looks a hot mess im not trya bash the women but its a shame those women would want 2 carry themselves like that.i have heard libra men like beauty?but this 1 i think not.

well im sorry 2 tell u zenalchemy ive already been thru the fatal attraction part that was 2yrs ago i would blow his phone up calling and txtn i would apologize 2 him 4 things he had done 2 me.now thats crazy or what?like i sayd thru out the whole 3yrs this man has never apologized.

help.my niece calld me 2night and told me she is at the club with the libra from hell and he came over 2 the table where her an her sister is sitting and she ask him dnt i know u?and he ask her how she knew him and when she called my name he replied (i dnt no who that is)good as i have been 2 this man!i think its time 4 me 2 turn on my aries wrath.he has seen nothing but good of me and its as if though he wants me 2 click off!and im afraid if i release my wrath its going 2 get ugly!

now i b this is my second phone call 2night the second call was from a guy friend of mines and hes telling me libra man from hell is going around telling people he broke up with me cause i was a drama queen and i liked 2 pick arguments is he psycho or what?i cut ties with his dumb butt!i just cant believe i showerd him with so much love and he acts as if though im his enemey.when i cut ties i tryd doing it in peace and i tought he agreed with moving on in peace!do any 1 think this libra from hell wants me 2 click off on him?

omg mr.libra called last night and left a voice msg.and this is what he sayd"i just called 2 c how ur doing every thang all good" what do mr.libra have up his sleeve?the last convo i had with him was about moving on!i dnt want him any mo.do any 1 thinks he feels a lil guilty 4 going around town bashing me 4 no good reason?

Ahhhh the torrid lusty love affairs between Aries and Libra! How about this for size....

Libra is often attracted to Aries physically. They tend to fall hard for them, but it usually falls within the 'lust' region.

And he is married? He has other women? He isn't faithful to anyone; so he won't be to you. Libra's can be faithful; but only when they want to be, and when they have surely soared what ever oats are left in their system.

If you were the object of his love and affection (to which you should accept no less) he would not be at the club. He would not pretend that he doesn't know you, and he sure would not mess around with numerous women. From what I gathered here - this guy is JERKIN you.

I would not chalk this up to being a Libra. He sees you for one thing, and one thing only. My Libra had his issues in the beginning, and most of the good I never noted here (I guess because who wants to brag about the good... I needed HELP! LOL) But I will tell you what - I've got a Libra in pure Libra form.

He loves me to death. He is considerate almost to a fault. He holds me right at level with his mother and bf. He tells me that he loves me. He spends tons of time with me and is extremely attentive. Libras can be wonderful to be with - if you've got them in the right light. It sounds to me that you've got yourself an inbalanced Libra that doesn't know what he wants. In that case - those types of Libra's are a mess. RUN.

Every sign has a shi*tty side. It looks to me that's what he's giving you...