male Librans, offer your opinions please!

first of all, let me say "I am a Scorp".
now a request: please don''t shoot me for it!

Gentlemen, I am seemingly drawn to the Libran male...

How do I keep my husband''s interest?
Why does he require so much ego stroking?
It there a "best way" to build his shaky self-esteem?
Do you have any advise on ways to NOT treat him?

I know he thinks I pull away emotionally (and I do, seems like one cannot help it!)
He is horribly romantic--i''m not
He is not self-concious--i am
His feelings are VERY easy to hurt and I don''t try to...just seems to happen.

ANY advise on the care and feeding of the Libran male appreciated, guys...anything at all.
We''ve been together for almost 8 years and I''d like to keep him.

Thanks,

~fanta~

More sex, better sex...libra males communicate through sex....

I had a Scorp girl once....and the only thing we ever had right was the sex...

Did I say that? 🙂

Thanks, Bork!

the sex is well the sex is BLAND. very.
yuck. and all the see-through nighties and bondage gear in the world don't seem to bring a sparkle to his eyes.
gee...one would think she was playing alone.
so how do i wake him up? it's like that commercial from a few years back: "everytime the lights go out, YOU fall asleep...
i'm taking notes, oh guru....thank you for any clues.
fanta

Fonta-

I am a female Scorp, totally in love with a libra. He is the love of my
live!
I see your concerns with your Husband-everything but the sex.
I know that is one thing that me and my libra have right. One sugestion
on how to get his attention.. Kissing in public, wispers in his ear when
you are at dinner, and the best is betting for "favors" at a game of pool
or poker—? Not sure what your past times are, showing him attention
durring the day will get you his attention during the night.
As far as the ego stroking - I have no idea why they require so much
- maybe they are just so unsure of them selfs. I do not know—
But I love my Libra so much - I am always giving him cheesey
complements.
I know he does not like to be screamed at or embarassed in public, and
I often do, Like you I have a tendency to hurt his feelings not sure how
I do it. But man do I feel it when I do. I am little bit selfish and often
I do not think of his feelings or even consider what he is doing before
I make plans. That is something that I have worked on, and it really took
consitration. I had to train myself to ask him "How was you day". I know
that is a terrible truth. I think I think too much on my day and don't
think about other peoples problems, but I am getting better at it 🙂

Not sure if I am helping - some times wonder what he thinks of me,
but I am sure I am one puzzle he will never figure out(gota love
scorp woman - we keep it interesting if nothing else)

Funny thing is we have been together for 8 years as well - can't
get enough of this man.

Good Luck!

I'ld look to the communication in your relationship....better communication usually equates to better sex...talking and listening much more closely is the key....

Yet, it is hard to do if both partners have large dominant ego's....most scorp women and libra men do....which can make for fantastic, wild animal, hair pulling, butt slapping, strap me down, orgy sex leading to religious awakening and personal communication with God....if the fighting to be in charge doesn't kill ya first🙂 (also meet God, but not as much fun)

By the way...the ego stroking needed by the Libra male is also usually equally required by the Scorpio female...ego can be powerfull and dominant...but also the reverse...it will tell you you rule the world just before it calls you a loser...

In this way the Libra's greatest strength is also their greatest weakness...much like the scales they represent. Keep 'em confident and they should perform agressively and caringly🙂 Too confident and they become blind, abusive and ugly; not confident enough and they turn inside to hide out.

Complicated...sure, but no other sign does "it" better when it's right.

Bork- I agree- communication is the key. I have a hard time opening up. You ,know what they say about scorps -"we keep a mystery about us" I want to share every thing about myself, and want to know every thing about him. I do not know why I don't just ask more questions. I am not sure why I am like that. It is almost if - If I am content in the relationship on that day- I do not need to speak to him- It is as if I already know what he is thinking at times so I do not have to ask - but you know what they say about ASS U ME ing things makes an ass out of u and me. trying to stop looking like an ass all the time🙂 keep the faith on the libra scorp relationship. I believe it is hot steamy, can't get enough of the lovin kind of relationship that keeps my attention.

My dad is a libra, two brothers are libra's and I'm a libra in love w/ Scorpio. Two people can't be more different. To Libra men, less is more. Try wearing his shirt w/ a g-string under it. If you are up to it have a mental battle, challenging and asking them questions and opinions. Don't be over complimentary, be original, because they have heard it all before. Sensuous banter goes a long way. Be seductive, never slutish. A libra male wants you to be wild freak (only in bed) and immediately become a socialite

Libra males need security. If they have that, they don't need all the stroking. Show appreciation. Scorpians tend to forget to say thank you. Save the sharp tongue for someone else. Romance leads to lust for a Libra. Go with it and you will see. I think you Scorps are scared of romance. Challenge his mind. Libra's are bored with ignorance.

as a libra female, i find i dont get along with libra men! why? i dont know. i find they dont like me. we fight all the time. i have noticed this with three libra men. one i dated. one is my boss and one is a relative! any advice? p.s. the loves of my life have always been scorpios/twice and the relationship was always incredibly passionate and transcending