woman's talk

WOMAN's WEAR seems to be problem of you?What do you men mind about your woman's wears? Would you mind about your woman wearing too sexy? Would you like your woman to look beautiful in the eyes of other men or just yourself?
I guess every men like their woman knows how to beautify herself in any occasions.But their enemy is always TIME. Men,most of the time feels impatient to wait for their woman to beautify herself.Sometimes we're forced to rush when being push and after all feels really no mood to make ourselve pretty but just keep everything simple.But,when we keep everything simple for the sake of being ready fast, men will say how come you look just being that simple?? So, the problem??

LOL. . . All the guys I know don't appreciate what you're wearing unless it's off. It seems not to be what you wear, but rather what you don't wear, that's the key. 😛

ware what you want if your man doesn't like it change the man. Its cheaper that way.

I think it all depends on how you wear you clothes. If your clothes match your personality, and you can MAKE them look good, well then you've got it all under control.

Thx! especially my april baby!!Ya ya morgan u r right,wearing clothes that match ur personality is the best and sometimes i choose my cloth depend on mood of the day... hehe! Everytime when somebody rush me to be faster i normally wont wear dress instead keep everything simple with a pair of jean and shirt.Sometimes even not have time put on balance make up or no make up at all.I rather not put on make up with such kind of situation most of the time, much better than look weird if the make up is imbalance! It's really true... lol! Well, i actually like to put on plain make-up with cold color unless special occasion.Some guys dont expect their girl to put on make up cos they prefer natural beauty or .. scare their girl spend their money on cosmestic products?? Or that they dont want their girl to look pretty that attract other guys to her? Dont know whether is their sense of insecurity or they really prefer natural beauty? So that depends on the man you r with.... So guys which side r you? What is your points?? Sometimes men feel tired if their girl being just that simple without beautify herself much. -->They will like y the hell you r so slow,faster c'mon you look very pretty already. When get ready to go with him, he'll look at u funnily and ask what's wrong with u?(u will ask yourself whether your dress wear improperly,hair is a mess or make up imbalance—??).With little time how we gonna make ourselves look nice? Other time... yelling at you, hey! what the hell you spend too much on cosmestic?? Thinking that you r somekind of waster or materialistic. LOL! weird right?
Sorry guys not to pick up on u... but just hope to share something and come to a point. Or just for some of you to understand what women's need.Or maybe something to laugh at! Hahahaha! Girls..... so?? Any of u got the same experience or feeling as mine? Haha!

I don't spend a lot of money on cosmetics. . . I prefer natural beaty. However yes, I do enjoy dressing up on occasion. Normally the guy I'm with doesn't complain either way, since I ballance the situations out. The only time he's shaken my head at me was halloween, when he thought I overdressed. . . LOL. . . Actually I think that was just because I dressed up at all. Actually I think he thinks I'm just nuts in general, so anything goes.

I agree with you Aprilbaby, 100% .

A guy who says I prefer natural beauty is a f..kin liar.....in other words, he's bloody scared that if his girl looks too good, all the other guys are gonna be round her like honey-bees....it's all about his insecurities on his part!!!!!

Seriously though, it's all about subtlety.....hints of flesh rather than mountains and volumes of clevage etc......I remember being on a beach in Greece years and years ago and talking to a wise older guy who just happened to be lying next to me.....I was wearing quite a conservative bikini and the rest of the beach was topless and bottom-less almost...I always remember his words.....he said yes, for the first 5 minutes a man's eyes will zoom in on the sexy tarty no clothes lady but after 5 minutes, boredom sets in....over-exposure to anything and anybody breeds contempt....men love to use their imagination and if it ain't on all view, it's so more seductive and alluring.

Another good tip for ladies...always wear matching ligerie..ie. black bra and knickers...never different colours - so unsexy and just so no-go!!!

Black is the ultimate sexy lingerie tool.....ok so your reds, whites, purples, blues are all nice, pretty, pretty but for sheer lust and adventures iinto the unknown, go for black:-)!!

A x

Alana we are not all like that O.K. most of men are but not all. But you hit one thing right on black, there is nothing sexer than a black outfit on a woman, and when its covered you are right imagination does set in. I got to go now this is the closest thing to sex Ive had in awhile.

I do have to say I prefer wearing the black lingerie. It can be trashy or sophistocated, depending on the piece and its cut/material, but generally I do really like black. I'm not sure whether men really do like so-called natural beauty; I believe they, or some do, but at the same time, I think if they were being honest they would say, "it depends on the woman"/"some women look better with it on, others look better with it not on". I'll be honest...I probably wouldn't wear makeup at all, not a bit of it, if I thought I looked stunningly gorgeous and perfect without it "just naturally", said a la Scarlett O-Hara.. lol...but...I have the moon in Virgo thing, what can I say...I strive for perfection (not necessarily saying I always attain it. lol) 😛

yep... I meant "Mars in Virgo". Hrm...maybe it isn't prevalent in my chart today. 🙂

Point taken old jake about every man not being like that:-) I guess I was making a "sweeping generalization" there, as is my trademark sometimes-)!!! You're dead right about lady in black.....funny enough the two colours that suit me most are black and also white....don't know what that means exactly...or maybe I do!!!!!.....I can go from being the madonna to the whore in the blink of an eye!!!:-)

Ciao for now my pal.
Alana x


P.S. Phoenix Rising....we all know you are stunningly gorgeous and perfect with or without the makeup:-) And how do we know...by what you write my friend...your inner beauty shines through in your posts:-) There you go....made your day!!!!! Keep Rising you beautiful phoenix:-)