Any Libra moons afraid to be single

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RoseTheTaurus
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My best friend is a Taurus sun, libra moon, gemini venus, cancer mars. She has been single for a little less than a month and even though I know she no longer wants her ex... We just had a looonnnggg introspective conversation about lonliness. She told me she hates being alone and feels "empty" without a mate. That when she's without a boyfriend, she feels totally unbalanced (her word). While we were talking I could tell that she was coming to realize and trying to cope, with the fact she cannot be alone for more than??_ well she prefers to not be alone at all. She will make almost any sacrifice or compromise to be in a relationship and have love in her life.
She told me, she meets a guy and then "dreams" this guy into the man she wants. My best friend is absolutely strong, confident and all around amazing, but her Achilles heel is this fact that she can't and I mean she CANNOT stand to be alone. The irony is that as important as love is to her, she can't get it right because she's got to get it so fast. A man crosses her path and BAM. He's it. She engages him and immediately starts morphing to fit his romantic ideal. I don't even know if she really "sees" these guys she falls for. I think she only sees her romantic ideals. Can anyone relate to this? What's interesting is that we have almost identical charts (born within 5 days of each other) except I have a cancer moon and she has a libra moon. I personally cannot relate to this "emptiness". I find relationships to be a bit emotionally draining and time consuming.
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lisabeth
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Many astrologers say that libra mooners hate to be alone. So it makes some sense because they need a partner, especially in the emotional moon/mother position.

here is a good site i found:
http://www.lifescript.com/soul/horoscope/astrology/your_moon_sign_revealed.aspx
Libra
Moon in Libra individuals possess and abundance of charm and are usually well liked as a result. Appearance is important to the Libra moon person who spends a great deal of time making sure they look as attractive as possible. Finding a soul mate is also extremely important to this person; more than any other zodiac moon sign, the Libra moon person dislikes being alone. They function best when in a partnership and may even have someone else lined up before ending their current relationship just to avoid being alone.

The Libra moon person is very loving and romantic - the ideal partner. They need peace and harmony in the home and avoid arguments and disorder as much as possible. They tend to be indecisive and find it very difficult to make decisions about even the simplest things. The Libra moon person is easy to spot because they are usually quite stylish.
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your friend probably can't help herself. it's like a strong drive and need, like someone who wants a taste of water living in the desert for a long time. your friend can probably allieviate this constant desire and need by keeping herself busy with work, interests, social sphere with you, and other friends, with other things in her life.
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piscesisme
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im libra moon but right now i cant answer the question coz i just broke up with my cap, i dont know if im afraid or maybe i just miss her. :/

but before i met my cap, im not afraid of being alone..i can eat breakfast alone in cafe. even in relationship, i can stand not seeing her for a while maybe due to my venus aqua.
like your friend, i compromise alot in a relationship not because im afraid we end but to work things out. 🙂

and after all the compromise.. this cap blindsided dumped me. ugh. shit! hahah
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sara1691985
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I am a Libra moon and yes, I hate being lonely. I can't go shopping alone most of the time, I don't feel comfortable going to a restaurant or a cafe on my own. I travelled once for work and could not stand lonliness although I had a room mate and I felt I want to go back to my family regardless of money or anything.

I also noticed I like setteling a lot. Even with friends, I keep the old ones and hardly make real new friendships because I just want to settle with the old ones. I wish to have a relationship and noticed that most of my relationships were not suitable for me really but I tend to accept them because I want to settle soooooooo much ...