Fellow taurus moons!

Can we all just acknowledge how hard it is for us to develop emotional connections. We are so afraid and become introvert but when he get the courage to be reckless we often find ourselves stuck on people who don't deserve our loyalty.
It's really hard for us because our feelings and opinions of people never waver unless they do something uncharacteristically good or ugly and even then you remember you first opinion of them. 😛 That's how we end up in abusive friendships or relationships or that we can never forgive people who probably deserve a second chance.
It's interesting how the other venus sign, libra can find balance but we are so sedentary in our emotions.

During the trials of dating I find myself afraid they will move on if we become busy and have other things going on. In reality that has happened to me a lot and it's sad because I still liked them. Can anyone else relate to this?
I know myself enough that I need to demand some exclusivity especially when I begin to have strong feelings for someone, or I will be completely miserable and worried. IT"S VERY AKWARD TO LITERALLY ASK SOMEONE FOR EMOTIONAL SECURITY TO CONTINUE SEEING THEM.
I think taurus suns are almost more healthy as they seem to move in a very slow paced that it never gets to the point where they quickly develop strong feelings.
This is what I envy about my taurus sun friends,they move in a pace where they never seem to get stuck.

Posted by BigEyesBigLies
I know myself enough that I need to demand some exclusivity especially when I begin to have strong feelings for someone, or I will be completely miserable and worried. IT"S VERY AKWARD TO LITERALLY ASK SOMEONE FOR EMOTIONAL SECURITY TO CONTINUE SEEING THEM.

I'm going through this right now.

My boyfriend told me he's falling in love with me, I was kinda expecting it but a little shocked.
All I could say was "I'm getting there, I just need to be emotionally secure before I can completely let go!"

It wasn't an easy thing to say but I needed him to understand that I'm not going anywhere and I will catch up.

Truth is I've always known I can only really be with someone that loves me more than I love them to feel emotionally secure. On some levels It's selfish, but after the heartbreak I suffered the one time I bared my soul, I'm not prepared to do it again.

Posted by RumiLove
I agree with you! My father is a Cap sun with Taurus moon.. If he has an impression about someone or something...it's hard to budge him..

I'm like this too. I have to be proved wrong in a big way for my impression of someone to change

Has to be something like a genuine, selfless act.
I always give ppl a chance to prove me wrong if I've formed a bad impression of them as it could be me or them having a bad day. But I'm rarely wrong when I get a bad feeling about someone.

Posted by BigEyesBigLies
Can we all just acknowledge how hard it is for us to develop emotional connections. We are so afraid and become introvert but when he get the courage to be reckless we often find ourselves stuck on people who don't deserve our loyalty.
It's really hard for us because our feelings and opinions of people never waver unless they do something uncharacteristically good or ugly and even then you remember you first opinion of them. 😛 That's how we end up in abusive friendships or relationships or that we can never forgive people who probably deserve a second chance.
It's interesting how the other venus sign, libra can find balance but we are so sedentary in our emotions.

During the trials of dating I find myself afraid they will move on if we become busy and have other things going on. In reality that has happened to me a lot and it's sad because I still liked them. Can anyone else relate to this?
I know myself enough that I need to demand some exclusivity especially when I begin to have strong feelings for someone, or I will be completely miserable and worried. IT"S VERY AKWARD TO LITERALLY ASK SOMEONE FOR EMOTIONAL SECURITY TO CONTINUE SEEING THEM.
I think taurus suns are almost more healthy as they seem to move in a very slow paced that it never gets to the point where they quickly develop strong feelings.
This is what I envy about my taurus sun friends,they move in a pace where they never seem to get stuck.

i think for the mix of my chart i am all over the place. i have a taurus moon, which causes me to of course be very cautious and maybe let my head rule over my heart, trying to not get hurt because I am also a scorp sun, cancer rising so I feel things deeply and get attached rather quickly. After doing some soul searching, so to speak, i realized that my scorp sun, or even merc and tarurus moon are bipolar.. i want to get close, but i don't. i want to get physical, but i should wait. this may cause the guy i am interested to get mixed feelings and we both end up being confused lol.

Anyway, probably most importantly i have my venus in libra. that causes me to be a little detached and maybe even lose interest quickly, but like you said, i am afraid of losing that other person if i am interested. in the past, i have literally asked guys like 'where is this going?' "do you see this going anywh

cut off..

"do you see this going anywhere' without the reciprocation i was looking forward. i was pretty naive and kept trying (tarurus moon) when i should have left these guys hanging. Now, i have learned my lesson, and although i walk away, it has recently come to where i still think about the person even though i know they are not good and i can't let go even though i know whats best.

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Posted by BigEyesBigLies
I know myself enough that I need to demand some exclusivity especially when I begin to have strong feelings for someone, or I will be completely miserable and worried. IT"S VERY AKWARD TO LITERALLY ASK SOMEONE FOR EMOTIONAL SECURITY TO CONTINUE SEEING THEM.

Truth is I've always known I can only really be with someone that loves me more than I love them to feel emotionally secure. On some levels It's selfish, but after the heartbreak I suffered the one time I bared my soul, I'm not prepared to do it again.

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i can agree with this. i have never been in love, but have had MANY disappointments in the romantic department. so much so, that i think i have become numb to it and have just decided to focus on myself. I definitely need to feel 110% safe in love, and that might even mean feeling that the other person loves me more, even though I never thought of it like that until now. My mom always said, 'find a guys who love you more than you love him' lol.

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Posted by MadMarchRam

Posted by BigEyesBigLies
I know myself enough that I need to demand some exclusivity especially when I begin to have strong feelings for someone, or I will be completely miserable and worried. IT"S VERY AKWARD TO LITERALLY ASK SOMEONE FOR EMOTIONAL SECURITY TO CONTINUE SEEING THEM.

Truth is I've always known I can only really be with someone that loves me more than I love them to feel emotionally secure. On some levels It's selfish, but after the heartbreak I suffered the one time I bared my soul, I'm not prepared to do it again.

i can agree with this. i have never been in love, but have had MANY disappointments in the romantic department. so much so, that i think i have become numb to it and have just decided to focus on myself. I definitely need to feel 110% safe in love, and that might even mean feeling that the other person loves me more, even though I never thought of it like that until now. My mom always said, 'find a guys who love you more than you love him' lol.

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Listen to your mum lol

It's the only way I feel secure enough to let go emotionally.