Libra with Cancer moon Gem with Scorpio Moon

Are we doomed to just go around in circles until one of us gives up? Its like he always knows when I am going to give up and pops right back up and I do the same. drives me insane. All I want to do is love him! Why does he make it so hard for me to love him? I don't want to have to keep a constant poker face on about how I feel and he knows how I feel now, but sometimes I just want to write him letters and rub his head until he falls asleep, but we will probably never be together because what he wont say out loud and what I feel is that he is very insecure about himself and his life and he is very afraid of being hurt, but most of all he is very much always in wonder if there is something better and as much as my Sag Venus keeps optimistic wants to be optimistic that he will eventually come around I shouldn't have to wait for him to. Just when I feel in my heart he is mine he says something to throw me off I am so over it, but letting go is so hard.

I know this is long, but my question to you Scorpio moons is, do you hang on to someone who loves you just for the simple fact that they love you even if you don't love them?

Posted by ladylibra21
Are we doomed to just go around in circles until one of us gives up? Its like he always knows when I am going to give up and pops right back up and I do the same. drives me insane. All I want to do is love him! Why does he make it so hard for me to love him? I don't want to have to keep a constant poker face on about how I feel and he knows how I feel now, but sometimes I just want to write him letters and rub his head until he falls asleep, but we will probably never be together because what he wont say out loud and what I feel is that he is very insecure about himself and his life and he is very afraid of being hurt, but most of all he is very much always in wonder if there is something better and as much as my Sag Venus keeps optimistic wants to be optimistic that he will eventually come around I shouldn't have to wait for him to. Just when I feel in my heart he is mine he says something to throw me off I am so over it, but letting go is so hard.

I know this is long, but my question to you Scorpio moons is, do you hang on to someone who loves you just for the simple fact that they love you even if you don't love them?

Interesting question.
When I do get involved with someone (I'm Virgo Sun with both Scorpio Moon and Venus) it takes a lot for me to give up on them, and in my past relationships, I've certainly been holding on way too long, even after I stopped loving them out of some misplaced sense of loyalty.

I am currently dating a Cancer moon, and while I've worked a lot on my insecurities (like fear of rejection, showing emotion and being vulnerable), I feel like he is sometimes this exact way towards me.. his actions are incredibly loving towards me, but he has a very hard time admitting deeper feelings and if there's a conflict (only had two actually, luckily) he will quite literally become really cold and crabby towards me and hurt me by saying it's not going to last and stuff like that.
Everything he does points towards the exact opposite, so it's a strain on me as a suspicious and negative Scorpio moon.
Would say actions speak louder than words in the case of a Cancer moon? He'll be incredibly romantic, sensitive and physical with me most of the time, almost clingy.

Posted by ladylibra21
Are we doomed to just go around in circles until one of us gives up? Its like he always knows when I am going to give up and pops right back up and I do the same. drives me insane. All I want to do is love him! Why does he make it so hard for me to love him? I don't want to have to keep a constant poker face on about how I feel and he knows how I feel now, but sometimes I just want to write him letters and rub his head until he falls asleep, but we will probably never be together because what he wont say out loud and what I feel is that he is very insecure about himself and his life and he is very afraid of being hurt, but most of all he is very much always in wonder if there is something better and as much as my Sag Venus keeps optimistic wants to be optimistic that he will eventually come around I shouldn't have to wait for him to. Just when I feel in my heart he is mine he says something to throw me off I am so over it, but letting go is so hard.

I know this is long, but my question to you Scorpio moons is, do you hang on to someone who loves you just for the simple fact that they love you even if you don't love them?

Scorpio moon and Cancer moon is supposed to be an extremely magnetic attraction.
Is this true for you OP?

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Posted by ladylibra21
Are we doomed to just go around in circles until one of us gives up? Its like he always knows when I am going to give up and pops right back up and I do the same. drives me insane. All I want to do is love him! Why does he make it so hard for me to love him? I don't want to have to keep a constant poker face on about how I feel and he knows how I feel now, but sometimes I just want to write him letters and rub his head until he falls asleep, but we will probably never be together because what he wont say out loud and what I feel is that he is very insecure about himself and his life and he is very afraid of being hurt, but most of all he is very much always in wonder if there is something better and as much as my Sag Venus keeps optimistic wants to be optimistic that he will eventually come around I shouldn't have to wait for him to. Just when I feel in my heart he is mine he says something to throw me off I am so over it, but letting go is so hard.

I know this is long, but my question to you Scorpio moons is, do you hang on to someone who loves you just for the simple fact that they love you even if you don't love them?

Scorpio moon and Cancer moon is supposed to be an extremely magnetic attraction.
Is this true for you OP?

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Yes definitely I don't think I will ever stop loving him I have tried everything but I can't make myself stop. I pushed him away a couple of days before Christmas because he was hurting me with how he was speaking to me and I haven't heard from him since but he seemed kinda hurt and definitely angry when I said what I did.