ladylibra21

ladylibra21
joined July 09, 2015
from CTLovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
Lovingly Confused, Libra/ScorpCusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Opportunity, boredom
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Posted by besarlalluvia
    true story. i actually wrote down what i wanted in a man, even elements and modalities. he came a few months later. meditation is real lol

    Same thing happened to me !
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    I have a Libra/Scorpio sun in the 3rd house, Sag Venus in the fourth house, and Cancer moon in the 12th house it takes me a minute to get over someone. I'd say a year. In the past it hasn't taken me long to start dating, but not this time I just don't really have the energy for love right now. I'm not even interested in it and it's not because I'm not over my ex, there is some of that, but it is mostly because relationships are exhausting especially this last one and I'm trying to build my career right now. I can't afford to be out for the count with heartbreak because it shuts me down too much. But I do feel like I handled heartbreak a lot better this time around then how I normally handle it so I'm pretty proud of myself.
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    It is easy to confuse a child giving their real opinion on something as giving you attitude. I think it's important to know the difference so that they feel confident in speaking out for themselves but not enough to overstep their boundaries.

  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Posted by Yodi
    Posted by ladylibra21
    Posted by Yodi
    Posted by ladylibra21
    I actually don't wear make up most of the time but for three reasons . One I'm an actor so I have to let my face breath if I have a lot of projects coming up. Two I don't always have time. Three I noticed that if I wear make up consistently and I stop I get a little bit of a complex. So whenever I start to feel guilty for not putting on make up I stop wearing it for a while because I don't want to be insecure with out it.


    And four.. black don't crack πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ jk sorta.

    I feel the same way regarding what you stated as your number 3. I never got into wearing make up because of that reason.. the same goes for why I decided to wear my hair natural click to expand


    Exactly! Don't get me wrong I like my flexibility when it comes to my look especially my hair, but lately my hair is been in and blown out state straight up lion style . For also two reasons. My son who is biracial made a comment about this little black girls hair at school and it annoyed me so I told myself I was going to wear my hair in a natural state for a while so he can remember that his mother has thick kinky hair . I think he made the statement because the girl likes him and bothers him but he didn't realize that he was targeting her a little bit so I did it to make a point and eventually he made a comment saying that he liked my hair. Also I work in an office and now people make comments like holy hair you know just kidding around but I think it's important for people to see different representations of black hair because it doesn't always have to be polished it doesn't come out of my head polished so why should it be a big deal for you to see it in a natural state.



    PS: HAPPY MOTHERS DAY! πŸŽ†πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‡ click to expand
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    Aww thank you dear!!
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Posted by Yodi
    Posted by ladylibra21
    I actually don't wear make up most of the time but for three reasons . One I'm an actor so I have to let my face breath if I have a lot of projects coming up. Two I don't always have time. Three I noticed that if I wear make up consistently and I stop I get a little bit of a complex. So whenever I start to feel guilty for not putting on make up I stop wearing it for a while because I don't want to be insecure with out it.


    And four.. black don't crack πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ jk sorta.

    I feel the same way regarding what you stated as your number 3. I never got into wearing make up because of that reason.. the same goes for why I decided to wear my hair natural click to expand
    click to expand


    Exactly! Don't get me wrong I like my flexibility when it comes to my look especially my hair, but lately my hair is been in and blown out state straight up lion style . For also two reasons. My son who is biracial made a comment about this little black girls hair at school and it annoyed me so I told myself I was going to wear my hair in a natural state for a while so he can remember that his mother has thick kinky hair . I think he made the statement because the girl likes him and bothers him but he didn't realize that he was targeting her a little bit so I did it to make a point and eventually he made a comment saying that he liked my hair. Also I work in an office and now people make comments like holy hair you know just kidding around but I think it's important for people to see different representations of black hair because it doesn't always have to be polished it doesn't come out of my head polished so why should it be a big deal for you to see it in a natural state.
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    I actually don't wear make up most of the time but for three reasons . One I'm an actor so I have to let my face breath if I have a lot of projects coming up. Two I don't always have time. Three I noticed that if I wear make up consistently and I stop I get a little bit of a complex. So whenever I start to feel guilty for not putting on make up I stop wearing it for a while because I don't want to be insecure with out it.
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Thank you! Happy Mother's Day y'all!
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Honestly most air signs come off to me as sexually flexible .
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    The question should be are they deceptive and the answer to that is yes.
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Yep
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    I am definitely very reflective today. In my feelings hard.
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    I feel like I am having an out of body experience a lot of the time. I have so many creative opportunities coming up practically being handed to me and for some reason I can't find my creative vigor. I feel unbothered with the exception of my inner self screaming wake up your life is about to change! My Saturn in Capricorn is in the 5th house.
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
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  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    If you have a favorite book together you can read to each other in different accents. Oooo another fun one is to leave them a loving, sexy, or funny message they have to decode at 2 am. I used to love waking up to those and try to figure them out! He would only give me 3 clues but usually the message related to us or was an inside joke and it was written out
    Like this : * ***** ** ****** **** * ****.
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    My Sag ex and I used MSN messenger and you can play games while you chat Face to face. We would play strip virtual checkers then have video chat sex lol
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by ladylibra21
    Where did you find this description?What about for the women?


    Here:

    Libra Sun Cancer Moon (for ladies)

    "Her Illumination: Delightful.

    Her dark side: Yielding.

    You'll know her right away. She's the charming little thing who in her youth had all the men helping her carry her paycheck home from work. She had the looks and personality to win many hearts and the quest for a new sexual partner. I think she was looking for some constructive outlet like being a mother, and it got all mixed up. Life hands her many bonuses and yet, she never seems to connect. She manages to turn the terrific job, the devoted husband and the great family into shambles because she can't say no--to the opposite sex, or over indulgence in drink, or shopping sprees. She never meant to hurt anyone, least of all herself, she was just directionless. About the age of thirty five she'll have a major turning point in her life, a real awakening. If this doesn't shake her out of her dilemma, chances are she'll continue on her course of self destruction. She's basically kind and gentle in nature. Her emotions are just too yielding for everyone's own good. She needs a good support group to keep her working on a solid footing within the home and professional community. If you're a very nurturing individual and have lots of energy to assist her in her everyday affairs, and can stand the sting of infidelity now and then, I think you have just found the one for you. She can be fun and impish. Maybe you'll want to wait until after she's had her crisis. She's be excellent in real estate (people do love her,) or interior decorating. As a mother she's loving and yet undependable. She really needs a Cancer, or a Scorpio who has risen out of his own ashes. She seems to be most attracted to other Libra's, or the Libra Moon."

    (Taken from The Book of Lovers by Carolyn Reynolds.)

    Famous person with this combination: Gwen Stefani.

    Let me know if you relate to it?

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    The cheating no. I do feel addicted to food and that I waste money on it a lot. I do feel I am very loving but I often feel like a failure as a mother but that is because I set too high of a bar for myself. Always seems like I'm constantly balancing in motherhood
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Where did you find this description?What about for the women?
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Where did you find this description?What about for the women?
  • ladylibra21
    Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
    from CT
    Posted by livictori
    Welp I told him. He’s was here for Easter. His initial question was if it was an April’s fool joke. After the news sunk in, he became protective and tried to call off our planned vacation. He sad it really makes him sad and he’s worried on how to help with him so far away. I’m happy I told him but also scared because he can go to a really dark place. Thank you all for the advice. It would have been worse to lie

    Just reading this part. Im glad you told him. I really hope you heal well from this don't worry about what place he goes. You will learn a lot about him these next couple of months for better or for worst *hugs* wishing you blessings.