Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
Lovingly Confused, Libra/ScorpCusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus

Posted by caIiber
Is self sabotage part of it too? I feel like I purposely ruin butter to protect my feelings, but maybe that's due to another aspect or placement?


This definitely sounds like Cap/Scorp combo behavior
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ladylibra21
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Posted by ladylibra21
When they are jealous and angry the energy that comes off of them is terrifying.


That's why have to have silver tape with you 24/7 and use freely anytime!


In what way


To tape your lips when want to say stupid thing! Lol
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Yeah I'm too honest I did learn to keep things about my past to my self.
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ladylibra21
When they are jealous and angry the energy that comes off of them is terrifying.


That's why have to have silver tape with you 24/7 and use freely anytime!
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In what way
When they are jealous and angry the energy that comes off of them is terrifying.
Posted by Capri-sun
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Posted by Capri-sun
People give you guys no credit

I wonder why that is


What do you mean by this ?


Capricorn men are sweethearts ❤

They show love through actions not just empty words, dependable, reliable, providers, protective...

Maybe it's just because I'm a Capricorn & understand them a little bit better than most women...

If they didn't see me as the sisterly one then I'd be with one. They are in touch with their emotions without being emotional. The "ideal man" imo
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I totally agree but Cap with Taurus moon is sooooooooo sloooooooow
Posted by Capri-sun
People give you guys no credit

I wonder why that is


What do you mean by this ?
Posted by DepthAndDeath
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Posted by Gemitati
Well. Something had unfolded with my Scorp yesterday.
I am supposed to be smart about my future and I honestly can't imagine divorce!
It's not a thing you do every day and though my husband survived 3 - he says he didn't love anyone as much as he loves me and he is older now.

How is it all of a sudden one comes to another and say I want divorce?
How?
He is very lazy and extremely annoying but nice guy whom I don't feel anything for except cozy boring 'friendship'.
How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?

Have anyone of you left non-abusive spouse just because you fell out of love and you had tried to talk but they just don't listen...


Ohh Gemi.. Can I suggest you something?

Tell your husband that you have fallen out of love with him and you have fallen in love with another person.

Why do you have to carry this burden alone?
Why?

Look at him, your husband, he has been with you for long. Doesn't he deserve some truth??

Share it with your husband. First and foremost. He has to hear it first from you.

Respect him enough to be true to yourself.


+1,000 Do you think he knows about your relationship ? I mean 8 years is a long time.


APPARENTLY HE KNOWS!! AND HE MOCKS THAT.


@Gemitati then this should be a no brainer. Maybe take him to the park he has never been to before and tell him.


Why the park?

If I were her, I would take him to the basement. Prepare it to be so dirty by then and proceed telling him again.
Eyes wide open for his reactions.


Lol idk because I like to break bad news to people in places that they probably won't go back to again that way they don't associate something they once viewed as comforting or pleasant with something bad.


Weh, reality hits to the bottom in such a place as beautiful as park.

Sting is sharp there.

But very psychologically healing indeed.
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*shrugs*
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by ladylibra21
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Posted by Gemitati
Well. Something had unfolded with my Scorp yesterday.
I am supposed to be smart about my future and I honestly can't imagine divorce!
It's not a thing you do every day and though my husband survived 3 - he says he didn't love anyone as much as he loves me and he is older now.

How is it all of a sudden one comes to another and say I want divorce?
How?
He is very lazy and extremely annoying but nice guy whom I don't feel anything for except cozy boring 'friendship'.
How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?

Have anyone of you left non-abusive spouse just because you fell out of love and you had tried to talk but they just don't listen...


Ohh Gemi.. Can I suggest you something?

Tell your husband that you have fallen out of love with him and you have fallen in love with another person.

Why do you have to carry this burden alone?
Why?

Look at him, your husband, he has been with you for long. Doesn't he deserve some truth??

Share it with your husband. First and foremost. He has to hear it first from you.

Respect him enough to be true to yourself.


+1,000 Do you think he knows about your relationship ? I mean 8 years is a long time.


APPARENTLY HE KNOWS!! AND HE MOCKS THAT.


@Gemitati then this should be a no brainer. Maybe take him to the park he has never been to before and tell him.


Why the park?

If I were her, I would take him to the basement. Prepare it to be so dirty by then and proceed telling him again.
Eyes wide open for his reactions.
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Lol idk because I like to break bad news to people in places that they probably won't go back to again that way they don't associate something they once viewed as comforting or pleasant with something bad.
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ladylibra21
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by ladylibra21
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Gemitati
Well. Something had unfolded with my Scorp yesterday.
I am supposed to be smart about my future and I honestly can't imagine divorce!
It's not a thing you do every day and though my husband survived 3 - he says he didn't love anyone as much as he loves me and he is older now.

How is it all of a sudden one comes to another and say I want divorce?
How?
He is very lazy and extremely annoying but nice guy whom I don't feel anything for except cozy boring 'friendship'.
How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?

Have anyone of you left non-abusive spouse just because you fell out of love and you had tried to talk but they just don't listen...


Ohh Gemi.. Can I suggest you something?

Tell your husband that you have fallen out of love with him and you have fallen in love with another person.

Why do you have to carry this burden alone?
Why?

Look at him, your husband, he has been with you for long. Doesn't he deserve some truth??

Share it with your husband. First and foremost. He has to hear it first from you.

Respect him enough to be true to yourself.


+1,000 Do you think he knows about your relationship ? I mean 8 years is a long time.


APPARENTLY HE KNOWS!! AND HE MOCKS THAT.


@Gemitati then this should be a no brainer. Maybe take him to the park he has never been to before and tell him.


He doesn't go out parks! There is no tv!!!
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Lol damn I couldn't imagine marrying three times it sounds exhausting. You better hope he doesn't say I don't have time to get a divorce. This should be easy to ask for though because you don't have small children didn't you say your daughter was 18 or 19?
Posted by DepthAndDeath
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Posted by Gemitati
Well. Something had unfolded with my Scorp yesterday.
I am supposed to be smart about my future and I honestly can't imagine divorce!
It's not a thing you do every day and though my husband survived 3 - he says he didn't love anyone as much as he loves me and he is older now.

How is it all of a sudden one comes to another and say I want divorce?
How?
He is very lazy and extremely annoying but nice guy whom I don't feel anything for except cozy boring 'friendship'.
How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?

Have anyone of you left non-abusive spouse just because you fell out of love and you had tried to talk but they just don't listen...


Ohh Gemi.. Can I suggest you something?

Tell your husband that you have fallen out of love with him and you have fallen in love with another person.

Why do you have to carry this burden alone?
Why?

Look at him, your husband, he has been with you for long. Doesn't he deserve some truth??

Share it with your husband. First and foremost. He has to hear it first from you.

Respect him enough to be true to yourself.


+1,000 Do you think he knows about your relationship ? I mean 8 years is a long time.


APPARENTLY HE KNOWS!! AND HE MOCKS THAT.
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@Gemitati then this should be a no brainer. Maybe take him to the park he has never been to before and tell him.
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Gemitati
Well. Something had unfolded with my Scorp yesterday.
I am supposed to be smart about my future and I honestly can't imagine divorce!
It's not a thing you do every day and though my husband survived 3 - he says he didn't love anyone as much as he loves me and he is older now.

How is it all of a sudden one comes to another and say I want divorce?
How?
He is very lazy and extremely annoying but nice guy whom I don't feel anything for except cozy boring 'friendship'.
How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?

Have anyone of you left non-abusive spouse just because you fell out of love and you had tried to talk but they just don't listen...


Ohh Gemi.. Can I suggest you something?

Tell your husband that you have fallen out of love with him and you have fallen in love with another person.

Why do you have to carry this burden alone?
Why?

Look at him, your husband, he has been with you for long. Doesn't he deserve some truth??

Share it with your husband. First and foremost. He has to hear it first from you.

Respect him enough to be true to yourself.

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+1,000 Do you think he knows about your relationship ? I mean 8 years is a long time.
I agree a marriage just may not be for you. Maybe you should divorce and be in an open relationship. Then again how do you know that the whole idea of keeping your Scorp a secret is not what is appealing to the whole relationship you have with your Scorp.

I had a friend who was cheating on her boyfriend who was fathering both of her children and the way she talked about it, it was like she only cheated because she wanted to get caught so her boyfriend would value her more she didn't say that but it was obvious she wanted to get caught so he would realize their relationship was in danger because he wasn't hearing her. Now that he knows I don't think she really cares about the other guy I think she just wants her relationship to work even though it is pretty damaged now.

You have to ask yourself what are your reasons for cheating because if you are just filling a temporary need it could turn into Unrequited love very fast because he probably wouldn't take the relationship serious if it was just the two of you because he would always be wondering if you were going to cheat. Hypocritical I know, but that is the nature of men.

Have you and Scorp talked in all seriousness about a future together? Don't get me wrong I still think that you should leave either way because your husband deserves the right kind of love, but just know that Scorp may not be your forever love. So before entering a full relationship with him think about what you really want.
Posted by Aerazo
Cap 💔

Hey girly how did your go did you guys get to talk?
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Posted by Noni05
In mine ❤️ ♎️ ...

Whose in Yours ?


Same as yours.. but I'm a dumb treetrunk.


I noticed your other posts and thought you weren't together anymore? Are you still attached?



Who could keep track with us? I sure can't.. -_-

Hence me saying.. I'm dumb! It's a symptom of being "dickmatized" LOL
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Lol dickmatized!
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Posted by Noni05
In mine ❤️ ♎️ ...

Whose in Yours ?


Same as yours.. but I'm a dumb treetrunk.


I noticed your other posts and thought you weren't together anymore? Are you still attached?



Who could keep track with us? I sure can't.. -_-

Hence me saying.. I'm dumb! It's a symptom of being "dickmatized" LOL
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Lol dickmatized!
Capricorn trying to shake him out though lol
No one. I will wait for the aliens to come.
Posted by CAPS_LOCK
Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by CAPS_LOCK
op
Can't speak for all Caps but i rather talk things out. Open communication.

People can be quick to jump to conclusions or assume an individual is a mind reader and it all leads to a path of bottling grudges.


so happy to see you!!!


Hijacking the thread
Sorry i got this 20hrs later and I'm a bit late. Its finals week and I've been studying.

How are you doing ?
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Good luck in finals!
Yay! Good luck with everything it is going to be spectacular!
Posted by Capz
can you handle what is behind the mask


I'm not easily scared by emotions. 12 house Cancer moon