Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
Lovingly Confused, Libra/ScorpCusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus

Posted by bricklemark
If it hits other planets, it's gonna hurt too, and angular cusps, especially 4th house, so 2 or 3 years ago you might have had problems..like being stuck at home or smth.


Omg yes I moved to Connecticut from a very warm and inviting home in TN to a nearly run down house. I was stuck in a house with my ex his mom and his best friend. My son was afraid of his room. There was mold and the house had never been finished. I never felt comfortable on that house really i was constantly depressed it wasn't until near the end of my stay that I got semi comfortable but I was so depressed that all I did was cook and watch Netflix. Didn't find my friends until after I moved.
Posted by Aquaviper
Haha Thank y'all, this validates quite a bit! He's a Leo Rising, Scorpio Sun/Mercury, Taurus Moon. The ego is quite large


Damn lol
Ugh it was just in my4th house as well. I have by the end of the week to find a place to live this whole month has been s housing butter show!
Something just told me to go look at transit on top of my natal chart and I just happen to find Saturn floating right in my fifth house! It's not on the exact that degree of where it should be for a return but it's floating and I feel that butter!!
Posted by Geminiforever23
Please let me know if I got some things correctly. This is not a generalization but would be great if you can add things to it.

As far as being surrounded by aquas, well I grew up with several and dated, flirted with several. When it comes to dating, Aquas seem to not open up easily. One of the reasons is because of threat of their independence/freedom. They love, love but they dont like being confined in the relationship so one day they can be very sweet, caring or even vilnerable and then they do a full change of their attitude and goes missing so that their partner dont become too dependent on them.

The other thing is that Aquas are stubborn. When they have decided on something, normally they stick to it. In some rare cases they do change their minds but that takes a while and a bit more convincing. For example if both of you do not agree on certain topics, either agree to disagree or make logical points and give the aqua time to think about it. If your points are valid, they will consider eventually.

Aquas love women who doesnt wait for them. They love independent women. Women who can survive without them. Part of the reason is that Aquas get excited about figuring out people the same way we try to figure them out. If you are easy, always available... they don't find mental stimulation. Therefore they dont or wont commit and will continue to look for someone that will be more stimulating for them.

I dated an amazing aqua for 5 years and it wasnt the easiest but the moment I didnt become too available or asking him about every single detail of his day, the more he felt comfortable having me around and wanting to spend more time with me. And yes, he is my ex now by my choice (as you may know he didnt want a kid before. He recently changed his mind though so we might have something to reconsider) I completely trust that we had something real. The aqua from Melbourne also made a compelte turnaround after i didnt bother texting him when he didnt text and now he is coming to Japan to see me and said he is still hoping to spend time with me when I move to Melbourne. And finally, my Aqua boss who I left because he stresses me out had been asking me to return to his team to fix things.

I care about the aquas in my life (except my boss. Its just work for me. I dunno what it is to him as we flirted in the past). I know they are hard to figure out but so far, I still think they are one of the best signs I have encountered. Probably the only ones that fit my mold. Never have I met people that i just click with instantly. Like magic.

The not wanting a child thing how did you approach him about that? That is my only hang up with the Aqua I am dating. I tried to break things off on our second date after he told me he had been snipped but he insisted we try to see what come of the relationship but now I really like him and I want to have the conversation again before I fall in love because I will feel stuck and resentful. Did you know at the beginning that he didn't want a child?
Posted by DMV
I used 2 work for a npo and it was tough to support my own self on the salary and when the finances got tough, they would send you an iou for your paycheck.


Omg for real? How long had they been established?
What is it like? Do you enjoy yourselves? Do you feel like you make enough money? Do you have children? Do you feel like you can support children on non-profit salary?
You can do it! I am terrified mine will be hitting at the end of this year. My natal Saturn squares my Mars as well so it will be interesting to see what happens when the transit actually hits. Have you tried focusing on other things that will get you ahead in powerlifting ? Maybe try a gentler form of strength training like yoga to put your body in balance. Would be a lot easier on your shoulders
If it i "dated" them 5th grade and under then sure go for it but anything after that is a betrayal.
Posted by pinkbird03
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Posted by pinkbird03
The ex realizes he's moving on with you and wore the ring just to get inside his head, which clearly worked... I think she might be trying to come between your relationship with this guy.


The thing though I'm not sure she even knows about me he doesn't really talk to her like that he only talks to her when he has two lemons she can tell by his indifference I don't know ?


Is there any evidence of your relationship on social media? Even if it's just liking each other's pictures.
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No we are not friends on social media
Posted by starwars
or ur guy wants to brag


You could be bragging I don't know if he is though because he said the circumstances around it were an ultimatum anyways so it was mostly an engagement she wanted
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@LadyLibra

I would think this Taurus woman was batbutter crazy.
I have way too much pride to be seen with a pointless engagement ring.

So someone can ask me "When is the wedding date."
So I could reply "The engaement ended years ago....I am just pathetic."

The stable Bulls are prideful.

The unstable ones are just plain crazy.

I would have pawned it, and took a mini vacation.


Yeah from what he has said about her so far I think she has a lot of insecurities and maybe she didn't mean to push him away is the way she did but it's too late now and like you said she should have some dignity and just tried to make the best out of the situation
Posted by pinkbird03
The ex realizes he's moving on with you and wore the ring just to get inside his head, which clearly worked... I think she might be trying to come between your relationship with this guy.


The thing though I'm not sure she even knows about me he doesn't really talk to her like that he only talks to her when he has two lemons she can tell by his indifference I don't know ?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by ladylibra21
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OP, they have a child together so will always be bonded, but if she is sill wearing his ring, that isn't healthy

How does he feel about his ex?


He tip toes around her they don't have the best relationship. He "says" she was very controlling and wnded up being physically abusive later. They only a couple months into their custody agreement so there has been lots of back and forth to the courts kind of thing. He avoids her because he says she try's to twist his words. He says he can't even begin to full co-parent because if he asked a question about how their son handles things such as sleep schedule for example she will say something like well it's your fault this whole situation is. Etc.. I don't know what's true and what is not.


Well you are gorgeous, so i am sure you wouldn't have much difficulty in finding a good guy without so many complications in his life.

Sounds like he isn't in a good place to have a healthy relationship at the moment, Libra

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Thank you dear 😘
Posted by Maidemarilyn
Ok. So you have only known this guy since April. Wow, that's very new.

What do mean by "Not official yet just exclusive since April "?

What sun sign is he?

Has he been single since him and his ex split 2 years ago?

Why did he and his ex split exactly?

She may be wearing his ring but I would be careful to take the words of someone you have only known for 10-12 weeks as gospel!


Meaning he hasn't made ceremony out of officially asking me to be his girlfriend but we both call it some kknd or relationship. We are still getting to know each other and want to be sure raise we both have our sons and are looking for long term/potential marriage partners

His placements
Aqua Sun, Mercury, Venus
Scorp Rising and Mars
Libra moon

Like he says he lived like a monk for the past two years he doesn't have much experience with relationships.

He said he broke up with her because she was extremely controlling and abusive. He said she was very ungrateful when he would do things for her. And would turn on him in a matter of minutes he would never know what he did most of the time. She never want him to hang out with any of his friends he felt like he had to see his friends in secret but he said the last straw was her trying to fight him and her mom went to break it up and she hit her mom.

He could very well be lying but they met right when he was coming out of a very strict religion and he was kind of lost and she was something very refreshing and showed him a whole different world but then just turned out to be this type of person and it could just be their relationship some people bring the worst out in you . I'm not judging their relationship or anyone involved I'm just realizing what was said to me

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Posted by ladylibra21
A guy I am currently dating said he boutiques his ex wearing her engagement ring when he dropped their son off the other day. They have been broken up for 2 years. He broke up with her. I know you Taurus tend to hang on quite tight but would any of you go so far as to still wear your ex's engagement ring ?

My bad, I made a mistake.
But how did you know his ex is wearing that ring??!

I think you should ask him if you have any doubts about their situation.

How long have you been with him?


We were laying in bed complaining about our ex other halfs whom we have children with and he said "oh get this he is a new development of crazy, aparently we are still engaged. I dropped my son off the other day and she had the engagement ring I gave her on. I thought she got rid of that thing it has been 2 years."
I didn't know there were ever engaged I suspected because I saw a pic of her with a ring on, but he never said anything about it until last night. But another thing he said last night after I told him she probably still loved you he said "well that was the only solid thing about her is that he never doubted she would chicest because she tried to posses him so much.




how long have you both been together?

Not official yet just exclusive since April


The above does not make any sense to me...

How long have you both known each other?
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We have only know each other since April we started dating and neither of us are dating any one else.
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Posted by ladylibra21
A guy I am currently dating said he boutiques his ex wearing her engagement ring when he dropped their son off the other day. They have been broken up for 2 years. He broke up with her. I know you Taurus tend to hang on quite tight but would any of you go so far as to still wear your ex's engagement ring ?

My bad, I made a mistake.
But how did you know his ex is wearing that ring??!

I think you should ask him if you have any doubts about their situation.

How long have you been with him?


We were laying in bed complaining about our ex other halfs whom we have children with and he said "oh get this he is a new development of crazy, aparently we are still engaged. I dropped my son off the other day and she had the engagement ring I gave her on. I thought she got rid of that thing it has been 2 years."
I didn't know there were ever engaged I suspected because I saw a pic of her with a ring on, but he never said anything about it until last night. But another thing he said last night after I told him she probably still loved you he said "well that was the only solid thing about her is that he never doubted she would chicest because she tried to posses him so much.




how long have you both been together?
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Not official yet just exclusive since April
Posted by MyStarsShine
OP, they have a child together so will always be bonded, but if she is sill wearing his ring, that isn't healthy

How does he feel about his ex?


He tip toes around her they don't have the best relationship. He "says" she was very controlling and wnded up being physically abusive later. They only a couple months into their custody agreement so there has been lots of back and forth to the courts kind of thing. He avoids her because he says she try's to twist his words. He says he can't even begin to full co-parent because if he asked a question about how their son handles things such as sleep schedule for example she will say something like well it's your fault this whole situation is. Etc.. I don't know what's true and what is not.