Lovingly Confused, Libra/Scorp Cusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus
Lovingly Confused, Libra/ScorpCusp Sun, Merc, Mars, Cancer Moon, Sag Venus

Posted by Chupka
Ugh he sounds like a cap I've been dealing with. It finally ended. You're not from Toronto are you? Lol

Lol. I was just about to ask if he was from Connecticut
Was this in his routine to pick you up from work ? Do you not have a car right now ? Because he could be doing this out of what he feels is obligation to help until you find another solution
Feeling very lonely tonight because I just have this feeling that the man I love is on a date with someone right now. I could be totally wrong but that's what it feels like. Letting go is so hard I should've did it once ago But every time I try I cannot budge it feels physically painful to try to rip my self away. It's not even like we hang out or anything I'm just there emotionally and I can't release I just want to disappear and start over.
The one I know it was for ego strokes but she had Aries rising
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I'd like to know the answer also!

I'd assume they are working.. (but of course)

& possibly thinking about the person they are silencing.. I mean why else would they come back!?!!

I hear they get cold feet when they are falling hard..'

BUT anyways,

What do I know..? I'm just a mere Scorpio, loving my cap man & his ways...

Definitely get cold feet when falling hard. Makes us twitchy. We don't know what to do with it, because it just kind of hits us and we're like treetrunk. Makes us weird because then we acknowledge we are vulnerable. Very frightening. If you can make it through the weird stage though of the on off silence and stick it out, we'll warm up and boom passion.


Thanks for this! It helps.. You have no idea..

The silent stages scare me.. But he's sooooooooo loving towards me.. When I return the "love" he goes missing for a few days.. I've been sticking it out and he comes back to check on me.. & then gets back to work mode.. & silence.. My Scorpio intuition can kinda read him and I've said this before:

The person they are falling in love with is like an "alien" to them.. It's weird because that feeling is something they aren't used to.. Unemotional ppl, don't do emotions.. SO when they feel the very thing that they "DON'T DO" it's like "oh treetrunk!"

I also think caps are EXTREMELY Afraid of getting hurt.. They are very gaurded in that aspect while they are insuring you won't "hurt them" in the end.. I mean most of your goals are to succeed at everything you put your mind to.. SO experiencing a moment of loving someone and they break your heart.. You move on telling yourself that it won't happen again.. Meet someone who interest you & in your mind the likelihood of you putting yourself through that again is rare.. BUT then it happens again, you fall for someone again.. and you get scared.. Then I think you put yourself more into your work to not think about it.. It affects us tho.

How do we get you to be more expressive without forcing it? I never force him to be or do anything he is uncomfortable doing.. I just want him to know that I'm here, always.. that I care, & I'm not gonna do him the way his ex did him.


This is the constant battle I have with myself....how do you let them know and reassure them you care and will be by their side through everything without hitting them with even more emotions while they are in their heads or taking time....yet not look like you are punishing them for this time they need? Being in a LDR makes it even more intense at times. Must be balancing it as he is always checking in on me each day one way or another ☺️
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I send him stick figure stories on sticky notes and leave them under his mouse on his desk.
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Posted by LillyPetal

JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES!

And then cookiemonster about how he ghosted you, a few months later...
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Yes and this is why I won't last lines were completely clear but it doesn't mean that I don't really really want to
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*yawns*


What are you like when pursuing someone or in a relationship??

I don't pursue someone I hardly know. treetrunk that!



So how long should you know someone to start pursuing?

'Pursuing', to me, equates to pushing for a desired result. I don't do that - I prefer both parties to make it happen, even if that entails a larger proportion of the effort coming from me.

In the past, I've 'pursued' the odd woman, based on nothing more than lust-ridden blind faith, only to later discover what a treetrunked-up and deplorable person they were. Never again!

Any woman expecting me to 'pursue' them can treetrunk off, as far as I'm concerned. During my periods of singledom, my porn stash will provide far more satisfaction...


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Pretty smug coming from a woman...


Don't assume all women are the same "man"

I don't assume, I know - especially when it comes to changing the goalposts whenever it suits.

Besides, I think we've been down this road before, so let's just agree to disagree.

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But we haven't been down this road I want to see what it looks like. Are their flowers? Is there pond we can catch tadpoles in ? Lol. It but seriously I am sure you will find someone who will want the same thing that you want one day don't give up 😌
Posted by LillyPetal
JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES!


I would if I could
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*yawns*


What are you like when pursuing someone or in a relationship??

I don't pursue someone I hardly know. treetrunk that!



So how long should you know someone to start pursuing?

'Pursuing', to me, equates to pushing for a desired result. I don't do that - I prefer both parties to make it happen, even if that entails a larger proportion of the effort coming from me.

In the past, I've 'pursued' the odd woman, based on nothing more than lust-ridden blind faith, only to later discover what a treetrunked-up and deplorable person they were. Never again!

Any woman expecting me to 'pursue' them can treetrunk off, as far as I'm concerned. During my periods of singledom, my porn stash will provide far more satisfaction...


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Pretty smug coming from a woman...
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Don't assume all women are the same "man"
Posted by Gob_buttere
Posted by Aerazo
Posted by Gob_buttere
Posted by Candicorn
Posted by Gob_buttere
*yawns*


What are you like when pursuing someone or in a relationship??

I don't pursue someone I hardly know. treetrunk that!



So how long should you know someone to start pursuing?

'Pursuing', to me, equates to pushing for a desired result. I don't do that - I prefer both parties to make it happen, even if that entails a larger proportion of the effort coming from me.

In the past, I've 'pursued' the odd woman, based on nothing more than lust-ridden blind faith, only to later discover what a treetrunked-up and deplorable person they were. Never again!

Any woman expecting me to 'pursue' them can treetrunk off, as far as I'm concerned. During my periods of singledom, my porn stash will provide far more satisfaction...

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Posted by Capz
i want to disobey to mom but i can't


This is so cute lol
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Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda 😁


Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much


Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?


We went to a strip club and a sex shop after our company Christmas party and he got shy and mad at me afterwards then we went separate ways in the car. I wouldn't be able to have casual sex with him though I would want more.


Sending pictures is not sex! Get him excited. Show him what you got! It will make him happy. Haha. But I totally understand if you don't want to.
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Oh I want to put I don't wanna get rejected either. He is a very weird about people touching him and he has let me touch him a couple of times and I think he's comfortable touching me but actually taking it there Idk
Posted by Distilled
If it's what you truly want and can handle then go for it.

You have nothing to lose if he's already running away.
If you can handle it at least it will a moment for the mental keep box.


We work together the most sexually we have ever gotten is him putting money down my shirt and laying it across my crotch so a stripper could grab it and a rare butt slap once or twice. But I feel like if nothing happens soon my vagina is going to fall off or my heart might explode whichever comes first
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Posted by ladylibra21
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda 😁


Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much


Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?
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We went to a strip club and a sex shop after our company Christmas party and he got shy and mad at me afterwards then we went separate ways in the car. I wouldn't be able to have casual sex with him though I would want more.
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda 😁


Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
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Posted by ladylibra21
Posted by Candicorn
I'm in a similar space

*hugs*



Seriously though it's like i'm afraid I'll do something impulsive at this point. Are you still dating the Scorp?

No too many lies
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Ugh I'm sorry love *hugs* I bet he is kicking he hell out of himself but the good thing is you won't be later
Posted by Shadowcat
Tbh, going by strictly synastry(which I do not recommend) it looks like he would be more affected than you, if that helps any.


That's what I thought but he tries to hide it. He did tell me once that I make him depressed because I make him think about gongs he ignores so maybe that's why he runs.
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Posted by ladylibra21
But I know I would regret it and he might not want that sigh πŸ˜”we have never even kissed but even though I am trying to move on I can't stand him being in my face without seeing our whole future flash before my eyes or one big argument and the back breaking sex that follows. This must be some karmatic butter.

This is a case of loving a Cap more then they cate about you.
Just venting...


Can you post your synastry?
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Basically

Him
Rising- Sag
Sun-Cap/Sag cusp
Moon- Taurus
Venus- Sag
Mercury Sag
Mars- Scorpio
Uranus- Sag
Neptune- Sag
Saturn- Sag


Me
Rising- Leo
Sun- Libra Scorp cusp
Moon- Cancer
Venus- Sag
Mercury- Libra
Mars- Libra
Uranus- Cap
Neptune- Cap
Saturn-Cap