Virgo here, what's this scorpio want!?

Background: I'm 28, Virgo, he's 29, Scorpio. We've been dating for just over one year, we just moved in together this month.

There are a few big umbrella issues we've continued to have in our relationship over the last year that, at times, we make small progress on, but other's, it turns into world war 3. I will take responsibility in saying that I have a really hard time waiting out the silence of the scorpio after an argument. I am a head on kind of girl- let's talk it out and find a solution. Which, in turn, pisses him off more, he pulls away, I get insecure... and it's another turn on the marry-go-round.

Since January we have been talking about moving in together (moving out of my current place after my graduation was in my plans long before we started dating). HE initiated plans for savings towards this, HE has been the one to send me listings of apartments all throughout the spring, additionally HE made the choice to add me to his credit cards and car insurance. Don't get me wrong, I love it, I love it all but never once have I asked him for anything.

One week before move-in: huge argument about him still trolling on his ex gf. (They've been broken up now going on two years). It's not something I understood... he's very secretive and only tells me what he wants when he wants. He got mad at me bc I was honest when I said I had looked her up on fb before, he snarled at me that it was none of my business. So I said that I thought he was still in love with her and he laughed in my face and went to bed. So I got pissed and said maybe we should just cancel the lease then, just treetrunk it all. The next morning we had a lengthy talk about being together/moving in and going round and round. I said I do want to be with him and move in together. So we do.

One week after move-in: another huge argument. this time he was mad bc we were talking about going to this party of a girl I don't like. So I shared my feelings about her and he got pissed saying he doesn't have time for my drama- which I wasn't creating, we were literally just talking and then boom, he's pissed. Then, the next day, it's the same ol scorpio silence. No texting, no communication.

I got fed up and said that I don't like being ignored. It went into this whole thing of him saying "I think we're both thinking this but neither wants to say it" and I said that I didn't think he wanted to be with me, he returned the comment to me.

I see Dxpnet is working again. pssh. Re: your post, it looks like you already have your answer. Do you really need to question it further? I don't think I need to say that when you guys were constantly getting in to fights prior to shacking up, it was a bad decision to move in together.