scorpios and virgos??

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by scoripoblood93 on Thursday, September 11, 2014 and has 14 replies.

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@scoripoblood93
11 Years

Are Scorpios and Virgos even compatible?

My Virgo man is like nothing I have ever come across. Hes one of these people that likes to be the hero. He has to fix everything. He is dedicated to his work, his cars and his role as a father and thinks with his head before anything else. Typical Virgo correct??

I on the other hand, LOVE to lead. I have to have things my way or else I have to make sure nothing becomes of a situation. I react to everything depending on my emotions and how it effects me. I'm not an unfair person. I like to make sure that everyone ((or as many people that can be)) are happy with the out come ((but of course I have to be happy first))

As far as I can see we should be at each others throats buuuuuuuuut no. Everything seems to run smoothly. His priority is his daughter. So is mine (( e.g when we got together i told him i would end it if his daughter didn't like it)) blah blah blah. He likes to look the part and have the lime light. I am happy to share it, even happy to hide in his shadow. I protect him from people using him and taking advantage of his generosity. He looks out for me making sure i get the best of a situation.

Tonight we had an argument about how I'm gonna live the next few months. He wants me to go home to my family where I'm safe. I'm refusing. Our relationship is too valuable for me to move across the other country where we wont see each other. We barely see each other now but it works. Blah blah blah.

POINT IS!!!!! We should be at head locks. We're both stubborn and like things our way. Yet here we are both curled up laughing and determined to find some way where i wont have to leave ......

PLEASE EXPLAIN TO ME HOW WE'RE STILL TOGETHER!!!!! (( not complaining just curious))

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Awww.

You're probably both stubborn in what involves careers or things that have to do with each of you individually. You actually described a dynamic of looking out for each other, which is true companionship. For the Virgo side of the equation at least.

Virgos are mutable. We don't really go into head locks with people, we adapt around them.

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@Octoberbaby91
11 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Yes we both are control freaks and weirdos but we perfectly fit eachothers opposite yet similar way of thinking.

I scorpio is inlove with a virgo as well when things go smoothly it's really great we have gotten in a few arguments but somehow can't leave eachother alone. I've recently moved to another state with my family but yet I still feel spiritually connected to this virgo I think he just called me "private" today just to hear my voice lol he's such a weirdo but he has taught me the most important life lessons and that is patience, letting go of control and unconditional love and I can't wait til we reunite as for now we are working on our careers I love that you posted this virgos and scorpios get obsessed with eachother thank God that he has come into your life he's like no other man/sign and perfect mate for us 🙂

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@scoripoblood93
11 Years

aww i love that post. My Virgo works away an awful lot and it drives me mad. ((He loves to wind me up, apparently my anger is a turn on lol)) but on the same note he also how defuse my temper quickly. )) he continuously tell me distance makes the heart grow fonder. I'm just worried that we will grow apart. I get emotionally attached to people i grow to trust and I don't know if I could handle it

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@Octoberbaby91
11 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Remember this distance is not a factor to a virgo they will go to the moon if you lived on a moon! They are mutable if they love you enough they will relocate for the one that has their heart. I know exactly what you mean bc I'm the same but it's true absence makes the heart grown fonder since I've felt so spiritually connected I don't feel like we are apart he is thinking of me just as much as I am thinking of him. Y'all two will learn a lot from eachother and can possibly be together for a lifetime never give up on him and he's yours forever 🙂

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@Octoberbaby91
11 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

I love the look in his eyes he too calms my temper when I feel a enormous amount of wrath he has an angelic appeal about him and yes they love when you go off on them like a mother and son relationship lmao he once told me "I know how to deal with you" after that we keep coming back to eachother lol go and love him he needs you to show him to think with his heart not just his mind.

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@scoripoblood93
11 Years

MY POINT!! The argument last night had us both crying. Hes just called me this morning singing the wheels on the bus to me. Then asked how I was. Not gonna lie to him I am scared his response "don't worry baby. I'm fixing this so you don't have to go home." I'm truly stumped here