Coping With Heartbreaks

I'm a Pisces and just felt rejected by an Aries man, so now I'm trying to once again soothe my heart from the pain of it all and I just want to ask you all how do you cope with a broken heart? What can a Pisces do to feel better again? 😢

Thank you.

Posted by tiziani
To an Aries "no" means "yes".

So, relax. You just dodged a bullet and save yourself a world of pain. One door closes, another one opens without an Aries standing in the way.

True, true. It doesn't make the pain any less, though, and it sucks a lot. I really thought we had something special, but no, it's something else entirely and I feel so stupid to think that it was for real. Oh well. Fuck it.

I changed my relationship status on the website that we both go to, because I know that when you tell yourself that you're single and that it's over, sooner or later, you'll start to believe it and it won't hurt as bad. So, I'm SINGLE. SINGLE. 🙂

I'll be happy again, it'll just take time...

Posted by CluelessCancer
Time. I thought I would never get to this place of just not giving a frak, but i'm here. Time does heal all things.

You're right.

Oh wow, I thought they were joking when people say that Aries and Pisces shouldn't be together. Now I know the truth. 😢

Posted by EusiveSoulll
Aries/Pisces combo CAN work, but both parties have to be very mature not just age wise but emotionally and mentally as well.

As for the initial question.. yup, I'm inclined to agree with CC and say TIME. Focus on yourself, your hobbies and what else makes you happy. Taking it one day at the time and instead of forcing the process, but rather just accepting it for what it is makes it easier.. for me personally anyway

I am not going to say that I am 100% mature, because I know that I have work to do for myself. But with him, yes, sometimes he's mature and then all of a sudden he acts all coy and sneaky. He said that he used to be passive-aggressive but "not anymore", but I can still see his passive-aggressive side coming out. It always baffles me when it happens.

I'm going to bed so thank you everyone. I'll check back tomorrow and try to keep strong.

Posted by betel
Yep...time.

But in the meantime...

(From a previous post I wrote)

"For heartache: I usually need a day or two for alone time. I listen music, write or paint. I watch something funny . Eat something with massive amounts of sugar. Then surround myself with people I love.
For stress: I need to be active mentally and physically. I exercise or do a jig saw puzzle. Talk with my sister."


He is just one Aries. Try not to be biased against the sign because of him. I know its hard not to be bias. The bias(anger)links you to him, therefore not allowing you to completely move on. That anger will hold you back. Detach and let go. But that comes with time. :/

I'm not biased. He is just one Aries, you're right. I'm just upset and angry right now, at him and even at myself for being so dumb. Thank you for the reply...