How patient are piesces men?

I am Virgo and my man is piesces.

Even though I am very kind and affectionate with him I feel that I am confusing by being an emotional roller coaster these days. He told asked me a few weeks back why I was turning hot and cold and I told him that I just need time till I can fully trust someone.

He has been very patient with me but sometimes I fear that he will be fed up with it....

Well, that's good to know. It's not my intention to treat him badly. Which I don't think I am.

It's just that it started off him feeling much more intensely for me than I did for him.

I don't want to make a wrong decision when choosing a partner for life, but I do see myself with him.

I think I just need some time to be be sure.

Thanks guys. I do appreciate your comments. At horeerjr, you are right. A situaltions feels much more relaxed and natural if the stress of trying to figure out immediately if he is the one wasn't there.

I will try my best to follow this as it is the only way to figure out if this goes anywhere.

@Waitforit, I analyzed the reason why I felt suffocated and it is because we kind of went from o- 100. He would be around all the time and since he lives 2 hours driving away from me I would let him stay over in the evenings.

I do enjoy his presense a lot but I am a person who needs a lot of "me time" to relax and wind down.

Currently I am just trying to find a way to balance it all to see if this relationship can work...

Oh and regarding Virgo men, I know for a fact that they can be very emotional and clingy at times.

Also 0- 100 men. They are very intense creatures when it comes to relationships...

Seriously! I am very indecisive in anything I do. I can't plan for once. Everything needs to be done on impulse which makes me very creative at times.

I am a free spirit and lead a stable life at the same time. I know it's complex but it is what it is.

Having found someone who seems as he can deal with this means a lot to me. He is very stable which I adore about him.

Virgo men..hehe...One thing I can say is what you see is what you get. They are so loyal and they would give their last for you.

Virgo Aries- a lot of passion...:-)

You are so right. Having it structured more would make it all feel much more natural for me.

I have indicated it last time we met and it works wonders. I actually looked forward seeing him again.

Let's see how it goes. I just wish I can make a final decision some day and being completely content with it.

Its over?? Are you ok with it?

very true...I am usually bad at that..

I'll be honest about this Because I am a Pisces and I was effectuated about this one Virgo,

She was the exact opposite of everything I ever wanted to be on my outside that was bottled up inside.
I was everything she was inside bottle up in her I believe.

I was very shy and not willing to come out about it and once I noticed she had interested I ended up smothering her and believe I scared her.

I've been told by the 3 women I've seen. " I love to much "

It sucks but I wanted things to work and well,

I will wait for her to make the next move but I've lost my caring side about it. and she will have to prove to me why I should let her back in. For now I am keeping an open mind about everything as far as relationships go and keeping my mind busy with other things for not to dwell and think about it

Yeah things sux but moving on and finding new interests.

Thanks so much for sharing your story. I am sorry that your last relationships didn't go well.

Don't feel bad about loving too much though. What the world need is kind and genuine people. Many people are crippled emotionally that showing emotions seem strange.

Believe me, the chances that I end up with my man are very high because I have seen the opposite. Men that don't care.

Your gf may be too young to have such a commitment. I can't tell you what she thinks.

No matter what though, value and love yoursef first always and if you meet a lady who is meant for you, she will love you for who you are.

I think she might not be ready for for such a real thing and afraid to disappoint.

Me being me and that's what counts not changing for anyone.

Good for you. Certainly don't change. As I said. It's a great trait and the right woman will appreciate it...

Oh honeeyjr I actually only just got your statement. That's good to know too. I guess I sometimes give him the feeling.I need to work on that.

Lol...Pisces and colleagues..Two words I needed years to spell right and I still make the occasional mistake...:-)

Thanks for that guys.

They say that men like a chase. In our case unconsciously it has been a chase for him.

I like that he is still there and I promised to give my everything to make it all. If anyone, he deserves me to...