Thoughts on this Pisces sun/Leo moon guy?

He seems to like you but he still needs to spend some more time with you. He needs to learn to trust you and that can only happen if he spends more time with you. The good part is that he likes you, sees a future with you. However, the Gemini mars kind of gives him doubts. Spend some time with him. He can be a little wishy/washy and indecisive but he still likes you.

Another thing is that he might not like confrontations. So the situation of the other girl might not be taken lightly. From what I have observed, he seems to be running away from that conversation. The best to do it is to approach him in a logical way. That way he has no reason to hide it from you. Avoid confrontations as this might bring the bad side of the Leo moon into focus which is unpleasant. For instance you could bring up the topic when talking about past relationships or cheating or similar topics. Be indirect as possible. Sound as if you are just joking. I am Gemini mars, Jupiter, Leo moon, Pisces sun, mercury and Venus. Maybe he might be attached to this other girl.

Posted by chris19

He seems to like you but he still needs to spend some more time with you. He needs to learn to trust you and that can only happen if he spends more time with you. The good part is that he likes you, sees a future with you. However, the Gemini mars kind of gives him doubts. Spend some time with him. He can be a little wishy/washy and indecisive but he still likes you.

Another thing is that he might not like confrontations. So the situation of the other girl might not be taken lightly. From what I have observed, he seems to be running away from that conversation. The best to do it is to approach him in a logical way. That way he has no reason to hide it from you. Avoid confrontations as this might bring the bad side of the Leo moon into focus which is unpleasant. For instance you could bring up the topic when talking about past relationships or cheating or similar topics. Be indirect as possible. Sound as if you are just joking. I am Gemini mars, Jupiter, Leo moon, Pisces sun, mercury and Venus. Maybe he might be attached to this other girl.

LOL he's the same age as you so you both are the same except I am unsure of his rising. I superrrr appreciate you reading through all of that and providing me constructive feedback and advice. It means a lot esp from someone with those EXACT placements. Actually it scared me a bit on your charts generally being the same hahah, but I super hope you're not the same otherwise I am screwed (maybe).

I really enjoy his character, but he doesn't vocalize too often it seems like, which I just assume he's holding his guard up. A lot of Pisces guys I've encountered are pretty talkative with me and generally enjoy my presence and I enjoy theirs, but he's pretty chill with me and tends to say he's enjoying the moment. I swear he does a lot of tests on me and I don't realize it or I do realize and I don't know what to make of it. Any thoughts on what to look out for? I'm not great at body language and that's his true form of expression as he has stated.

I feel like with a Leo moon, you'd probably like just one person? Or I guess multiples, that gem mars and pisces ven. I texted him how much I appreciate him spending time with me in addition to being a supportive friend (the girl above) and threw in there 'other dates' and I saw a day later coincidentally, how he either unmatched me or deactivated/deleted his dating profile. I didn't ask him about it, but I thought that was interesting. Plus he mentions how he wants someone to like him because they like him and not because he likes them or something to that extent so I feel like our way of thinking is similar.

Ooo that's great advice about the being indirect! I'm quite direct. TOO direct sometimes as I've been told and so I've been learning the art of being indirect and being passive aggressive - for some reason that works well with more emotional signs imo. He doesn't hide her per se, but he can't stop helping her it seems? I talked to my other friend about it and she's basically the same sign as you both and said he probably wants an escape from her and doesn't really put his foot down - almost rather have me say something about it, without directly saying it to him so he feels like he has a good reason to stop without me imposing it onto him. So you mentioning that indirectness and using it as a joke is perfect!

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

After this horrifyingly boring essay - all I want to know is wtf does this meant: but he still engaged in conversation and even

!wanted to split the bill—

As supposed to WHAT— You paying it all—

GTFO! Dump this boring cheapskate! Disgusting...

LOL you're sweet! I appreciate your honesty much more. Sometimes I don't know what I'm saying.

Posted by BlueStar

I feel like he’s just enjoying your company until you move.

True! I feel like that too! More recently I've realized I want something more serious and in a sense feel like I shouldn't waste time if he isn't looking on that same level. I guess I can let what we have run its course, but I don't plan on being friends or fcuk buddies afterwards. I rather not waste time, but I can be more open minded and patient ... (Real struggles for me lol)

Posted by doubletaurus

Posted by chris19

He seems to like you but he still needs to spend some more time with you. He needs to learn to trust you and that can only happen if he spends more time with you. The good part is that he likes you, sees a future with you. However, the Gemini mars kind of gives him doubts. Spend some time with him. He can be a little wishy/washy and indecisive but he still likes you.

Another thing is that he might not like confrontations. So the situation of the other girl might not be taken lightly. From what I have observed, he seems to be running away from that conversation. The best to do it is to approach him in a logical way. That way he has no reason to hide it from you. Avoid confrontations as this might bring the bad side of the Leo moon into focus which is unpleasant. For instance you could bring up the topic when talking about past relationships or cheating or similar topics. Be indirect as possible. Sound as if you are just joking. I am Gemini mars, Jupiter, Leo moon, Pisces sun, mercury and Venus. Maybe he might be attached to this other girl.

LOL he's the same age as you so you both are the same except I am unsure of his rising. I superrrr appreciate you reading through all of that and providing me constructive feedback and advice. It means a lot esp from someone with those EXACT placements. Actually it scared me a bit on your charts generally being the same hahah, but I super hope you're not the same otherwise I am screwed (maybe).

I really enjoy his character, but he doesn't vocalize too often it seems like, which I just assume he's holding his guard up. A lot of Pisces guys I've encountered are pretty talkative with me and generally enjoy my presence and I enjoy theirs, but he's pretty chill with me and tends to say he's enjoying the moment. I swear he does a lot of tests on me and I don't realize it or I do realize and I don't know what to make of it. Any thoughts on what to look out for? I'm not great at body language and that's his true form of expression as he has stated.

I feel like with a Leo moon, you'd probably like just one person? Or I guess multiples, that gem mars and pisces ven. I texted him how much I appreciate him spending time with me in addition to being a supportive friend (the girl above) and threw in there 'other dates' and I saw a day later coincidentally, how he either unmatched me or deactivated/deleted his dating profile. I didn't ask him about it, but I thought that was interesting. Plus he mentions how he wants someone to like him because they like him and not because he likes them or something to that extent so I feel like our way of thinking is similar.

Ooo that's great advice about the being indirect! I'm quite direct. TOO direct sometimes as I've been told and so I've been learning the art of being indirect and being passive aggressive - for some reason that works well with more emotional signs imo. He doesn't hide her per se, but he can't stop helping her it seems? I talked to my other friend about it and she's basically the same sign as you both and said he probably wants an escape from her and doesn't really put his foot down - almost rather have me say something about it, without directly saying it to him so he feels like he has a good reason to stop without me imposing it onto him. So you mentioning that indirectness and using it as a joke is perfect!

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You pay attention to his actions. We are not good at expressing our thoughts. Our actions speak louder than words. Your Pisces friend might be right. We tend to gravitate towards dispressed people and could be hard for us leave them. Unless the same person pulls away from him. Never the less we can also stop seeing that person at will. For me it requires some kind of betrayal for me to leave for good. I also don't like leaving people when in difficult times.

Expect frequent mood swings and long times of solitude.

Posted by BlueStar

Posted by doubletaurus

Posted by BlueStar

I feel like he’s just enjoying your company until you move.

True! I feel like that too! More recently I've realized I want something more serious and in a sense feel like I shouldn't waste time if he isn't looking on that same level. I guess I can let what we have run its course, but I don't plan on being friends or fcuk buddies afterwards. I rather not waste time, but I can be more open minded and patient ... (Real struggles for me lol)

I mean if you are moving what can you realistically do long term with him?

LDR only works if it’s a temporary situation that leads to you being in the same place.

Better to just move and find your new place and get settled.

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Hmmm you have an excellent point! I'm a person whose preference is LDR and it's because I like my space. Only more recently have I decided to want something more local. So you're right in the long run, it wouldn't make to do LDR since it's mostly used as a means to an end, not vice versa.

Like you mentioned, better to get settled and to me that equates to "let's not make life harder for myself" Appreciate you sharing your thoughts!

Posted by jukey

My first thought is that he's occupied by this other girl (or other friends and life stuff; I mean, Gem Mars can be scatter brained) while still trying to be present with you. So it may be tricky to pin him down and have consistency while he's traveling around.

I'd say let him take the lead and message you first if he wants to keep it going. That is, if you're willing to be patient and think he's worth it.

hahah gem mars is very short attention span-like. I can be like that sometimes, but I find myself thriving the best in those situations. The unfortunate part is that I forget a lot of things and blur it all together. Anyways, I do recognize his efforts to be present with me, but I like your comment of letting him lead if he wants to keep it going yet knowing it's a two way street of me being patient.

I've reflected on the thought of patience vs tolerance. While looking up the definition, one thought popped up: patience is waiting for a reward and tolerance is accepting the situation as is - which resonated with me. So as much as we are patient for something/someone in hopes of a reward, to know that I'm not all in it for a reward or being entitled to it, but I am practicing patience too - something for myself.

We'll see how this goes!

Posted by chris19

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Posted by chris19

He seems to like you but he still needs to spend some more time with you. He needs to learn to trust you and that can only happen if he spends more time with you. The good part is that he likes you, sees a future with you. However, the Gemini mars kind of gives him doubts. Spend some time with him. He can be a little wishy/washy and indecisive but he still likes you.

Another thing is that he might not like confrontations. So the situation of the other girl might not be taken lightly. From what I have observed, he seems to be running away from that conversation. The best to do it is to approach him in a logical way. That way he has no reason to hide it from you. Avoid confrontations as this might bring the bad side of the Leo moon into focus which is unpleasant. For instance you could bring up the topic when talking about past relationships or cheating or similar topics. Be indirect as possible. Sound as if you are just joking. I am Gemini mars, Jupiter, Leo moon, Pisces sun, mercury and Venus. Maybe he might be attached to this other girl.

LOL he's the same age as you so you both are the same except I am unsure of his rising. I superrrr appreciate you reading through all of that and providing me constructive feedback and advice. It means a lot esp from someone with those EXACT placements. Actually it scared me a bit on your charts generally being the same hahah, but I super hope you're not the same otherwise I am screwed (maybe).

I really enjoy his character, but he doesn't vocalize too often it seems like, which I just assume he's holding his guard up. A lot of Pisces guys I've encountered are pretty talkative with me and generally enjoy my presence and I enjoy theirs, but he's pretty chill with me and tends to say he's enjoying the moment. I swear he does a lot of tests on me and I don't realize it or I do realize and I don't know what to make of it. Any thoughts on what to look out for? I'm not great at body language and that's his true form of expression as he has stated.

I feel like with a Leo moon, you'd probably like just one person? Or I guess multiples, that gem mars and pisces ven. I texted him how much I appreciate him spending time with me in addition to being a supportive friend (the girl above) and threw in there 'other dates' and I saw a day later coincidentally, how he either unmatched me or deactivated/deleted his dating profile. I didn't ask him about it, but I thought that was interesting. Plus he mentions how he wants someone to like him because they like him and not because he likes them or something to that extent so I feel like our way of thinking is similar.

Ooo that's great advice about the being indirect! I'm quite direct. TOO direct sometimes as I've been told and so I've been learning the art of being indirect and being passive aggressive - for some reason that works well with more emotional signs imo. He doesn't hide her per se, but he can't stop helping her it seems? I talked to my other friend about it and she's basically the same sign as you both and said he probably wants an escape from her and doesn't really put his foot down - almost rather have me say something about it, without directly saying it to him so he feels like he has a good reason to stop without me imposing it onto him. So you mentioning that indirectness and using it as a joke is perfect!

You pay attention to his actions. We are not good at expressing our thoughts. Our actions speak louder than words. Your Pisces friend might be right. We tend to gravitate towards dispressed people and could be hard for us leave them. Unless the same person pulls away from him. Never the less we can also stop seeing that person at will. For me it requires some kind of betrayal for me to leave for good. I also don't like leaving people when in difficult times.

Expect frequent mood swings and long times of solitude.

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That last sentence is much needed! I don't mind giving space, it's nice to know if that's all you need and I'll happily do my own thing - I don't need attention from someone else, I can entertain myself.

Paying attention to actions might be tricky for me. Body language is def not my forte, but I will try to learn. Sometimes I see these observations, but I don't know what to do with it - green or red flag, react or don't react. Who knows. I'm taking this time to better reflect on my actions and awareness. I'm sure if someone saw our dates, they'll def see things I wouldn't have noticed and it migth be the obvious thing in the world. Like he wanted to show me this video on his phone and I'm like "Why?" and I realized as I conceded and moved in closer, he wanted to put his arms around my side. Sooo learning experiences.