Oh. He definitely is wishy washy. Drives me nuts. He's so spontaneous he jumps from thing to thing. Every time we talk if someone interrupts us even for a minute. He's already forgotten we were just talking.
I've combatted it by not really believing any ideas he has until he starts working on it or if he has an idea I just do the whole thing cause he will never complete it. And when he's being spontaneous i let him run amuck cause I know he always comes back. He just gets lost for a while. Lol
Lol hes exactly how you described. The hard part for me is hes nice and funny and helpful with everyone including me but the diff with me is he tends to think for me at times
Potlucks he will automatically say his dish is from both of us
He won't really say much to me at group hang outs/happy hour. But he's been known to watch over me secretly.
He randomly just gives me things ie candy without asking me if I want any he will just give it to me without asking me if I want it
He just touches or goes through my stuff without asking. I don't know if hes ever asked
It's driving me nuts with the interest vs comfortable thing because if it was either wouldn't we be around each other more? I feel like he is around others and I barely get to talk to him compared to them
Easier said than done since we work together. But he us nurturing but I doubt its anyone else besides me
I guess due to my insecurities it was easier for me to assume it would never be mutual. But as days go on its getting harder to not want something more
I just wish I knew
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Him: aquarius sun. Capricorn moon. Gemini rising
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