Hot then Cold

Well I don't understand it, and I don't like it. Mr Cancer was steaming hot, then out of no where cold. Not a call or answer back to my text. I think he is playing head games lol, and if so then I can play them as well, but 2 wrongs doesn't make a right. We aren't in High School here. Sorry I am venting!

I am but I am far beyond mad, this is bullsh*t

Well what do ya know? He text's me finally, I ain't responding or should I arghhhh!!!

"See he would turn me off with this behavior.."-I've been there done that. lol.


-L76 how long has it been since he's contacted you?

Right when I posted this he did. "go figure"...

"I think she meant initially.."

-yea

2 days, sorry - just strange when he was up my ass the whole time lol then poof and I'm back

That's the way I am also. I never expected him to be up my ass to begin with, and when he was I was like ok buddy slow down here. Just seemed really odd to up and stop for a few days ya know? Did not know what to think about it. I am going to take your advice though, and not reply as soon as he does, and not be the one to do it first.

Ok that prob came across wrong. I don't have a problem with him slowing down, that was not it. What was it , No contact from him for a few days or replying to me when I was contacting him. There is a difference between slowing down, and playing mind games with someone, in which I felt he was doing, and he still may be.

Then, you decide not to contact him for no other reasons than head games?




I'm not going to be the first to contact him..No, This way I will see how long it takes and try to weigh if it is just him stepping back ( that I can handle) or him flucking with my head.

Well what indication do you have that he is really playing games—


One of his comments to me was ..I know how to play the game well, but with you ..It's like my balls are open. That whole i know how to play the game well came out of left field.

I hear ya..Draining is dead on

Ok, I think that he is just afraid of getting hurt is all, but what is one to do in that situation? Reassurance only goes so far

from my experience, cancers tend to be people who need reassurance.

on my end though, not being a cancer but still, i sometimes leave people i like alone for a few days if it seems like im bothering them. i never really have reasons to believe that, but i do it anyway. haha.