How a pisces man can get his taurus ex-gf back

Hi, I'm a Pisces man of 31 years old and I was in a relationship with a Taurus woman of 32 years old. A little bit of how we end up together; we've met, went on 3 dates and I asked her to be my girlfriend on the third date. She only had 2 relationships before this one, the first one lasted 10 years and ended when her bf cheated on her, the second one started right after this one and lasted 1 year until her bf told her he didn't love her anymore and moved on. I had some relationships but this was the first one where I felt like I was scoring the "perfect package", someone with whom I could imagine my whole life with, having my heart and brain heading in the same direction. I've loved her the best I could while we were together, trying to provide her everything she needed, also time and space for her to be with her friends, never being jealous or anything. After 4 months she told me that sometimes she was feeling like there was a lack of intensity, like she wasn't always sure she was feeling in love with me, even knowing I was everything she always wanted. She asked us to take a break to see if she gets her feelings together. We were back together one week later.

Things looked to be going well until 3 months later she asked again for a break, again for the same reasons "You're doing everything in the right way, you're everything I've always dreamed of but sometimes I just don't know how I feel about you. It's like I have you but it's not want I wanted. I can't commit myself entirely, I don't even know why, I just wanted to love more". We were in this situation for 3 weeks before she asked us to finally break up for real. I still totally love her and I'm so sure about how we could make things work, even our friends supported our relationship the entire time, I just cannot understand what's "blocking" her. Since we've broke up I'm being more reactive then active, letting her initiate contact. But I have a feeling she already likes someone else because she didn't seem to go through a hard time with the break up and she's always "online" on whatsApp (don't want to be a stalker, but she was rarely online there).

Is it possible to get her back? Any help on how to achieve it is very welcome.

Thanks

've always felt she was generally insecure, not only about us but also in everything in her life. Still I never asked her to give more than what she was already giving, because I could love her that way and I was truly happy. I thought that if she could commit herself, things would fall into space and she could feel in love.
She never told about us to her mother but her friends and other family members knew about us. I understood this as her just wanting to tell her mom only when she was sure.

My natal chart:
Sun Pisces 28.53
Moon Libra 25.21
Mercury Aries 9.08
Venus Pisces 5.55
Mars Scorpio 26.40
Jupiter Capricorn 10.24
Saturn Scorpio 15.55 R
Uranus Sagittarius 13.34 R
Neptune Capricorn 1.23
Pluto Scorpio 1.36 R
Lilith Pisces 10.59
Asc node Gemini 9.33

Her natal chart:
Sun Taurus 2.33
Moon Virgo 10.39
Mercury Taurus 22.15
Venus Gemini 11.28
Mars Taurus 13.02
Jupiter Sagittarius 9.52 R
Saturn Scorpio 1.01 R
Uranus Sagittarius 8.28 R
Neptune Sagittarius 29.07 R
Pluto Libra 28.01 R
Lilith Aquarius 4.06
Asc node Gemini 26.32

I'm not sure if she's into someone else, it's just a feeling. Also she told me she would tell me if she get someone new, which she didn't tell me so far. Since she's has been always so straightforward, is it a good sign? She texts me once in a while, asking how am I doing. Should I be light and funny in the messages or should I be direct and short, maybe taking some time before texting her back?

She is not the one.

It's funny I guessed that this Taurus had a Venus in Gemini before actually getting to the part where you actually listed her placements .

She got bored . You didn't challenge her / was too easy / fast in giving her everything she wanted . That's why she broke up with you .

Which isn't a bad thing . It's actually a blessing . A guy who doesn't play games and who wants commitment is rare these days . As a fellow piscean With a libra moon I would say that you should move on . She's not the perfect package . The perfect package doesn't get bored and dump you . Could you imagine if you married her and had kids and she pulled something like this ?

If you are serious about trying to get get her back the only way to do that is still to genuinely move on . Her interest probably will respark once she realizes that she made a mistake and that you are no longer available .

Even before it sounded like she had air in her chart.. and she may not settle down for awhile. Unless plays the field for awhile. She wants mental stimulation, and no emotions, she needs to find someone who can challenge her, always got to be different from others..Especially the bedroom switch it up...

You asked her to be with you way too fast. You have to get to know that other person. And sometimes good people get hurt because it's hot and cold constantly..

Im a Taurus with air moon and VIT so I'm always indecisive about people. And I'm picky. And usually if I like you. I will say it, then again if I sit back long enough. I get to observe everything about the person. There likes and dislikes.

I also know someone with VIG. And this one is hard work for the other stellium placements I have.

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
It's funny I guessed that this Taurus had a Venus in Gemini before actually getting to the part where you actually listed her placements .

She got bored . You didn't challenge her / was too easy / fast in giving her everything she wanted . That's why she broke up with you .

Which isn't a bad thing . It's actually a blessing . A guy who doesn't play games and who wants commitment is rare these days . As a fellow piscean With a libra moon I would say that you should move on . She's not the perfect package . The perfect package doesn't get bored and dump you . Could you imagine if you married her and had kids and she pulled something like this ?

If you are serious about trying to get get her back the only way to do that is still to genuinely move on . Her interest probably will respark once she realizes that she made a mistake and that you are no longer available .

Ok, so I move on, start to focus on myself, not thinking about her at all. She asked that we should keep friends since there was no reason to not be, and at that time I said it was ok by me. Should I reconsider this option or it can be a way of showing her that I'm doing great without her?