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LeoQueeny
@LeoQueeny
12 Years

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I'm a Cancer/Leo Cusp, born July 23rd, 1980. My love life should absolutely be set up with little orange cones, and flashing lights, warning sirens. I mean it is a MESS. Background on me, I'm divorced with one child and have been back into the dating scene for about 8 months now, after waiting over a year post-divorce to try to meet anyone.

My current situation has 3 facets. I will explain them all and hopefully someone can give me some advice, because I really just don't know what to do.

1. I had been dating a Pisces man (3-10-82) for about 5 months. I got really, really, really attached to him. Rationally, I don't think he was a great choice for me, because he was very quiet, almost cold in the area of affection and romance, and I just never was able to really get to a point with him where I felt like I "intimately" KNEW him. I knew him, but not on that level that I like to get to with the people I love. All of that aside, I fell really hard for him, and he said he loved me too. Things went great for awhile, and then he started to need "alone" time, and indicated that he wanted to spend less time with me. Eventually, I pushed for an answer about what he wanted with our relationship and he ended things, in a very open-ended way. He texted me one time and told me he was sorry and that he was a horrible person, but beyond that, I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks now. I miss him like crazy, and just really don't feel like things are over. But being the prideful person I am, I refuse to contact him until he attempts to contact me, if he ever does at all.

2. The day after we broke up, and the subsequent changing of my Facebook relationship status back to single, I was messaged by a male friend (2-9-78) who has a much older girlfriend. He's indicated to mutual friends that he finds me attractive and has been texting, all friendly, nothing romantically charged at all, randomly for the past 2 weeks now. Maybe 2 or 3 messages a day, all in the friend zone. I'm attracted to him too, but I'm not about being "the other woman" and I don't like the idea of him being disloyal to her, even though I don't know her. I fear that if things were to go somewhere with him in the future (granted he ended his current relationship first), then I'd always have some trust issues with him. One of those if he'd do it to her, he'd do it to me conundrums.

To be continued...
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LeoQueeny
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12 Years

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Okay, here's the rest...

3. Around the same time that everything else was falling apart and around me, I was also contacted by a Gemini guy (6-19-78), and he seems like a sweetheart, but that could just be my initial thoughts. He seems to really like me and has called and texted quite a bit, and has been pushing for a date.

My heart is still kinda with Pisces man, but my head thinks it will never work and that he is probably gone forever. I read into astrology, but honestly I'm no expert. I guess my question here is who is the one that would be the best for me? Should I try to work things out with Pisces, wait it out with the Aquarian, or go for it with the Gemini? I have such a hard time with decisions like these, and all 3 of them are good men I think, albeit very different.

Any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated.