Sag and Virgo can they work?

I am a Sag female with Aries Moon and he is a Virgo Male with Taurus Moon can they work?

ha..im probably in no way a credible judge of that considering ive just recently backed away from a nauseating and sweaty bitterly sweet experience with my virgo.. im a sagg as well by the way.. the most candid thing i can say about the whole thing... We have COMPLETLELY DIFFERENT ways of operating than the virgos.. TOTAL AND COMPLETE DIFFERENCE are the words for today..lol but then again.. True love conquers all.. 😉

dyrstr8z:

I have been reading your Virgo Males series and it is helpful. Thank you for that. I just wasn't sure what affects the moon has on our emotions.

hopelessdreamr:

Thanks, I know we are different but I like different and enjoy the witty man he is with all of his smart*ss remarks and his twinkle eyes that make me melt for some crazy reason which can not be explained even to myself.

2 of my bestest closest mates - Female sag & Virgo male! They are a perrrrrfect match made in heaven! They got married in India! Lived with them on & off for 5 years Although a few things they watch out for over the years:
Communication - if one is in a bad mood or doesn?t want to talk they have a yellow tissue & a red tissue - Red is for mad yellow all clear - I always thought that was cute 🙂 They have had some fiery arguments - neither being willing to back down (both are know it alls)they usually come to some sort of 'understanding' rather than admit being wrong and he always is picking on her ie she loves a glass of wine (or three) every night because she works her arse off & he doesn?t drink & she spends too much on home ware or clothes & he LOVES his calculator and budgets like a banker! He can be anally retentive (will vacuum 3 times a day)& she can be pedantic (hates spelling errors - reads the dictionary)- this works well (bad for me while living with them!!!)
They both love there peace & quiet although both are very sociable - gots to watch out for the Virgo as they have very high libidos (as far as I know - know a fair few Virgos) and can think nothing about sex - is it just an act to them separate from love?? God knows - She is cuddlier than he is but he is very attentive to her needs - awwww just thinking about them makes me smile 🙂 If you are anything like them u two should be lovely

i agree.. definitely explosive chemistry between us.. and yes sweethearts.. the complete and total differences make u almost complimentary to each other and just as easily can u clash.. lol.. but incompatible?? noo.. not in the least..easy..??.. well.. maybe if both parties are in the same circle of emotional maturity..then it truly could be match made in heaven..alls u need is a little love ..a lot is even better 😉

pisces:

Thanks for the positive view of a Virgo/Sag mix. You are definately right about the stubborness. I can be very stubborn but I do think he is worse than I am. I get upset about something and I get over it really quick. He get's upset about something it can last for days, weeks, months and you still don't know what happened and because I'm so stubborn, I don't push to find out so I back off for a while and then a while turns into weeks and then how do you connect again, who knows. still trying to figure it out. I'm glad it works for them.

hopelessdreamr:

Your right, it's not easy. Sorry about your Virgo male.

yea.. in ever figured it out.. so much time would just roll on by.. i may be the one to take hem and touch base with him and hes all nonchalant like it hasnt just been X amount of days,weeks,months.. lol but i dunno.. aside from the Virgo bit.. i just feel like if u want me..u will Make time for me and if u Need me then you will make certain to have me...otherwise..bull------from here til christmas..dont even pay it ne mind..but maybe its my notorious Sagg ways of being optimistic and expecting everyone to be just that.. i mean i dont think nething wrong with it so y not?? ynot keep down confusiion and BE REAL i guess easier said than done.. in this book.. dude from sex in the city editing team talked about the Last thing men wana doo is tell a woman the truth. especially if that truth is "you're not the one".. said theyd rather eat sand..
~food for thought~

'He gets upset about something it can last for days, weeks, months'

Orrrr yeah - He goes to his room?! - It is unbelievable - she will try everything to get him to talk but nada - he is almost blind to anyone else?s view when he thinks he is right (pig headed bleep bleep bleep censored) - the only way I found to get around it is to agree to disagree & make sure they are aware that there point is valid and you will take that into account if they agree to take your point as well - some times compromise though is the best option - just know you are the better person by letting them think they are right to avoid argument. What is classic is she is forgetful & he cracks it at her & she just smiles & sort of laughs and treats him like a little boy chucking a hissy fit hehheh - and then he can't can't keep serious about it 🙂 I used to love catching him make a mistake because it was rare. Does urs love cars?? Ooo & not a bad cook at all - really he is great - he cooks cleans & sorts bills

hopelessdreamr:

I know where you are coming from. I am optimistic too. I don't understand why men just can't tell you the truth either. I guess alot of women can't handle it but us Sags prefer the truth whether it hurts or not. I go completely nuts when I am ignored. I rather have someone tell me that they don't want to be with me then leaving me hanging. I need a direct answer and I always give it. This Virgo guy has got me stumped and I think he knows it and is using it to manipulate me because he can hold out longer with no contact then I can.

pisces:

I do the same thing, I try to get him to talk to me to at least let me know why he is upset and he doesn't and then when we have talked after he acts like nothing has happened. He loves to cook which is great because I suck at it and he doesn't like junk food or fast food.

hopelessdreamr:

I know where you are coming from. I am optimistic too. I don't understand why men just can't tell you the truth either. I guess alot of women can't handle it but us Sags prefer the truth whether it hurts or not. I go completely nuts when I am ignored. I rather have someone tell me that they don't want to be with me then leaving me hanging. I need a direct answer and I always give it. This Virgo guy has got me stumped and I think he knows it and is using it to manipulate me because he can hold out longer with no contact then I can.


sweethearts..lol..literally just about word for word do i feel like wat u wrote.. they are so viscious at taking advantage.. it really does wonders for the ego apparently.. i think its acting out wen someone did them how they dont like.. and we dont know and they surely woodnt share with us how they let someone walk over them.. y thats against the holy virg tablets.. but seriously..its a strange love affair.. a strange one indeed

Got my saggy friend thats with the Virgo coming in for lunch - Ill get her to write a line or 5 about what works 🙂

She said to play mind games with them - think smarter than them - if u wear your heart on your sleve they will see this as an easy target and manipulate you - they can't help themselves - its fun to them - and hurtful to you. If you want them to do something your way, build up to it don't demand they do what u want - warm them up to it & then if u can try & make it seam as thou it was there idea all along!

I think that I have come to the conclusion that he's not worth it. I want someone who wants to be with me and not play all these games, flirting games is fun but not when you open up to someone and they you feel like a fool for doing it. I am getting too old for this crap. We all have baggage of some sort and no one is better or worse then anyone else just different. I think I am too tired and emotionally drained to keep this up. Why the heck to I want someone who disrespects me. I know logically what needs to be done and emotionally I have to keep telling myself that he is an *ss and any other negative thing I can think of so I can be done with these feelings. It's his loss because I'm a good women and I want to be with someone who wants me and will talk to me even if they are having a bad day. Thanks you guys for your advice and help.

Sad to hear it 😢

its a shame wen they let us walk away from them..we're all the flame theyll ever get and they fu----- around n ruined it..

There loss - Really I have been told they never grow up anyways - I can't get past the thick headedness - I always argue with um always will - You will be better for it forsure

Be better for what, pisces??

sorry - thats for sweethearts_1969 - 'It's his loss because I'm a good women and I want to be with someone who wants me and will talk to me even if they are having a bad day'
Bit tired - no sleep & waaaaaaaaaaaaay 2 much work - working 2 jobs

OOh.lol. rest up.. ur health is all u have 😉

Thanks! 🙂

Good luck to you both too. Thanks for the support. I have learned a lot on hear about all the different types of signs. It's interesting that there is so many females that have problems with the Virgo Male that it amazes me. I also think I need to date younger because to many man in their mid 30's to 40 have too many past issues and they still hold onto them and a very worried that they will happen again to them. I, just like them have some baggage from past relationships too but I am open to love even though I'm afraid to get hurt just like anyone else is. I hope we all find what is right for us. Thanks

yea sweethearts.. i totally can relate.. lots of these burned males out here carry their baggage on their heads.. and it weighs them down every step of the way.. dont think if u go younger its ne better.. lol.. my ex virgos 23 and we met wen he was like 18 soo.. at a younger age the whole ignorance is bliss thing is really understating

Saggittarians and Virgos get along very well - I would watch the Arian and Taurus side of you though - that's a rather dominating moon compatibility there - just hope the dark side doesn't get the best of you both! Good luck! 🙂

This is all so interesting. I believe we attract that which we learn from, whether good, bad or indifferent. The more evolved we become the more we attract liked minded spirits, regardless of their position in the stars. Life is change, and no one has the ability to second quess someone's road in life. We are all aspects of all of the signs. And we experience them all thru out our lives. We choose our lessons with whomever, and hopefully after the experience we can see it as a grateful lesson and then we move on, hopefully with the touch of undertstanding, acceptance and compassion to get us going into a fuller appreciation of why we are blessed to be living as human beings with one another in this mystery of Life.

Hi🙂
I am a sag born 20th of desember. I have been talking with a virgo female on MSN and my attitude has always been to almost never initiate conversation, she mostly did that. I also never hinted anything to her about wanting to meet her or anything, because I liked too much just talking with her. Then one day she asked me when we were going to meet up, and I said soon.
Then I did something stupid and sent her a lame e-mail, but an honest one, where I told her about my biggest weakness, and she said after that that she was disappointed that I thought this weakness would be something she would get stuck up about, because she wasnt this kind of person. But after that we started talking on the phone, and we were going to meet up, and she said she wanted to meet me and so on, I even went to say hello to her sister, and she told me how her sister more than approved of me.
And even after telling her how important it is for me that she is straight faced with me, I now suddenly get a cold shoulder from her. So I do not know what is on her mind, but seeing that she was the one who took the initiative on MSN and to us meeting up, and now she is cold, I have come to the conclusion that if this is going to progress anywhere the sag has to take the initiative and brake through, because I dont think she will ever be able to make up her mind or even speak her mind now that she obviously has doubts.

My dilemma is this:
Should I just let it all go and if she wants to say anything to me then she will.

Or should I ask her to be straight faced and tell me exactly where we stand so I can get off the hook?

thanks for advice,
Mads

Thank you,

Moon Signs don't blend ideally.

I wouldn't let it go but, I wouldn't demand an answer either because if you corner her and ask where you stand I think she will leave you hanging or just ignore you. Don't pressure her that would not work out in your favor. If you really like her then, keep contact with her and try another time to setup a time to meet. I would also go onto the Virgo Board for more info. They may be able to help you understand more about her and how to approach the situation or not approach it.

My experience is from me dating a male virgo. About 5 months ago he broke up with me and it has been driving me crazy. I was falling for him hard. Just this past month I started to date and try to move on by convincing myself and everyone around me that it was over and I needed to let go. Even though I dated other people, I was always thinking of him. I wanted so much to get rid of this aching feeling. Well, this past weekend we ran into each other got into an agrument and somehow he ended up kissing me while we were agruing and then we talked, we cried, he told me that he was so scared because I wasn't like anyone he ever dated and that he felt I was too good for him. I told him he was wrong and that I wanted to be with him and we can work all the other things out. Our life style s are really different and he is at a point in his life where he is stuck wanting to be a crazy 20year old but is soon turning 34 and realizing that he needs to grow up but he doesn't know how. He's just really confused and I really think he just needs someone to love him for him and reasure him that I will be there for him and not leave him. I guess we will see if he wants me to be that person or not. It's only been a few days since we are back together so, I have to be careful he doesn't back off again after a couple of weeks before I let my guard down anymore than I already have because he could really screw me up emotionally if he does that again to me and I'm not sure how well I will handle it if he decides to breakup with me again.

Hi sweethearts69, and thanks for your reply.
I think you are right that I should not confront her or anything, and I should not let it go. I think if the positions were reversed I would be most pleased if the person kept in contact, but not too much. I think this was what attracted her to me in the first place, that I kept my distance to her. I do think that she is one of the good girls, and I would really like to meet her, even if it turns out to be nothing. I dont want to let it go.

Your story was romantic. I wish you all well and hope you can work it out. I think it will turn out well. That is what you have got to believe. But I hear you, it is not nice to break up with someone, especially if you start to open up to that person.

All the best.
Mads

Thanks Dy, I am going to take this very slow. Right now, I'm so afraid of him hurting me all over again. I have seen a change in him over the last few months even though we haven't been together. People always tell me about what is going on with him for some reason. I know his social life is totally different from his private life and he only lets very few people in. I am going to step back right now and let him come to me. He has already cooked me dinner this week which, was really nice. I just want him happy no matter whether it is with me or not. I guess only time will tell.

Hey these two signs seem to have great attraction for eachother when it comes to friendships. Sure things could work out fine romantically only both of them learn to let go just a little bit. Sag may lose the temper at times and the Virgo may become over fussy at times but you just have to ignore those times.