Scorpio woman fallen for Aries guy!

This is my first post.

I am a Scorpio woman and met an Aries guy an we were talking everyday for over a month, he would send me good morning messages, and we'd speak at least 3 times a day. We have a lot in common, and had quite serious conversations about the future, and what we were looking for in a relationship etc.He was very attentive, and was open about the fact that he saw me as someone he would love to start a relationship with, and asked me if i felt the same in which i agreed. A couple of days prior to arranging to meet he was still attentive but we didnt talk as much on the phone, due to us both being busy.

But it was still quite intense,and i was loving every single of getting to know him.

We arranged to meet,and he was running late, he called me to advise me of this and said that he couldnt wait for us to spend time together, and also couldnt wait to meet again the following weekend. Even though we still hadnt met.

When he arrived, we hugged, and had a lovely meal, the chemistry was amazing. And he officially asked me if i would be happy for us to start a relationship together. I was so happy. When he left, it was so hard for us to say goodbye.

And the following day he sent me a message that said he was falling for me, and very soon i will own his heart.

Since that day we have hardly spoken, he has become very distant. He sent me a message and said that he has been very busy with work and has been stressed, and that he doesnt want me to think that he is ignoring me, or doesnt want to reply, its just that he hasnt had the time due to many pressures.

I spoke to him yesterday, and he said that he just needs time as he has alot going on, but its not me, he cant believe how busy the week has been to where he hasnt even had time for himself.

I completely understand this,and have been understanding. I just miss hearing from him and the communication. He is such a great guy, with such attractive qualities. And i have started to equally fall for him. It has been a long time since i have felt this way after being single for 2 years.

Do i give him the space and not send any messages or calls. And let him come to me?

He probably scared himself by revealing so much. Don't be to pushy about contacting him. Do give him a bit of space, but don't let him think you have forgotten about you. Just keep in touch, and let things flow.

One of the things I have been known to do is to more or less shut myself off to someone who would be in your position. I have to way over analyze what is going on, how I really feel, on and on. Just be patient, cause once this guy has made up his mind he will make it clear what he really wants.

Posted by starlover
Hello 🙂

I am Scorpio gal with an Aries guy. Sorry to be personal, but if you had sex with him and he has gone quiet, this is quite normal for guys. I hear about it all the time with my female friends. also aries are very full on and then can burn out quickly. The sometimes get over excited lol and blurt things out. my guy does that at times. i have been with him for 4yrs but have had to really be firm with him. I still keep him on his toes and take breaks from him often if he doesnt treat me well or gets toooo *comfortable* with me, as in taking me for granted

My suggestion is no contact and see what happens. If an aries man wants you they will pursue the ass off you, if not they wont.

BTW you look beautiful and if he doesnt chase you more fool him

Good luck with this
🙂

Thank you for your lovely compliment starlover!

We were intimate, and very affectionate towards each other, when we met. Prior to meeting he opened up about exactly what he was looking for, and he had even said ''please dont let me fall for you, and then you go away and leave me.''

And the evening after we met, he sent a beautiful message, stating he was falling for me, and gave me the reassurance that he wasnt intentionally ignoring me, and didnt want me to think that he didnt want to reply to my messages, he was just really busy.

I had called him a couple days ago,and again he reassured me that he just needed time, and this was in no reflection on me.

I just miss him, but i will give him the space he requires.

I'd been single for two years and he is one of the only guys i have met who has truly touched my heart.

Posted by dofacc
He probably scared himself by revealing so much. Don't be to pushy about contacting him. Do give him a bit of space, but don't let him think you have forgotten about you. Just keep in touch, and let things flow.

One of the things I have been known to do is to more or less shut myself off to someone who would be in your position. I have to way over analyze what is going on, how I really feel, on and on. Just be patient, cause once this guy has made up his mind he will make it clear what he really wants.

Thank you for your advise! I guess only time will tell.

Just strange that we've gone from contact several times everyday, with him calling and messaging me. To nothing at all. I know that i can be quite passionately intense when i like someone, as i am a true Scorpio woman. And maybe he got overwhelmed by it all. I must admit this has happened a couple of times before in the past with other guys i have dated, they disappeared and never heard from them.

But this one, he assures me that he just needs time and space as he has a lot of stress and pressures in his life at the moment. So i respect that.

Posted by starlover
..and sorry to be cynical but any guy that is to busy to get in touch, (how long does a text msg take), then are they really worth the effort?

That is true. When i spoke to him, and mentioned that to him, he assured me that he isnt intentionally ignoring me, or its not that he doesnt want to reply. He said he has alot of pressures and stress on at the moment. And asked me to give him time, to sort himself out. I am understanding to this. As he is such a lovely guy and we get on amazingly well.

I most certainly will :-)

Thank you all for your advise!!

Sorry but I have to comment.....

Listen, life is tooooo short to be playing these games with Aries (or any other sign) but esp. Aries and their games.

If you have to go thru giving him some time and space and all of these other tactics....then ask yourself?

"do i really need this"

I have been with Aries men and ALLLLLLL of my very close women fiends/family are Aries (I know them well) and love them too.

BUT you dont need the games of not getting too "comfortable" wtf is that about...you should totally be with someone you are comfortable with....

Sorry but I cant take the games.

Just be careful and i Know yall Scorpz pretty well too. And yall like to play deep emotional games as well trying to keep those emotions so under control the other person forgets your emotionally there.

ARIES + Scorpio = SEX........ which is easy.....Its what happens after the sex that makes the situation sticky.

Please tell me how this worked out. I'm in the exact same boat with my guy. He's working all the time, yet anytime I'm able to get a hold of him he's so kind, and loving. It's currently long distance....

Point is this is very difficult me, it's hard not being able to hug them everyday/ even every other day. What should I do to make it work better for both of us?

Aries and scorpio =sex...

I completely agree with that. Aries loves a challenge. They don't remember what comes easily. They will remember what the have worked hard to get.