Scorpios Love or a Virgo (hurt/misunderstanding)

Ok I really need some deep advice. Ive been going though this roller coaster with a Scorpio man and I really appreciate some help. Ill try to make a long 10 months short. I just started reading guides now and I sure wish I knew this before I got involved in all this @.@
I was in a long distance relationship for 5 years (yes im still young) because I fell in love with a Scorpio -_-— And in the beginning I knew he loved me. Everyone and there mother knew he loved me and everybody thought I was the one for him because he has never been so happy in his life.
Then after a while he did a complete 180% and stopped doing the things I loved and he started really hurting me. He would say really mean things. The things I use to say or do now was things he hated? I put 150% in that relationship everyday, always tried to keep it young and exciting, but my attempts would still fail.
He then wanted to —take a break.?? I was really emotional because I thought he was only using me or he was only getting to me for the chase since I was in such a long relationship before him. Then the next day he apolgiesed and we got back together. Then he was still changing and being even worse with his moodiness. And after his cat died, which he's extremely attached to he broke up with me a couple days later??_Im assuming from stress or something. I was still around and we were still —sorta?? together, I didn't push but I was right there for him. Then we dated again, he talked about having an open relationship but it was completely onesided. I got angry and try to make myself look better cause he constantly was saying how hot girls were and everything how he wants to have sex so badly with them.( and before he never even acknowledged a girl when I was around.) So I was telling him how great I was(because im naturally shy and I was trying to be strong) and I guess I pointed out his flaws and he didn't like that. (even though he told me in the beginning he needs a girl to call him out for his Bull) So we broke up, he was having sex with other women. Turns out??_.
Im pregnant. ??_ I know he wanted a child because the doctors told him he was sterile, and said to me —Ive fallen for you all over again.?? Made it seem like he got bored of me or something??_Well I had full attentions of keeping the baby even though he didn't act like we were a couple and still wanted an open relationship before the baby was born??_But the baby had birthing problems that effected my health

that effected my health and whenever I tried to talk to my Scorpio about the baby he always just said —Lose the baby lose me??, I tried to get surgery done to help maybe make the baby better and it didn't work??_His family and him are very pro life and around this time we finds out his mom has Cancer — so they didn't believe me that I had a problems with the baby and thought I just got an abortion:/??_And the sad part was that I tore up all that baby information and photos of it because I didn't want to hurt my Scorpio. Because I saw how devastated he was when his cat died??_losing a kid that he always wanted??_I didn't want him to think it was all his fault or something. So the next day he calls me to tell me hes sorry but hes dateing someone else and hes sorry to disappoint me. I tried to act like it didn't matter but it did and I have a really bad habbit of not letting things go or leaving things on a bad note. So despite what he said I went to his house (when he said not to) to try to solve things but I made it worse. And when he was dateing this girl he was still trying to have Sex with me!?!?! I asked him if he still loved me and he got annoyed and said —yes! Now stop asking that!?? And earlier that day he told me he loved me with —Half of his heart, that half is just for me and the other half is for himself?? And then the girl broke up with him (yes! Happy day) >.

spreading rumors about me. Me Taurus and Scorpio all went to go get voice recording for singing. And he still was kinda angry but for some reason kept looking at me and looked away whenever I noticed. And when I caught him hed say —you look like a man?? or something stupid like that or —your immature and childish.?? I was singing and I told him nicely to leave the room because I was embarrassed and he said no. He videotaped me without me noticing and when I was done he told me he posted it on Facebook to humiliate me (but I wasn't that bad >.

He says horrible things to you, spreads rumors, disrespects you, doesn't believe you lost the baby, ridicules you, etc, etc. I think you know the answer.... lose the Virgo- date the Taurus, he was there for you.

Sorry, meant lose the Scorpio!!!

Lol i dont want to date the Taurus i dont like him that way >.

Huh? Where does the Cap come into play? And why do you feel bad for him?

Capricorn is my Ex of 5 years i feel bad beacuse he's still trying really hard to get back with me, and im still in love with the scorpio :/

First, your Scorpio man is an azzhole (sorry).

I REALLY don't like the way he's treating you. He's extremely controlling and degrading to you.

Does he still love you? Yes -- but not enough. He wants that extreme love that Scorpios pine for so that's why he's keeping his options open.

I understand that you really love this guy and desperately want him, but you cannot show this side to him as it is a major turn off. Scorpio men are attracted to confident bytches who won't put up with his crap. Seriously.

So...ignore him for a bit. Regain your confidence. Have some pursuits in life that symbolize you're an independent woman with an eye on her future.

Do NOT date the Taurus (it will be UNFORGIVEABLE to the Scorpio and you can kiss your chances of a possible reunion goodbye).

But do find someone else to date.

Good luck.