Taurus a Scorpio, and Virgo

I a am A fellow Taurus falling for a scorpio who is with a Virgo, need advice.

I have been with my Virgo for 4 years, she has always been by my side. I am currently in college where I fell into the trap of the Scorpio female, at first i did not quite notice her until i took a second look, now she is always on my mind, usually I ignore other women but I cannot shake this one off, and it is really bothering me how low I feel. She in my eyes is a goddess, I try to fight it, but these feelings for her are only getting stronger, I have manned up and have taken the first approach which is not usually me, but for some reason I did. I usually Can read people and their every move, but with this one, it is complete darkness, a mystery, and it is just driving me crazy lol, I want to know her inside and out, not in any negative way, just her emotions and thoughts, I have had small talk but cannot figure if she is in a relationship and i dare not ask, not yet. Any advice would be of great help lol

Is it worth losing your Virgo? That should be the real question.

You're gonna have to get rid of your gf before you pursue anything. If you go at her romantically and she finds out about your girl, so won't trust you and write you off as a player - no different from the rest of the men who tend to come at Scorps.

Until then, you're gonna just have to play the friend card and genuinely just be her friend. No flirting, just friendly.

@Sharareperez_808

That should be the real question here huh? Don't get me wrong, she is a beautiful person in every way possible, smart beautiful, but to be honest i don't think i love her as much as i use to or say i do, we had our share of up and downs, but i know she can do better, no matter how much she cares for me, she puts her feelings aside for mine, and i dont think i can do that to her, i have had mixed feelings about this relationship for about half of the 4 years, but i stayed faithful because i knew it would make her happy, so im not really sure, i have been with her since 16, and had no other girl since, i want to explore, but is it worth breaking her heart for? She is one of a kind.

@candyapples88

i Fully understand, but I dont know how else to proceed, what if it does not work out with the scorpio? In the end ill be the one empty handed, and i know how messed up i sound, i am just confused lol

@redbull

I do not even know why i searched up her sign and matched it with mine lol, i have never done that before, but lets see how things progress

@Impulsv

your absolutely right, and you are not the first person to say this to me, but i am stubborn, my biggest concern from all this is probably being alone, sounds pathetic i know lol, i thrive in isolation, heck i prefer it. But i also have lust. And it is really hard to break up a 4 year relationship, it is just really hard that i stray away from it, it is just easier, but i also understand your view, it is not fair to her.

That should be your answer she's one of a kind. Letting her go might just make you turn around to realize it's to late. Karma might just set in on what you're doing to her. She might become infatuated with someone as well. And you may live to regret that. Just saying. Happens all the time. It either will help or it will tear you apart. Your decision. Goodluck!

@Sharareperez

But how can i keep going if i feel nothing for her anymore? She deserves better than me, even if i do wish that was not true, i wish i did feel the way i did before, maybe in the future? Who knows.

If you don't feel it's there with you and your Virgo, then don't fake the funk anymore. You're not doing anyone any favors. You made the right decision breaking up with her, if you really did LOL 😉

Being with someone I don't feel anything for outta comfort, them being a good person, or fear of not finding someone better = the death of me and also is considered settling IMO.

Your decision I'm just saying she does deserve better with your mind on someone else and her completely oblivious, poor girl. You may feel nothing now but that's because you have her and seem to crave new things. When she's gone then you'll be wanting her back. Craving new things that's what I see most young boys do.