Virgo + Leo = ?

My boyfriend is a Virgo and I am a Leo. when we met it was an undeniable connection. Like I couldnt get enough of him... He would stroke my ego when needed and fan my fire just to watch me shine. In public hed show me off and let me be that center of attention that I crave to be. He was perfect. And not to mention the compatibility in the bedroom... But... Now that we are an item he is starting to get me all heated up in the bedroom with the sole intention to shut me down just because he can. Any Leo female knows that this is not a good idea. Do NOT play with fire. I get fairly irritated with this.
Aside from that, i feel like this also leads into some other issues.
He proceeds to tell me that I should get more tattoos than i already have because he finds them sexy. Also tells me that I should get a breast enlargement to meet his ideal boob size, shows me pictures of other women he has slept with who DO have these attributes... This hurts my feelings and takes a HUGE jab at my ego which is already wounded when I am turned down for sex..
I brought this to his attention and he chuckled and told me Im cute. Stop. I do not want to be cute, I want to be taken seriously.. So i bring it up again today and he starts saying its too soon in our relationship for me to be worried about this stuff. I feel like i have created a very thin line for myself. Please, advise me on how to approach him. Ease my mind on why he is like this and what I can do to make sure I keep his interest and NO OTHER WOMAN CAN HAVE IT. As long as hes mine that is.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Welcome to Virgo world. He played you like a violin and still does. Took you to the sky so he can bring you down.

virgos destroy. they do not build. so you best be confident in yourself or you'll be played with like a ragdoll.




anyways if a guy told me to increase my boob size, id tell him when he increases his penis size, than maybe i'd think about it.

Absolutely!! Never allow a man to tell you how you should change your
Body for him. Thats not only selfish snd arrogant but hes letting you
Know what he deems what you will need to do to make you attain his perfect fit for him.

Hes a self absorbed ass! And a control freak. Besides surgeries
As breast enhancement is not always safe and theres no guarantee
He'll be happy with the results. Let alone how you feel. Its your
Damn body not his.

I agree with CC...tell him to go through penis enhancement surgery
Because you want him to measure up to your expectations first b 4
You get serious with him. Give him a taste of his own medicine to shallow.

Honestly any guy who would treat you as if you're not good enough for him "as is"
Is a complete prick. You can do better than an insecure, manipulative excuse of a
Man than this schmuck. Find a man who loves you for you and sees that true beauty
Doesnt come from a surgeon's prowess.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Welcome to Virgo world. He played you like a violin and still does. Took you to the sky so he can bring you down.

virgos destroy. they do not build. so you best be confident in yourself or you'll be played with like a ragdoll.


anyways if a guy told me to increase my boob size, id tell him when he increases his penis size, than maybe i'd think about it.

I have yet to tell him that I felt deflated. I put on a very strong face and just continued ignoring him when he was around me for a little while. I know deep down that there are TONS of guys in this world that think Im all that and then some. But I want HIM to think that. That was the only thing. As for an update, my silent treatment worked last night and we resolved the issue. He gave me the praise that I was needing, stroked my ego again, thus repairing all previous damage.

(Just my opinion, 32 years personal study of Astrology)

A Virgo has basically 4 choices, just looking first at SUN signs, as they are the most basic, essential place of compatibility, even if you know nothing else about each other's natal charts...so, based on my theory of elemental compatibility, these would be:

Earth and Earth (but NOT YOUR OWN SIGN)
It's simply too much you/Virgo, you're too alike, it will get boring, there's really nothing new to interest you, nor to learn from the other--basically it's the opposite sex you!
Virgo + Taurus...yes!
and
Virgo + Capricorn...yes!

Earth and Water (but NOT YOUR OPPOSITE SIGN)
Here, the question is simply why choose a Pisces (which, by the way, CAN work but with a lot more work!) when there are two easier signs to find?!
Virgo+Cancer...yes!
and
Virgo + Scorpio...yes!

And finally, NO, NEVER, NOT NOW OR EVER, FORGET IT, walk away, plenty of fish in the sea, save yourself the eventual and inevitable heartache, etc... any (romantic) relationship with an Air or Fire Sun sign!!

You are all welcome to disagree with me, so please know this is posted with only good intentions, and you don't need to prove that I'm wrong because your relationship doesn't fit my astrological opinion or rules. Thank you.

My Dad (Virgo) went from my mom (Aries) to my step mother (Leo). My Dad and step mom were an awesome team. They had a blast together.

Be nice but take no crap.

Posted by junemoonchild
(Just my opinion, 32 years personal study of Astrology)


And finally, NO, NEVER, NOT NOW OR EVER, FORGET IT, walk away, plenty of fish in the sea, save yourself the eventual and inevitable heartache, etc... any (romantic) relationship with an Air or Fire Sun sign!!

You are all welcome to disagree with me, so please know this is posted with only good intentions, and you don't need to prove that I'm wrong because your relationship doesn't fit my astrological opinion or rules. Thank you.

ok, we are. I personally disagree with you and i've only been into astrology a few short years to your over 30 years experience and study. And i'll tell you right now, there are TWO happily married couples who are married to a Virgo Sun and these happen to be a Gemini sun and a leo sun. So, obviously, you're not very tolerant about other people's life style s and is definitely closed minded about it all even after 30 plus years of knowledge. And no, the Virgo sun male is not dominant air or fire, (my father in law) he is dominant scorpio. So that is another kicker for you. I almost forget to mention my sister who is with a Virgo sun. (now he is dominant fire/air but he's still virgo sun and he doesn't want anyone else, and believe me, he is very much the kind of guy that can get ALOT of women if he wanted.)

so your 30 plus years of knowledge and study, you can be an old old lady and still, the world and the universe will always surprise you.

"he let me be that center of attention that I crave to be. He was perfect." What are you looking for a man or a groupie? If this your criteria, it's pretty one-sided and selfish. That said, the boob job request was seriously out of line. You both sound pretty immature to me.