Drama

So I was thinking of putting this in the Virgo forum but I don't think it's a Virgo issue. I believe that it's a human issue. This man isn't the first one to do this neither is he the first earth sign. (The last was a Taurus girl, I'm a Scorpio it was bound to happen.) I need some insight because even though I'm sure I know the answer I want other people's thoughts on this matter. Whenever I tell these so called friends who my enemies are...they go fucking friend them. I understand that my enemies don't have to be theirs...but I just got done telling you how I felt and what they just did to me...then to make sure that they not only appear on the top five of your friend's list, this website is old school and you can do that...it's just a little frustrating and now I wonder if I just wanted to rant. I suspected that dude was baiting them into doing things against me and playing the field with all of the female drama that inevitably occurs, no matter how hard I bit my tongue and did nothing...he fucking encouraged it and revels in it, wants me to open up about it then does even more drama...I think I just might end up hating people after all.

Ok

Then stop telling people who your enemies are.

It stirs up natural human curiosity.

Posted by truecap
Then stop telling people who your enemies are.

It stirs up natural human curiosity.

agrees.. plus telling someone who your enemies are could be viewed as a sign of weakness.. even though I got enemies in life, but I never act like they are enemies, even when everyone else knows, I just pretend that I'm ok with them, but not close. But would never say they are enemies, cause this gives "them" power.

And I do believe whoever says "those are my enemies" is always viewed as the "jealous" person, and probably his/her so-called enemies are the good people.. yes it hurts, but its life, and humans hurt

Posted by TxOgal

Posted by truecap
Then stop telling people who your enemies are.

It stirs up natural human curiosity.

agrees.. plus telling someone who your enemies are could be viewed as a sign of weakness.. even though I got enemies in life, but I never act like they are enemies, even when everyone else knows, I just pretend that I'm ok with them, but not close. But would never say they are enemies, cause this gives "them" power.

And I do believe whoever says "those are my enemies" is always viewed as the "jealous" person, and probably his/her so-called enemies are the good people.. yes it hurts, but its life, and humans hurt

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It was a test. I wanted to see how he would react because he had done something similar but I wanted to be sure. I was proven right. I am always willing to destroy myself in the pursuit of knowledge. But frankly the girls weren't that powerful or that big of an obstacle The served their purpose in proving who was my friends and who was not.

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. Looks like you have some really fake "friends"! I would start shortening my "friends " list if I were you!

I do that far too often but I am okay with that. The real ones stick around ^ ^