when cancer man say its over,is it really over?

I had a boyfriend who is cancer and we have been dating for nearly 3 years. For first 6months we were in long distance relationship and after that I went to a university in the state he live so that we can be together.And we live together ever since. Within those years he moved to another state and he want me to follow him so i moved again wasting some of my college credits. But now he has to be with his family coz he has to help out on family business and moved to asia. He wanted me to go with him so I did having to start from freshman.I am junior at university btw. But now he live with family and I can't live with him.At first it was ok but after 5 days, I saw emails that he sent with a girl from his work in US and they are really flirty and I found out tht he made her lunch box and such.So I ask abt it and he told me to break up and never to call him again.When I called he pick up say dun call him and hang up.Is it really over between us? Is he just angry coz I dun believe him? Its been 6 days tht he didnt contact me no call or msg or emails.I called him and sometime he respond normal. Sometimes he shouted at me.so yesterday I called him and told him whatever it is lets talk and dun avoid me.I asked him what time he is available, but when I called on the time he told me to, he send me a msg to wait for awhile and then after an hr he sent me the msg tht he can't talk today and told me to go sleep. What is gotten into him? I am in middle of asia with people who dun understand what I say and I dun understand their language too.what I have done for him isn't enough? Or am I too easy that he is being this harsh? But one thing I know is he is really busy. Is he just busy and dun hv time to call me?

I had a boyfriend who is cancer and we have been dating for nearly 3 years. For first 6months we were in long distance relationship and after that I went to a university in the state he live so that we can be together.And we live together ever since. Within those years he moved to another state and he want me to follow him so i moved again wasting some of my college credits. But now he has to be with his family coz he has to help out on family business and moved to asia. He wanted me to go with him so I did having to start from freshman.I am junior at university btw. But now he live with family and I can't live with him.At first it was ok but after 5 days, I saw emails that he sent with a girl from his work in US and they are really flirty and I found out tht he made her lunch box and such.So I ask abt it and he told me to break up and never to call him again.When I called he pick up say dun call him and hang up.Is it really over between us? Is he just angry coz I dun believe him? Its been 6 days tht he didnt contact me no call or msg or emails.I called him and sometime he respond normal. Sometimes he shouted at me.so yesterday I called him and told him whatever it is lets talk and dun avoid me.I asked him what time he is available, but when I called on the time he told me to, he send me a msg to wait for awhile and then after an hr he sent me the msg tht he can't talk today and told me to go sleep. What is gotten into him? I am in middle of asia with people who dun understand what I say and I dun understand their language too.what I have done for him isn't enough? Or am I too easy that he is being this harsh? But one thing I know is he is really busy. Is he just busy and dun hv time to call me?

is tht mean I am at fault?

Is that mean it is over?

😢

How do I get over him? He is my first love.

So is that how it go with a cancer guy? He will come back if I ignore? But u know he dun even care to call or text or email .for me to reject him. I felt so deceived 😢 for past 3 years i hv been living just looking at him and no one else.he dun even like me texting or talking on ph with my guy friends, he said he dun care abt it but whenever I do he sulk a lot so I try not to do that because I love him so much and I dun want to ruin my relationship and also because I am willing to do anything for him.But if possible I really want to save this relationship I really love him and I had sacrifice a lot so that I could be with him.If you have any idea please help me I really really appreciate it.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Let's hope so. Chuck it up as an experience and move on to a real man.

Next time don't adjust your educational/career goals for any man.

Amen! lol I have my share of Cancer man problems but i would Never...i repeat Never quit school/career and move across the country unless he put a ring on it and even then i would have to still think about it. YOU come first always! Period.
He has a 1 up on you he knows he got you where he wants you and can treat you any way he wants to. Switch it up on him! act like you dont care about his flirting, act like you dont care about him! stop contacting him and focus on yourself.