Why do some females do this?

I honestly can't work out why some females will say something to you and if you turn around and say i'm sorry i didn't hear what you said...and then they turn around say "it doesn't matter" and then you say too them, it actually does matter because I didn't actually hear what you said in the first place...and if they say it was just a "flippant remark and "It's gone already" and "I have forgotten about it already and so should should you..."

What on earth do they mean?...I seriously think Woman speak another language to Men...I mean I love them to death but I just can't figure out what motivates this kind of behaviour.

Please enlighten me...

Thank You

I don't think that we are drama queens (some of us might be) but maybe i can shed some light. Women tend to think out loud. we go over a situation in our heads to death and when we finally get the courage to say what it is and we hear ourselves out loud we wish that we could retract it but it's to late becasue the other party has heard us say something, then we try to pass it off becuase we know it sounded stupid or whatever and just want to forget it happened. Or it could be the tone of your voice, if you sounded irritated or puzzled when you asked her to repeat it we think oh shit I shouldn't have said that then it's too late. Men and women DEFINTELY speak two different languages and no matter what ligusitc class we take we will never understand each other.

Thanks for that comment, I think I should explain the sitaution better...

I rang a girl I have known for about 4 years at the Radio Station she works at, and I asked if there were tickets to a show I wanted to go too, she said that it was unlikely there would be any passes.

I asked her if she was going or if she knew of anyone going and the next thing I heard was....mumble ...mumble is going...I could'n't hear what she said, so I asked, sorry who is going?

Her: No one, it's doesn't matter
Me: I think it does matter because I didn't hear what you said in the first place
Her: It was a flippant mark (my name) and I have forgotten and gotten over it and so should you.

This behaviour puzzles me, this girl and I are friends and she is going out with a friend of mine...

All I really want to know is why she refused to say the name and then got irked with me when I asked her who?.

Scorpman I see April baby's comment but I disagree, did you two at some point have a relationship? Or was someone intrested in someone else and nothing came of it?

"Scorpman I see April baby's comment but I disagree, did you two at some point have a relationship? Or was someone intrested in someone else and nothing came of it?"

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Thanks for the comment foxy...

Well, I have always had a thing for her and we have flirted with each other in the past, but no I never did anything about it, I like the girl but wouldn't be able to trust her...she is too much of a social butterfly.

I told the guy she is seeing now (a friend of mine I get on well with) to be careful and not fall for her or get too attahced because I don't want him getting hurt...this got back to her as me "talking shit' about her...but it wasn't the case, okay it was none of my business but he told me that the first week within them hooking up , she had already pashed another dude and told him about it.

I was only looking out for my friend, and this is funny he told me that she sees me as "interesting" and lastly StringsAttached...your smileys are all good ...but ahhhhh why this post?

those damn females!

Shoot 'em all! 😉