PinkySagLove
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Tty letting him come to you in his own time. You mentioned a new baby...congratulations 🙂. While children are wonderful, it may be putting a lot of strain on him. There's this new little person that depends on you and him for everything. It can be overwhelming.
I know you’re fed up with his frequent anger flare ups and you want some answers or maybe even a hint, but the more you pressure him, the further you'll push him away. Scorpios are known to keep things to themselves even though something is clearly wrong.
I know you’re fed up with his frequent anger flare ups and you want some answers or maybe even a hint, but the more you pressure him, the further you'll push him away. Scorpios are known to keep things to themselves even though something is clearly wrong.
Im gonna try the space thing again.
Last saturday, the baby and I left to visit family. Left at around noon and came home around 6.
He had all these scenarios in his head about me dropping our baby off and meeting up with someone. Crazy thing is he called me almost every hour on the hour. I've never given him any reason to think I was cheating. Hell, I dont even keep up with my girlfriends on the regular. New baby, new house, marriage had my full focus.
While he was spewing these illusions he created, I just sat there in shock. I asked him why he didnt want to join me, he was more than welcome, I would've felt a lot better if he did. Silence.
Wtf—
Last saturday, the baby and I left to visit family. Left at around noon and came home around 6.
He had all these scenarios in his head about me dropping our baby off and meeting up with someone. Crazy thing is he called me almost every hour on the hour. I've never given him any reason to think I was cheating. Hell, I dont even keep up with my girlfriends on the regular. New baby, new house, marriage had my full focus.
While he was spewing these illusions he created, I just sat there in shock. I asked him why he didnt want to join me, he was more than welcome, I would've felt a lot better if he did. Silence.
Wtf—
Posted by Chelsey07Thank you!!! He's so precious.
Tty letting him come to you in his own time. You mentioned a new baby...congratulations 🙂. While children are wonderful, it may be putting a lot of strain on him. There's this new little person that depends on you and him for everything. It can be overwhelming.
I know you’re fed up with his frequent anger flare ups and you want some answers or maybe even a hint, but the more you pressure him, the further you'll push him away. Scorpios are known to keep things to themselves even though something is clearly wrong.
That's the thing, I had one simple talk over a few months dealing with it. At first, I just walk away. If there's something wrong, speak on it. How are we going to fix what's wrong? I promise, he's been acting like a 2 year old having a tantrum. He gets in this mode where he'll lash out at the wrong things and won't listen to me at all. So I walk away. I wont say anything. It was in the time span of us not speaking for a week (A WHOLE DAMN WEEK?) I decided to break the ice. Then he swears it's just me and he's perfectly fine.
My shoes were gonna go up top his head but I took the peaceful way out. I walked away. Again.
Posted by PrincessLouiseYou rightPosted by mzmeeYou shouldn't have to.
What approach do I take with this? I loathe this manipulation crap and I can't take this attitude. Please help.click to expand
Posted by ForeverlovemeWe had a date night. I surprised him and planned a movie night. His favorite, Captain America. I loved it. He said thank you. We talked that night, none of the house, work, baby stuff. It seemed okay. When we got home, he went straight to sleep on me. I didnt even get no thang yall. Nothing. Im pissed.Posted by mzmee^^This! I'm at a loss, as this is usually the response in my head as well. Maybe space isn't helping the situation either. Have you tried getting a sitter and having a date night? Or maybe an overnight getaway for the 2 of you without the baby for a night? & Congratulations on everything, marriage, house, baby
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What the heck did I do?
Thanks for the congrats.
Posted by starloverI hear you but if that's what it is, he needs to just say it. He's coming across as very childish now.
Babies change everything!
My seemingly non jealous partner became quite jealous of the time and attention our baby took (he was ill when younger). It takes a very strong man to share a woman with a baby.
Some Scorpios are good at being jealous
It's crazy how I was the one having the anxiety about having a child and he was the one reassuring me. So if this is jealously of the baby, we got a bigger issue.
Posted by mzmeereading this makes my sag rising flared up. i'd not give him an option to not go with us together as what a husband and father should do instead of sitting there dreaming stupid sh!t. if he wanted to be a child and compete with HIS baby, i'd indeed treat him as one and take away all adult options / privileges he has.
Im gonna try the space thing again.
Last saturday, the baby and I left to visit family. Left at around noon and came home around 6.
He had all these scenarios in his head about me dropping our baby off and meeting up with someone. Crazy thing is he called me almost every hour on the hour. I've never given him any reason to think I was cheating. Hell, I dont even keep up with my girlfriends on the regular. New baby, new house, marriage had my full focus.
While he was spewing these illusions he created, I just sat there in shock. I asked him why he didnt want to join me, he was more than welcome, I would've felt a lot better if he did. Silence.
Wtf—
Sometimes, I feel lonely. So I can imagine him feeling the same. I listen to him except when he's pulling the cheating card.
I want my husband bad as hell. Im mad we went to the show and he didnt touch me after. He's usually all over me when were alone.
I want my husband bad as hell. Im mad we went to the show and he didnt touch me after. He's usually all over me when were alone.
you need a raw, emotional discussion / confrontation allowing each other to spill out everything. i'd have the family babysit the baby for a day and do just that. there may be crying and yelling but i think it will be worth it in the end.
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