a dumb crush

there's a guy ive been crushing on for a while now and he seemed pretty interested in the sexual stuff, but i showed that i like him..he just stopped trying to initiate or interact w me. even though he said that i was his and he wanted me (i took it the other way and instead developed feelings oops). i want him to msg more and stuff.

i find myself obsessing over this scorpio and its really unhealthy and toxic.

how do u stop feeling things for someone and truly let go. my friends have been saying that if a guy really liked you then there would be no question in your mind, so he doesnt like me. and how a guys eyes would light up and be infatuated. is that true?

Depends on your level of interest. A guy changing his behavior and attitude when you around does show interest. Eyes are a dead give away of attraction. When someone puts effort and how much they try is a different matter.

"Ishowed interest that I like him"

How did you show this?

As to how to get over this....

Notice what you liked and obviously desired about the situation. What caused you to be come attached to him. Which was " he said I was his and he wanted me".

Finally look at your question at the end, 'how a guys eyes would light up and be infactured with you.'

So obviously you rrrreeaaallly like to feel desired. thats about your feelings not his.

You know what to me it sounds like, you guys have been flirting and you said something serious and he wasn't interested so backed off.

This has nothing to do with him, you want to feel desired or "dare I say feel desirable".

Yes trust the eyes over words. Eyes don't lie.

He sounds interested in sex and not much else. He doesn’t contact or initiate. Not a good sign.

Forget him and find another crush who is as into you, as you are into him.

Get busy with life. That’s how you move on.

Posted by Lostthoughts
Depends on your level of interest. A guy changing his behavior and attitude when you around does show interest. Eyes are a dead give away of attraction. When someone puts effort and how much they try is a different matter.

"Ishowed interest that I like him"

How did you show this?

As to how to get over this....

Notice what you liked and obviously desired about the situation. What caused you to be come attached to him. Which was " he said I was his and he wanted me".

Finally look at your question at the end, 'how a guys eyes would light up and be infactured with you.'

So obviously you rrrreeaaallly like to feel desired. thats about your feelings not his.

You know what to me it sounds like, you guys have been flirting and you said something serious and he wasn't interested so backed off.

This has nothing to do with him, you want to feel desired or "dare I say feel desirable".

Yes trust the eyes over words. Eyes don't lie.

we've known each other for a year now and at the beginning, he would always ask what im doing and he showed interest through his actions-made time and said he loved me (kinda bad cause i was in a relationship at the time). At that time he wanted me to leave my bf for him and i didn't, so we stopped contact for a while. Since he knows that im single now, he would make some sexual comments and say how he wants me. I become more open w my feelings of liking him and made it pretty obvious. He just kind of backs away anytime we get kinda close

so it feels like maybe he moved on or doesn't want more than fwb, but the 'you're mine' is confusing. his eyes look like its observing me and when we're together it felt like he enjoyed our interaction like before, but its confusing bc he would stop messaging or initiating ..or ignore

most girls would prefer to be desired by the person they like though

Posted by slug
Did you sleep with him?

no we didnt. just flirting and did some other things but no sex yet