confused scorpio

I usually have no problem feeling like I have the control with people even if I am not being aggressive but their is this one person (man) that has been in my life for many years off and on in a purely sexual but I feel no control over this person whatsoever and it is maddening. Completely frustrating. He has no idea how frustrated I feel. Also for some reason I feel completely intimidated. What could be the problem? It baffles me.

It sounds like there's more than meets the eye with this guy. Could it be that you really like him? Is it really that you can't figure 'it' out, or is it figuring him out? That could be why you feel intimidated, you haven't figured him out yet... Just a thought...

I have never had to try to figure someone out, usually I just get a feeling. How do you figure someone out that you just get a blank vibe from? I do not even know when his birthday is because I have not even asked. I do not want to appear interested at all. Maybe I am too guarded. UGG!

You're a Scorpio, you can never be too guarded 😉.... Anyways, well, I'm not sure how you want to approach it, but in this particular case, I don't blame you. I would be willing to bet you're dealing with another scorp, or a cancer, just my take... Fellow scorps are tough to take anyway, but I think you'de know if he was a scorp, cause he probably would demand control over the situation. Cancers on the other hand, at least in my experience, have an indifference about them, there may or may not be more than meets the eye, but you can't see it by just looking at them... What's you're attraction to him? Scorps of course, we're famous for the piercing look, with something behind it, but good luck getting it. Cancers have a look that will make you melt... What keeps you coming back? The mistery?

Hi All.

Akathist, that guy has to be a Virgo.

I do know his last name. His look is rather piercing and he is very very talented in all areas. Very mysterious but not obviously so. I did actually see him this morning. I asked him his birthdate casually, he gave me a strange smile and said "I'll tell you another day" which so kills me because I hated even asking and the way he answered was excruciatingly annoying! It was like he won a point or something. So, Cancer or Virgo but not Scorpio? He seems to be as secretive as me, but he just does not feel like a Scorpio!

Oh he knows how to push them buttons all too well.. lol... Well you have only one choice, learn to beat him at his own game... 😉 He sounds like a scorpio, bigtime now... But the possibility of him being a cancer is still there... Good luck with this one for sure. He's kept the mistery up, and he wants to keep it up, sounds like that's what has got you without your bearing. Take it right back, you'll feel better... Take care!!

he sounds so like a scorpio with him being all secretive and such , i agree with beating him at his own game , that would trip him out and also give you the upper hand. good luck