Confusing Scorpio woman.

I've been seeing a Scorpio woman for the past two months. She is two years older than me and let's just say me and her have hit off pretty good. Me and her have so much in common and we talk a lot and we honestly never bore each other. Me and her have a close, close relationship, we hold hands, kiss, and do whatever else. The problem is though- She is in a relationship with a guy way to old for her, by at least 24 years. I don't trust the dude, even she feels it's a relationship she doesn't want to be in because her mom is making her be with him. To which that guy's 23 year old son is dating her mom who is 40. His son does nothing more than talk shit to her (Scorpio woman I'm seeing whose name I will not state), and treats her less than human. She wants to leave but she has a 11 year sister to look after because she has very big suspicions on her mom's boyfriend and doesn't want him to try anything on her. She loves me and I love her and at this moment I don't know what to do. She has a Scorpio sister who does nothing more than snitch on her with her mom's boyfriend who tries to keep me from seeing her or eve being near their house. To which I told him "If he tries to hurt her I would personally kill him" because I didn't like him the moment I met him. What should I do for her to help her and I with this?

Wow.. what a conflicted situation.

First of all, are you able to look after yourself and her?

You need to leave ANYBODY ELSE behind if you move on with your Scorpio girl because the rest will be a problem to resolve later.

If 11 yr old sister will be problem to mother's boyfriend or whoever (bit confusing story), then you can always deal with that later. Right now -- if I understood correctly -- the 11 year old, is a stick in the mud. Meaning.. she is creating problem for you and Scorp girl. Is that correct?

So if she is ever in trouble, her sister (your girl!) can help thereafter.


You as a Capricorn, I think you can handle the pressure of this battle. Decide... and then take make your move. Talk to her and see how willing she is to take this big move.


It looks like, mother is selling her daughter to this old guy just for her own happy time?

Not sure about the dynamics of things. The only thing I can suggest is, if your Scorpio girl is willing to make the move with you and if you can provide her with a stable home and love.... go for it!

Sister can be next in plan.

See if my suggestion makes sense and would resolve your conflict. Sometimes, situations may appear more problematic than they are, because you are listening to your Scorpio girlfriend, who seems quite too young to speak for herself OR whatever the reason might be that she doesn't stand up to her mother, telling her... I don't want this old guy!!!!

If it were me that age... I would give quite a big big fight to reject the 24-yr older guy. I'd be out there. So I am not sure, Sn1, how well you are informed by this young girl you are fond of.

Posted by Sn1p3r187
I've been seeing a Scorpio woman for the past two months. She is two years older than me and let's just say me and her have hit off pretty good. Me and her have so much in common and we talk a lot and we honestly never bore each other. Me and her have a close, close relationship, we hold hands, kiss, and do whatever else.

Initially, I thought this was very cute, until....

Posted by Sn1p3r187
The problem is though- She is in a relationship with a guy way to old for her, by at least 24 years. I don't trust the dude, even she feels it's a relationship she doesn't want to be in because her mom is making her be with him. To which that guy's 23 year old son is dating her mom who is 40. His son does nothing more than talk shit to her (Scorpio woman I'm seeing whose name I will not state), and treats her less than human. She wants to leave but she has a 11 year sister to look after because she has very big suspicions on her mom's boyfriend and doesn't want him to try anything on her. She loves me and I love her and at this moment I don't know what to do. She has a Scorpio sister who does nothing more than snitch on her with her mom's boyfriend who tries to keep me from seeing her or eve being near their house. To which I told him "If he tries to hurt her I would personally kill him" because I didn't like him the moment I met him. What should I do for her to help her and I with this?

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I truly have no advice to offer to address your question because you can't help her in this situation. She has to make some choices here. This is not your problem. It's actually quite sad that she dragged you into all of the drama.

Posted by FUM
Wow.. what a conflicted situation.

First of all, are you able to look after yourself and her?

You need to leave ANYBODY ELSE behind if you move on with your Scorpio girl because the rest will be a problem to resolve later.

If 11 yr old sister will be problem to mother's boyfriend or whoever (bit confusing story), then you can always deal with that later. Right now -- if I understood correctly -- the 11 year old, is a stick in the mud. Meaning.. she is creating problem for you and Scorp girl. Is that correct?

So if she is ever in trouble, her sister (your girl!) can help thereafter.


You as a Capricorn, I think you can handle the pressure of this battle. Decide... and then take make your move. Talk to her and see how willing she is to take this big move.


It looks like, mother is selling her daughter to this old guy just for her own happy time?

Not sure about the dynamics of things. The only thing I can suggest is, if your Scorpio girl is willing to make the move with you and if you can provide her with a stable home and love.... go for it!

Sister can be next in plan.

See if my suggestion makes sense and would resolve your conflict. Sometimes, situations may appear more problematic than they are, because you are listening to your Scorpio girlfriend, who seems quite too young to speak for herself OR whatever the reason might be that she doesn't stand up to her mother, telling her... I don't want this old guy!!!!

If it were me that age... I would give quite a big big fight to reject the 24-yr older guy. I'd be out there. So I am not sure, Sn1, how well you are informed by this young girl you are fond of.

And I have no idea why the hell this dude holds a prejudice against her.

I just found out that the boyfriend she doesn't want to be with just had sex with her. And she wants to end it with him, she hated it. I feel really bad for her because she had to lose her virginity to that son of a bitch. I never trusted the fool to begin with because he seemed like the kinda creeper person who would try that. Damn, I just hope it doesn't alter her opinion about men or anything.

Yes. Will agree with Impulv.

Also. She is too young to resist to mom pressure.

I feel sorry for her.