Hello everyone, I'm new to this board and I have a question to ask y'all right off the bat... But first, I'll explain my situation.
I currently reside in Canada, and I'm finishing off my post-secondary degree end of this December. Last winter break in Asia (which is December 2009), I met a Scorpio girl that I think may've been love on first sight type of girl for me. I've only seen her once, and it was my last day in Asia as well. We hung out for a day and there was a pretty positive vibe (good eye contact). I've returned to Canada to continue my studies, and will be heading back to Asia in a month-ish after my school term ends. Right now the only way I can keep in touch with her is through Facebook and MSN - and it's not like she even comes on too often. She's a conservative girl with very strict parents. That's really the gist of it.
Now... I'm taking this very seriously, and I intend on making this work out as a long term relationship. She's single and is a very attractive girl, and I won't even need to see to know that there are other guys sniffin' around trying to court her as well.
Which brings me to my questions...
How should I approach her? 1. Should I be aggressive and show interest - contact her whenever she's online, try to ask her on dates more, hang out as much as possible? 2. Should I mirror what she does plus a little more - she's somewhat responsive when talking to me, we can hold down a decent conversation but it's not too deep since we've only met once. My friends told me to not initiate a conversation everytime she's available, but only do so occasionally to not present myself as a desperate person. So far I've initiated every conversation - it's not like I really expect girls to initiate, especially girls in Asia (that's the culture there). So that really means I have to tone down what I'm doing. 3. Other suggestions?
Do Scorpio girls tend to hide their interest in someone? Meaning they'll treat someone they like and someone they don't give a toss about the same? Or do they tend to treat people who they take interest in colder?
I'm a Virgo by the way. I'd love to hear some inputs from y'all. Thanks.
as fall&rise said just be yourself. just remember that it may not work out however do try your best. i know a few people that had long distant relationships it is very hard work it means that you both have to visit each other let's say six or more a year it would be a lot easier if you had a place to stay for free and if not well i hope your loaded because it is very expensive. never think that you can make it work or else if it flops then you will have only yourself to blame for trying too hard so just flow with it. i would say just chat to her maybe two times a week and make sure they always end really nicely more than that she could just be thinking "it's just a guy i talk to from canada". just be relaxed if you don't then things may not work out as they should.. you should tell us how it's going if you can because it will be interesting to share,
Contact1, I think this one could take a while before we can even get into a relationship, but I'll try my best to keep you guys updated.
And will do hikoro, I shall re-post this on the Virgo sub-forum. Thanks for the heads up.
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I currently reside in Canada, and I'm finishing off my post-secondary degree end of this December. Last winter break in Asia (which is December 2009), I met a Scorpio girl that I think may've been love on first sight type of girl for me. I've only seen her once, and it was my last day in Asia as well. We hung out for a day and there was a pretty positive vibe (good eye contact). I've returned to Canada to continue my studies, and will be heading back to Asia in a month-ish after my school term ends. Right now the only way I can keep in touch with her is through Facebook and MSN - and it's not like she even comes on too often. She's a conservative girl with very strict parents. That's really the gist of it.
Now... I'm taking this very seriously, and I intend on making this work out as a long term relationship. She's single and is a very attractive girl, and I won't even need to see to know that there are other guys sniffin' around trying to court her as well.
Which brings me to my questions...
How should I approach her?
1. Should I be aggressive and show interest - contact her whenever she's online, try to ask her on dates more, hang out as much as possible?
2. Should I mirror what she does plus a little more - she's somewhat responsive when talking to me, we can hold down a decent conversation but it's not too deep since we've only met once. My friends told me to not initiate a conversation everytime she's available, but only do so occasionally to not present myself as a desperate person. So far I've initiated every conversation - it's not like I really expect girls to initiate, especially girls in Asia (that's the culture there). So that really means I have to tone down what I'm doing.
3. Other suggestions?
Do Scorpio girls tend to hide their interest in someone? Meaning they'll treat someone they like and someone they don't give a toss about the same? Or do they tend to treat people who they take interest in colder?
I'm a Virgo by the way. I'd love to hear some inputs from y'all. Thanks.