Do you think I am over reacting—

I need your opinion, last post I told you guys I and Scorpio were going to try and work it out (take things slow) well recently I moved in with my parents, and Scorpio lives with his bother and brothers wife, he has been staying there for 3 years and feels it's time to move out, and now he wants to move in with his brother who just recently went through a divorce, and his brother is this big time player (he thinks he is anyways). I don't want him to move in there because I know how his brother is, I told him if he moves in there I don't think it will work. He said what you thought I was going to move in with you; well yes that is what I thought not right away but eventually. He said he's not sure about that because of the way I am reacting to him moving in with his brother. I just figured if he was a REAL MAN he would want to move me and his son out of my parent's house and start looking for a place together. He said I am overreacting, what is the big deal, he claims he wants to be a family how can we be a family if he's living with his brother, don't you think it would become a bachelor pad—
So we got into another argument and I told him if he moves in there it will not work and to forget us getting back together. Well he got very defensive and said he was not going to choose me over his brother, and he dose not love me to move on so I hang up, he calls back and says why I am over reacting, I say why we would even try if he dose not love me. He said I pissed him off that is why he said that. Now, am I over reacting over this whole situation, will we ever move into together, and what is he waiting for—

I also forgot, last New Years his brother walked by me and ran his hand up my leg, he basically made a pass at me that is another reason, I will not tell Scorpio,I dont want to cause any more problems.

Whew...my goodness Fire and Ice BTW..that is a very cool name.

Honestly, you really have to be the one to make that decision and feel good about it. I can let you know however what I have learned regarding relationships...LISTEN to what someone says...WATCH their ACTIONS..they speak volumes my friend.

I can tell you what I would do in this situation but..you are not me and our lessons are different. I'm thinking here if he really wanted to be with you, he would be..no questions asked...he sounds a bit confused right now and maybe he needs time to think things through.

What does your HEART tell YOU—?? what do YOU feel? Trust that voice within. Life is meant to be easy...not all of this "stuff" but, this is a part of the learning process and as I have said before, we each are on different paths according to what we have learned and need to learn.

Not sure if I have been of any help or perhaps rambled on a bit...I do wish you a less complicated life and peace.

Freebird

Hmmmm I just re-read my post and I sure hope that I am not sounding too harsh and if by chance I am....please forgive me as I do not mean to. I say things as they are..easier for me that way.

I truly am sorry for all of the confusion and what you are experiencing with your Scorp man...I went through something like myself...ugh. You will be fine...BUT...You need to look after YOUR needs and what makes YOU happy..are you really happy with this man?

Your not to harsh, I can hadle it I just need some one to take me out of the box and see it clearly, not from inside. Sometimes I feel I am happy other times no, I really felt in my heart that we can be happy, I just don't want to wait forever! What should I do honest truth Free Bird— Do you think Iam over reacting, and what is your sign?

find someone who can afford thier own place.

Yep....gotta agree with Cj7 on this one....btw..I am an Aries Fire and Ice. I just cannot understand for the life of me...if I truly wanted to be with someone I would find my own place and create that place for us...maybe he has derailed a bit? give him a run for his money...move on sweetheart....Find someone who would move heaven and earth for YOU...YOU are worth it!!!!! and don't you ever forget that! 😉