Does this mean we're together?

So I'm back... I dunno if yall remember me, but I was all torn up about my scorp pulling away and not seeming to make any moves to come visit me (even tho he said he would)... Ask me for details if you can't remember.

Anyway tho, I just wanted to come back to say that after I smoothed it over with him for the wreckless stuff I said, and finished moveing out of my husbands house, he literally bought a one-way plane ticket the next day.

He'll be here tomorrow. On his birthday. 🙂

So, does this mean we're "together"?

Lol, I realize this is a question for him, but I don't wanna annoy him with my incessant questions-- so I've come to yall.

Should I just assume we're a couple, even tho Im not all the way divorced yet?

Never assume anything until it's discussed.

Congrats! But I would ask him as simply as possible of: "Are we official?" or something like that. It wouldn't surprise me if he asked you first, because we Scorpio guys like to make things clear(not unkindly, just like to sort things out) on where we stand. But if he doesn't, and you really want to know, go ahead and ask him as simply as possible. Careful of the Leo bluntness when you ask him. I'm not saying you're trying to be forceful or anything, it's just we Scorpio guys are more sensitive than we'll ever actually admit and don't like feel we are being talked down to. So that's why I say simply and calmly if you want to put a label on what you and him have. But, if he jumped on a plane to fly where you are. I know you mean something special to him! Trust me on this one! We Scorpio guys aren't going to do that for any one woman.

Posted by crabbylion822014

Anyway tho, I just wanted to come back to say that after I smoothed it over with him for the wreckless stuff I said, and finished moveing out of my husbands house, he literally bought a one-way plane ticket the next day.


Should I just assume we're a couple, even tho Im not all the way divorced yet?

smfh

Posted by crabbylion822014
So I'm back... I dunno if yall remember me, but I was all torn up about my scorp pulling away and not seeming to make any moves to come visit me (even tho he said he would)... Ask me for details if you can't remember.

Anyway tho, I just wanted to come back to say that after I smoothed it over with him for the wreckless stuff I said, and finished moveing out of my husbands house, he literally bought a one-way plane ticket the next day.

He'll be here tomorrow. On his birthday. 🙂

So, does this mean we're "together"?

Lol, I realize this is a question for him, but I don't wanna annoy him with my incessant questions-- so I've come to yall.

Should I just assume we're a couple, even tho Im not all the way divorced yet?

ding ding.... I've got bad news for YOU!!

It's not going to last.
Ultimately, the two of you will be at each other's throats if
it doesn't come to an end before then.

Leo, you are not thinking straight. And your pride will not let you
see it until after you're bees knees deep.

I've seen the combo before... VERY BAD.

but not all is lost here...
Have a nice day.

Posted by LetltB

Posted by crabbylion822014

Anyway tho, I just wanted to come back to say that after I smoothed it over with him for the wreckless stuff I said, and finished moveing out of my husbands house, he literally bought a one-way plane ticket the next day.


Should I just assume we're a couple, even tho Im not all the way divorced yet?

smfh

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Saw that too, eh??

It's good that you both worked your issues out, but you aren't a couple until he says you are.

What a bunch of naysayers on here! Let her and him decide if they are a couple and if they will last or not.

Lololololol... yall are funny.

So I asked. And he was offended because HE assumed we WERE and didn't understand why I was having doubts!

So, yeah...

Posted by SilverScorpio
Congrats! But I would ask him as simply as possible of: "Are we official?" or something like that. It wouldn't surprise me if he asked you first, because we Scorpio guys like to make things clear(not unkindly, just like to sort things out) on where we stand. But if he doesn't, and you really want to know, go ahead and ask him as simply as possible. Careful of the Leo bluntness when you ask him. I'm not saying you're trying to be forceful or anything, it's just we Scorpio guys are more sensitive than we'll ever actually admit and don't like feel we are being talked down to. So that's why I say simply and calmly if you want to put a label on what you and him have. But, if he jumped on a plane to fly where you are. I know you mean something special to him! Trust me on this one! We Scorpio guys aren't going to do that for any one woman.

Thanks for your thoughtful response, and not trying to chastise me for the most obvious elephant in the room.

So just tell him you weren't having doubts and you just wanted to make sure of what you and him are.

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by LetltB

Posted by crabbylion822014

Anyway tho, I just wanted to come back to say that after I smoothed it over with him for the wreckless stuff I said, and finished moveing out of my husbands house, he literally bought a one-way plane ticket the next day.


Should I just assume we're a couple, even tho Im not all the way divorced yet?

smfh

Saw that too, eh??

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Geeeez, the judgement in here is palpable... I guess I should have said "... even tho I'm still technically married to the manipulative and abusive taurus who beats on me when he gets drunk."

Posted by SilverScorpio
So just tell him you weren't having doubts and you just wanted to make sure of what you and him are.

That's exactly what I said 🙂