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Feeling uncomfortable around Scorp Mars
I have a scorpio mars so it would be hard to be biased. 😛
My close friend with virgo sun has scorpio mars and she does not make me feel uncomfortable.
She is not confrontation with me, we are usually good.
She has libra mercury too.
I have libra venus. So I'm not bossy, I like to make people feel at ease.
If you feel good I feel good.
However if you are being confrontation, shady or slightly disrespectful I can be vicious.
My close friend with virgo sun has scorpio mars and she does not make me feel uncomfortable.
She is not confrontation with me, we are usually good.
She has libra mercury too.
I have libra venus. So I'm not bossy, I like to make people feel at ease.
If you feel good I feel good.
However if you are being confrontation, shady or slightly disrespectful I can be vicious.
confrontational*
My co-worker has Scorpio Mars as does my Pisces. Best working relationship I've had in a decade, best romantic relationship I've had ever.
Co-worker avoids personal questions, slowly reveals info and closely watches my response to any of her reveals.
When I first met Pisces, I heard others say about him: "He lives a private life" and "He has a darkness about him". Both are accurate
Co-worker avoids personal questions, slowly reveals info and closely watches my response to any of her reveals.
When I first met Pisces, I heard others say about him: "He lives a private life" and "He has a darkness about him". Both are accurate
Posted by Reincarnation
I sometimes like making people uncomfortable.
i could tell, and it's annoying! making me uncomfortable + annoying = nobody got time for that, lol
so today my mars scorp friend came to give me something. I think its my libra mars. i swear i dont know how to stand up for myself sometimes bc of my damn mars and the rest of my chart is screaming at me lol. shes yapping on and in my head all i can think is i know what you are up to but i just act nice and nod. i just need to stay away lol
Posted by shellshocker
My co-worker has Scorpio Mars as does my Pisces. Best working relationship I've had in a decade, best romantic relationship I've had ever.
Co-worker avoids personal questions, slowly reveals info and closely watches my response to any of her reveals.
When I first met Pisces, I heard others say about him: "He lives a private life" and "He has a darkness about him". Both are accurate
i think it would be sexy for a man - as in a romantic relationship, although that would be more of a smothering uncomfortable for me haha. i like scorp venus though 🙂
Posted by exoskeleton
my sag has scorp mars. he doesn't make me feel uncomfortable, but there's definitely an insane/dark side to him that peaks out at times. i find it cute. 🙂
Sag w scorp moon.. sounds hot! You guys look cute 🙂
Posted by aNEWday
I would love to hear from other scorps dealing with people who have scorpio mars. Can anyone relate? Anyone know what could make me feel uncomfortable??
Deal with them all the time, sexy mothaf*ckas. Nope. Nope.
Posted by exoskeleton
my sag has scorp mars. he doesn't make me feel uncomfortable, but there's definitely an insane/dark side to him that peaks out at times. i find it cute. 🙂
😄.
People don't tell me I make them uncomfortable, but they so tell they find me intimdating. Frankly I don't care how I make hem feel and this is why:
What is really the worst that would happen if you told her exactly that? Is she gonna bite your head off and use it for a prop? Wth?
Perhaps you are encountering all of these people with Scorp Mars to help you develop a part of yourself that is underdeveloped. Learn to assert yourself maybe, instead of staying in your head and avoiding it. What's the worst that gonna happen seriously? When people tell me I intimidate them I don't respond and I most certainly make no plans to change. I don't care. Some may see that as arrogant, but it's really not my problem. I will make adjustments if my actions hurt someone or someone find it disrespectful, but intimidation is an entirely different thing. I have no plans to play small just to make other people feel better about themselves. Sorry. That's your job, just as it was mine to work on my weak points.
I am in a similar boat with Leo Mercs. Every other person in my life has an freakin' Leo Merc and it drives me insane because it squares my Merc. Two fixed signs in an argument JC! I use to just avoid them (and at times I still find myself just ignoring them), but I'm beginning to believe they are present in my life for a reason, so I force myself to come back to the table and work through it. I can be impatient, extremely stubborn and get quite angry when I am conversing with people that I'm not seeing eye to eye with. I'm learning to check that. Take the time to listen and really hear what they are saying before responding. I have no choice at this point in my life or I will end up ruining my relationships. Idk, just something to think about. You can keep feeling uncomfortable and hope you stumble across someone without a Scorp in Mars or simple recognize they are just people. Stop giving them so much power.
Posted by aNEWday
so today my mars scorp friend came to give me something. I think its my libra mars. i swear i dont know how to stand up for myself sometimes bc of my damn mars and the rest of my chart is screaming at me lol. shes yapping on and in my head all i can think is i know what you are up to but i just act nice and nod. i just need to stay away lol
What is really the worst that would happen if you told her exactly that? Is she gonna bite your head off and use it for a prop? Wth?
Perhaps you are encountering all of these people with Scorp Mars to help you develop a part of yourself that is underdeveloped. Learn to assert yourself maybe, instead of staying in your head and avoiding it. What's the worst that gonna happen seriously? When people tell me I intimidate them I don't respond and I most certainly make no plans to change. I don't care. Some may see that as arrogant, but it's really not my problem. I will make adjustments if my actions hurt someone or someone find it disrespectful, but intimidation is an entirely different thing. I have no plans to play small just to make other people feel better about themselves. Sorry. That's your job, just as it was mine to work on my weak points.
I am in a similar boat with Leo Mercs. Every other person in my life has an freakin' Leo Merc and it drives me insane because it squares my Merc. Two fixed signs in an argument JC! I use to just avoid them (and at times I still find myself just ignoring them), but I'm beginning to believe they are present in my life for a reason, so I force myself to come back to the table and work through it. I can be impatient, extremely stubborn and get quite angry when I am conversing with people that I'm not seeing eye to eye with. I'm learning to check that. Take the time to listen and really hear what they are saying before responding. I have no choice at this point in my life or I will end up ruining my relationships. Idk, just something to think about. You can keep feeling uncomfortable and hope you stumble across someone without a Scorp in Mars or simple recognize they are just people. Stop giving them so much power.
^^I don't like leo merc's either! love my leos but i find that merc to be obnoxious
You are 100% correct, and its something Im trying to learn and have been better with. its not even that im 'scared' its more like i would rather avoid a conflict. Or that i know that i get emotional with responses, so i would rather just ignore than go from 0 to 100 and either get really angry or just crazy lol. I need to learn how to assert myself PROPERLY. I think im so used to this way of being that its my default, and when im in these situations sometimes i dont even realized what has happened and later on i think 'i SHOULD HAVE said this or that'.
You are 100% correct, and its something Im trying to learn and have been better with. its not even that im 'scared' its more like i would rather avoid a conflict. Or that i know that i get emotional with responses, so i would rather just ignore than go from 0 to 100 and either get really angry or just crazy lol. I need to learn how to assert myself PROPERLY. I think im so used to this way of being that its my default, and when im in these situations sometimes i dont even realized what has happened and later on i think 'i SHOULD HAVE said this or that'.
@aNew try to be patient with yourself. I often do that as well, the second guessing with the people I care about. Funny thing is these people don't know what I "should" have done/said and they seem quite content with what I did do. We tend to be much more critical of ourselves, which make it hard to move beyond our weaknesses. I don't know, most of the Scorps I've encountered (myself included) have this perfectionist complex, which just keeps us stuck.
Regarding your assertiveness, I have found it was easier with people I truly care about. When you value the relationship overall, you want to put forth more effort to keep it going--but not at the expense of yourself. Start with those relationships. If the feeling is mutual, you won't "mess up" when you need to speak up and assert yourself. People that truly care about us don't see it that way. They may be a little thrown, but they will accept you despite the change in your approach with them. As you gain more confidence asserting yourself in those relationships, you will be able to apply it to those less then favorable relationships as well.
Little secret: treating a Scorp Mars like they are non threatening is what tends to diffuse the situation. There is something about people that respond to me in a welcoming/accepting way regardless of my prickliness that just makes me naturally soften around and warm to with very little effort. The more they accept (my "dark" for lack of a better word), the more I soften. For the most part, Scorps truly desire acceptance. View Scorp Mars, which is simply a different version of the Scorp, the same way.
Regarding your assertiveness, I have found it was easier with people I truly care about. When you value the relationship overall, you want to put forth more effort to keep it going--but not at the expense of yourself. Start with those relationships. If the feeling is mutual, you won't "mess up" when you need to speak up and assert yourself. People that truly care about us don't see it that way. They may be a little thrown, but they will accept you despite the change in your approach with them. As you gain more confidence asserting yourself in those relationships, you will be able to apply it to those less then favorable relationships as well.
Little secret: treating a Scorp Mars like they are non threatening is what tends to diffuse the situation. There is something about people that respond to me in a welcoming/accepting way regardless of my prickliness that just makes me naturally soften around and warm to with very little effort. The more they accept (my "dark" for lack of a better word), the more I soften. For the most part, Scorps truly desire acceptance. View Scorp Mars, which is simply a different version of the Scorp, the same way.
PS I'm glad you could make sense of that initial post because I don't know what they hell happened with all those typos. Sorry. I hate typing on this phone. Smh....
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