Ok here's the spill...I got some seductive but not trashy-looking pics posted on my personal webpage..My ex, who happens to be a Scorpio, sent me a message that surprised the hell out of me accusing me of not having any self respect to just plaster my body on the web for everybody to see. Of course I was caught of guard but it also made me wonder if he still have feelings for me so I asked him straight up..he told me yes and yada yada well long story short we start to keep in touch with each other and I know cheesy as it sounds but whenever somethings goin on between us, he changes his profile song but no, I'm not the type of person to assume things like omg he's dedicating songs for me, how flattering but it's his third song that finally hit me which is "Faraway" by Nickelback which is obviously about us..then out of nowhere he stops communicating so I'm like what the hell, he just put this amazing song in his profile that actually made me feel secure of him still thinking about me and then next thing you know its back to square one, here am I thinking "Oh, he's probably talking about another girl" It just frustrates me how he keeps me on my toes all the time and its driving me nuts when will they stop playing around?? Can someone please enlighten me coz obviously I don't know what the hell is he trying to do, keeping my hopes up for nothing
Flaky behavior
Also I need you guys to be very frank..if you think he's just trying to play with my emotions then go ahead and hit me coz I feel like I'm blinded with my feelings for him
What I don't understand is his tendency to stop communication for no reason, it makes me wonder if I said anything offensive just because he stopped replying or he's just purposely trying to make me figure everything out on my own without any confrontation but just "hints" through his profile songs coz obviously I'm not the one who's going to lower my pride and confront him about it
I used to shrug off the songs he put in there but then it just struck me that everything is starting to make sense, sort of like I solved his little puzzle
and he's using his songs as means of sending his point or message across but I don't know I might be the only person noticing this.. people might probably think I'm some kind of a mad woman posting this lol
and he's using his songs as means of sending his point or message across but I don't know I might be the only person noticing this.. people might probably think I'm some kind of a mad woman posting this lol
My question is, are Scorpios really like that? Always trying to mess with people's heads so they can get the upper hand coz it's actually making me obsess about the whole situation but thank you for taking the time to read this..I appreciate it

Why don't you try asking him about the song thing and see what he says. As I read your post, the Sade song "Love is stronger than pride" came to mind, so if he's worth it, swallow your pride/stubborness and get to the bottom of this. Scorps are stubborn too so if his songs are really messages to you, then he's waiting on you to make a move. I could be wrong so hopefully a Scorpio can give you their perspective on it. So far, notso07, seems to agree (I think)... Oh and if you never heard that Sade song, you should hear it, its a beautiful song.
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