Frustrated by Scorpio

I am a Taurus female who has been hanging out with a Scorpio male for about 5 months now. He is REALLY shy. We hang out several times a week and exchange texts sometimes on days we don't see each other. We have been to several events together and go see movies and all that and are discussing a trip together. We hold hands, are affectionate but not always sexual, and do have a ton of shared interests. Does he like me or is it just a sex thing? I hate games - I tend to be pretty straightforward so haven't pushed the matter, but I am starting to get really irritated with this situation. I am totally into this guy but need to decide if I should cut my losses and move on. HELP!!! :-)

See this kills me...

He goes out with you, spends time with you. Doesn't "only" have sex with you. No SCorpio would spend 5 months with you, if you didn't mean anything to him.

He's not going to tell you he loves you or anything, not yet. His shy behavior means he really likes you.

Actions speak louder than words. Keep a lookout.

I say write him a letter...handwritten preferrably, and leave it somewhere for him to find.

Write down your honest to goodness feelings...keep it less than a page long. And...

Don't pester him for a response. Wait for him to come to you. 🙂

Foolproof way for him to give you his thoughts...one way or the other.

Push the matter.

You say you're straight forward? Then be just that. It's easy really, just sit him down and ask him. Where is this relationship going, express your affection, but also your need for commitment. I don't care how "shy" he is. Most likely he is relationship retarded as most of us guys are. By openly expressing your affection and loyalty with sincerity he should open up. But, don't beat around the bush, just say it like it is. Be tactful. If he is as shy as you say, you don't want to make him feel like he is being pushed into a corner. He'll close up even more and then it's over. I would definitely express that you want to know where you two are headed or if it is in fact just sex. Good luck.

Posted by Let*It*Be
"He is REALLY shy. We hang out several times a week and exchange texts sometimes on days we don't see each other. We have been to several events together and go see movies and all that and are discussing a trip together. We hold hands, are affectionate but not always sexual, and do have a ton of shared interests. Does he like me or is it just a sex thing? I hate games "


What a bastard. How dare he treat you like a queen, take you out to events, plan a trip with you, hold your hand and be affectionate and remain in contact when you are not together!!


REALLY?

He probably hasn't verbally confirmed their status...
Sometimes you just wanna hear it, you know? 😢

Thanks everyone for your advice. I appreciate it. Had a rather ugly divorce, so a little scared to trust my instincts about someone.

Posted by Let*It*Be
...lol I just re-read, I knew I read the "actions" in this thread..didn't realize it was you who said it.

Actions, words...all are welcomed.

He probably really likes you but isnt in love (yet). I know they are passionate but don't they also take love very seriously?

Posted by iheartnerdyboyz

Posted by Let*It*Be
...lol I just re-read, I knew I read the "actions" in this thread..didn't realize it was you who said it.

Actions, words...all are welcomed.

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