Hurt Scorpio

Posted by dilettante

i have the same sun & moon

he may just be feeling sorry for himself & is projecting that onto you? it’s hard to say.

i would just continue being consistent support, for now. if anything changes, for the worst, bounce immediately.

“lost” generally means they have no clue what they want. i would consider this a red flag.

Posted by Kityyyyyyy

Why won't you question him?. I'm a Scorpio and I respect strength of character. You need to force his hand, then you shall see his real colours.

Posted by dilettante

Posted by Kityyyyyyy

Not to be rude but. You've known him for four years and you're not dating or in a relationship after all this time?. Darlin, he's just not that into you.... Us Scorpio's know, and jump in, boots and all if you're the one.

not me. i rarely “jump in, boots and all”. i sit back & observe, take notes, build a case, seek a counsel, then i calculate actions toward progression.

i never blindly move forward.

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Posted by dilettante

Posted by Kityyyyyyy

Not to be rude but. You've known him for four years and you're not dating or in a relationship after all this time?. Darlin, he's just not that into you.... Us Scorpio's know, and jump in, boots and all if you're the one.

not me. i rarely “jump in, boots and all”. i sit back & observe, take notes, build a case, seek a counsel, then i calculate actions toward progression.

i never blindly move forward.

Interesting, are you first decan per chance?.

3rd decan - capricorn venus conjunct jupiter in 11th & aqua mars in 12th. motives hidden & actions are always calculated.

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Posted by dilettante

@kityyyyyyy

i just saw yr edited post

i would prob wait 4 years to be with someone, sure. especially if it feels like a strong connection. some ppl just need to get their shit together. some ppl know it isnt the right time.

i have strong aqua/sag in my chart so being friends is most important to me. if it takes 4 years, shit, it takes 4 years then. i can be patient when it comes to something i REALLY want. especially, if i wanna put my best foot forward.

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Preaching to the choir sista!!!!!... Most of my relationships have been eith Virgo's. Caveat being, never made it diwn the isle with one. That hot and cold drives me bonkers!!!!!. 😲😏

@kityyyyyyy

i just saw yr edited post

i would prob wait 4 years to be with someone, sure. especially if it feels like a strong connection. some ppl just need to get their shit together. some ppl know it isnt the right time.

i have strong aqua/sag in my chart so being friends is most important to me. if it takes 4 years, shit, it takes 4 years then. i can be patient when it comes to something i REALLY want. especially, if i wanna put my best foot forward.

Hand on my 💟, I was saying to myself , you must been in possession of a heavy Aquarian influence. Only because I've just had dealings with one, and you reminded me of him. Kudos to you. That's some resilience and strength you have there. I have a Leo rising, re: said urgency in all things love related, yet am half earth. It's a dichotomy at best. 😁

lol! yes! aqua mars / rising & venus / jupiter in 11th. coupled w/ aspects to uranus.

i am seeing a virgo w/ leo venus/rising (sag moon / aries mars) & boy oh boy do i know what you mean by sense of urgency!!! he will restrain the romance then let it all bleed out then restrain again lol. the epitome of hot & cold.

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Posted by LibraSupreme

He's a Scorpio so expect a rollercoaster of extreme high and lows. Scorps being patient waiting 4yrs to attack three prey is unheard of. If he seriously liked you it wouldn't be any guess work.