I need advice a Scorpio man

I am talking to a Scorpio man that is charming, sweet and always respectful to me. We talk mainly via text, audio message, facetime due to distant constraints. When we talk it is usually sexual 90% of time. I must admit I am very sexually attracted to this man and I know for a fact he is to me as well. I was fine with that as first but it was him who started talking more like calling me his baby and saying I am his, or rather implying. Once I start getting that kind of treatment, as a human I start to feel something. I am not usually even like this, so odd of me that I swear maybe there might be a spell on me. We do have some convos where we talk about what we are doing, what we are thinking, if one us not feeling well, how our day was. But he flirts a lot on social media with other girls, as though he wants them or has crush on them ( I can see it if their page is open being him and I are befriended). I cant be mad about that and I am not because I am not his to have that right. But then why does he talk possessive to me as in that I am his.? And what got me is that he flirted with some1 I know through a mutual friend(he doesn't know I know her) and she saw I know him too and asked about him??_. and the communication with her seemed very different to mine. He asked her about long distance dating and all this — as he if would consider that with her. He never asked me about stuff like that. He never pursued me in the way he has her. I mean he has made references, in midst of our sexting, calling me wifey and names of the sort but it was in the moment. I make him feel good in words. He always says that.

I don't want to seem like I am sweating him. But I also don't want to seem like I am ignoring him. I think maybe he is taking for granted my ego stroking in making him feel good (I am just being honest in my compliments not meaning to ego stroke). Lately ive been just trying to distance myself. Occupy myself to get him out of my mind. Its not easy but I am strong minded. A few days ago Ive hinted to him things recently because he hasn't been communicating as often as used to and it would always be me to text. I told him I thought I lost him (since not as much talking like attn. elsewhere) and he replied to me —never??. I also made a crying emoji one day and he asked what is wrong and I told him he is going to unintentionally break my heart and he said no way with heart emojis kissing me. I am so confused. Its like is it just

contd where cut off: Its like is it just a game to have me sexually? Why not just say what it is? If it just a sex thing why not make it like that instead of wanting to get into my heart —

He's bored and looks to you for ego attention. If he's made no suggestions of meeting up then he's not interested in you.

It is what it is.

If you don't like what it is then feel free to discontinue entertaining him.

Let me guess....you haven't met this chump in person yet have you?

Posted by AgentP911
He's bored and looks to you for ego attention. If he's made no suggestions of meeting up then he's not interested in you.

It is what it is.

If you don't like what it is then feel free to discontinue entertaining him.

He has made suggestions and we have met up and also plans to do so again in 3 weeks. All his initiation. He pursued me. Obv there is some interest even if its just sexual but i cant figure out the mind games that come with him - hence the question.

Posted by AgentP911
He's bored and looks to you for ego attention. If he's made no suggestions of meeting up then he's not interested in you.

It is what it is.

If you don't like what it is then feel free to discontinue entertaining him.

He has made suggestions and we have met up and also plans to do so again in 3 weeks. All his initiation. He pursued me. Obv there is some interest even if its just sexual but i cant figure out the mind games that come with him - hence the question.

Posted by AgentP911
He's bored and looks to you for ego attention. If he's made no suggestions of meeting up then he's not interested in you.

It is what it is.

If you don't like what it is then feel free to discontinue entertaining him.

He has made suggestions and we have met up and also plans to do so again in 3 weeks. All his initiation. He pursued me. Obv there is some interest even if its just sexual but i cant figure out the mind games that come with him - hence the question.

Posted by LetltB
Let me guess....you haven't met this chump in person yet have you?

yes I met him, why else would i be going crazy about him to wonder where I stand and how read him? I said we are very sexual. I met him when he was in my city visiting an sick aunt and i didnt learn that he wasnt from here till two weeks before was going back home