Hello, well me and this Scorpio male used to talk just as friends since his sister is my best friend and well he asked me to homecoming dance and a couple days before that I got back with my ex and he asked me RANDOMLY! I was not expecting this AT ALL and I said yes. The thing is I told him I couldn't go since I had a boyfriend now. He replied with " It's cool." I'm not sure if he was hurt or really didn't care. Also I wasn't too sure that he had feelings for me cause he would ask me out on little dates and stuff but I'd always say I was busy. But man was this guy persistent. He really must have cared for me. I remember one day he called me because I posted on social media that I was a sad and he called. I answered crying asking whos this and he said his name and proceeded with asking me if im alright. He seemed worried but I didn't want to talk about it and then he said that he was always there for me if I ever needed anything, then he hung up. Sorry a little off but after I texted him that I couldn't go his sister texts me saying "why would you do that to him, especially the way you did it." I was confused because I didn't mean anything by it I just thought I'd let him know. She said I basically brushed him off as if he was nothing and that if I would've done it in person he wouldn't have been so devastated. I did see him after school but I didn't tell him. I waited till about 11PM to tell him. Then we both started to argue about the whole situation and then he confessed that he did indeed have feelings for me and that he was trying to spend time with me but he said that I was always busy. I told him I didn't find it appropriate since his sister is my best friend and that would be weird...right? Well then we basically agreed to distance ourselves and HE did. I always check on his social media but I think I really did hurt him badly, and I mean BADLY. He hasn't texted me, called me, he doesn't even look at me when we pass each other in the halls. It's literally like I never existed to him and that he doesn't know who I am. I don't know what to do. It's been a month and I havent texted him and vice versa. He hasn't even check my social media! Then me and my boyfriend broke up and now I REALLY don't know what to do because he really is a nice, sweet, generous, caring, and such a gentleman kind of guy. He always respects me and makes me laugh. I don't know whether to initiate a conversation with him because I'm scared he will ignore me and totally blow me off as the same I did to him in a way. I hope he still cares for me really. I want to go back to him but I'm affraid he will say "I'm never second choice. Goodbye." I feel thats just how cold he will be. PLEASE I NEED HELP!
