ImaBlvr
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No Scorpio man for this scorpio!
^ Exo...I know I can handle them, but is it worth it!?!
What I enjoyed about my first relationship. He got me...I didn't have to explain my thoughts and I "got" him...only issue, he didn't want me to "get" him. He wanted to be that mystery, that all knowing being who would "teach" me things, give me greater insight into "things." But I was already there, I was SO happy that I was able to connect with him on such a higher level, but for some odd reason he didn't like it. In the few relationships I've been in, I've been the one that had more to offer (not materially), but with Scorpio #1 I honestly believed that he could help me grow beyond my current level of xyz...and I've never had that feeling about anyone before. I was looking forward to building a relationship with him...until all that foolishness started to surface and the dark side stayed longer and longer.
I just found out today that Scorpio #2 is smitten by me. I don't see how...lol! My best friend was surprised when I told her I was not interested in him romantically at ALL. We hung out for the weekend, had laughs and it was cool, but he's immature, definitely not were Scorp #1 was. I feel he wants to debate, instead of communicate and just listening to him was draining my energy.
What I enjoyed about my first relationship. He got me...I didn't have to explain my thoughts and I "got" him...only issue, he didn't want me to "get" him. He wanted to be that mystery, that all knowing being who would "teach" me things, give me greater insight into "things." But I was already there, I was SO happy that I was able to connect with him on such a higher level, but for some odd reason he didn't like it. In the few relationships I've been in, I've been the one that had more to offer (not materially), but with Scorpio #1 I honestly believed that he could help me grow beyond my current level of xyz...and I've never had that feeling about anyone before. I was looking forward to building a relationship with him...until all that foolishness started to surface and the dark side stayed longer and longer.
I just found out today that Scorpio #2 is smitten by me. I don't see how...lol! My best friend was surprised when I told her I was not interested in him romantically at ALL. We hung out for the weekend, had laughs and it was cool, but he's immature, definitely not were Scorp #1 was. I feel he wants to debate, instead of communicate and just listening to him was draining my energy.
I like scorpios. Scorp and Tau are the only ones I can really see myself with.. Scorpios just make SENSE and Taurus well they don't make ANY sense but theres a intuitive understanding. I can be jealous and insecure too, though its annoying in my partner if they hide it well its not as annoying.
ImaBlvr wrote:
IMO there is a distinct difference in male scorpios and female scorpio.
Scorpio females are MUCH colder ... on the outside.
Scorpio females and Scorpio males are meant to be friends
but that's it - unless the missiles have already been launched
because then you won't notice the nuclear result so much.
IMO there is a distinct difference in male scorpios and female scorpio.
Scorpio females are MUCH colder ... on the outside.
Scorpio females and Scorpio males are meant to be friends
but that's it - unless the missiles have already been launched
because then you won't notice the nuclear result so much.
Exo...I was all for the "rewarding relationship" I was like, dang! I wish I had dated a scorpio male years ago.
Funny that you mention "letting go of my pride." Before Scorpio #1, I would not call myself a prideful person, but as I became more self-aware I realized I had alot of pride. But with Scorp #1, I let down SO many walls. There were times when I felt like I was standing still (I didn't have to think as much with him). He would take the lead and handle "his business", which was us/the relationship...and that brought me relief and a sense of stablity and security. When he said he was going to do something he did it to completion!
In my marriage, I was so accustomed to taking the lead and picking up the ball that my ex dropped often. My ex once confessed that he hates being told what to do (regardless of the person telling him). These were his exact words, "even if I know I need to do xyz, if someone tells me what to do I will purposely NOT do it." Because of my ex's way of thinking, we had experienced some financial issues that were completely avoidable. He has almost gone to jail out of his stubbornness, but yet for 20 years he still couldn't let go of that way of thinking. That's why on my other post about Cap men/Scorp women...I chuckled to myself when he complained about his new wife...she's just like him...lol! Ok, I disgress.
So, my experience with Scorpio #1 was very pleasant in the beginning...I've just wanted to relax for so long and he gave me a chance to do that and the realization that there is hope in being in a great relationship where my needs will be met as well.
Maybe I will keep my heart open to the Scorpio man (because I sure do love how they get us), but I'm keeping my eyes, ears, nose open for any foolishness, because I ain't having it...lol!
Funny that you mention "letting go of my pride." Before Scorpio #1, I would not call myself a prideful person, but as I became more self-aware I realized I had alot of pride. But with Scorp #1, I let down SO many walls. There were times when I felt like I was standing still (I didn't have to think as much with him). He would take the lead and handle "his business", which was us/the relationship...and that brought me relief and a sense of stablity and security. When he said he was going to do something he did it to completion!
In my marriage, I was so accustomed to taking the lead and picking up the ball that my ex dropped often. My ex once confessed that he hates being told what to do (regardless of the person telling him). These were his exact words, "even if I know I need to do xyz, if someone tells me what to do I will purposely NOT do it." Because of my ex's way of thinking, we had experienced some financial issues that were completely avoidable. He has almost gone to jail out of his stubbornness, but yet for 20 years he still couldn't let go of that way of thinking. That's why on my other post about Cap men/Scorp women...I chuckled to myself when he complained about his new wife...she's just like him...lol! Ok, I disgress.
So, my experience with Scorpio #1 was very pleasant in the beginning...I've just wanted to relax for so long and he gave me a chance to do that and the realization that there is hope in being in a great relationship where my needs will be met as well.
Maybe I will keep my heart open to the Scorpio man (because I sure do love how they get us), but I'm keeping my eyes, ears, nose open for any foolishness, because I ain't having it...lol!
Posted by scorpiopics
ImaBlvr wrote:
IMO there is a distinct difference in male scorpios and female scorpio.
Scorpio females are MUCH colder ... on the outside.
Scorpio females and Scorpio males are meant to be friends
but that's it - unless the missiles have already been launched
because then you won't notice the nuclear result so much.
I might have to agree with you on "much colder...on the outside." I wish I could relax more and show the warmth I have inside, so that people (especially the man I'm interested in) can see that side of me right away. Once others get to know me, I get the "you're really cool," "you're so funny," etc. I'm like, "what did you think of me before?" Stuck up, shy, didn't want to be bothered, were usually the words used to decribed their initial reactions to me. Except for a Virgo I was crushing on, he said I was "reserved, you sit back and just take things in that's going on around you." The other descriptions sounds so negative and weren't me at all, but the Virgo...I was like "HE GETS ME!"
Posted by scorpiopics
ImaBlvr wrote:
IMO there is a distinct difference in male scorpios and female scorpio.
Scorpio females are MUCH colder ... on the outside.
Scorpio females and Scorpio males are meant to be friends
but that's it - unless the missiles have already been launched
because then you won't notice the nuclear result so much.
Yup on the outside, this scorpio female i know seems cold, but after observing her, i feel she's the most sensitive person i've met. could it be bec. she has a pisces moon? well she sure surprised me bec. at first, she was reserved, quiet, and all to herself, but not really once approached. she's funny.
Posted by TyDyed
but the Virgo...I was like "HE GETS ME!"
Yes... we do.
S+V can be a great match. (Like I've never posted that before!)
Virgo Man will figure you out; and, if he's sharp, he won't ever let you know that he's completely figured you out - he likes you having that "bit of mystery" / intrigue.
Romantically? It depends. If you're the Soap Opera / Harlequin Romance fan, you'll probably be disappointed. Very little drama. Few real surprises (unless like me, he puts them on his personal calendar).
Sexually? Ohhhh Yeah! He will wear your ass out - have you cryin' for your mama! LOTS of stamina. Great attention to orgasmic details.
Day-to-day Life? Pleasant. Comfortable. Minimal upsets. You may get bored.
FYI: A Cappy Guy who works for me is married to a Scorpio who shares my Wife's b'day (20 NOV). They're a much younger couple. Seem to very happy (but who's not at that age?).
@TyDyed
This Virguy even told me that once..."I already have you figured out." I was curious as hell to know what he pegged me as, because most people think I'm so mysterious...lol. I'm just quiet. What you have described about your marriage and the good I've heard from other about Virgos, I was certainly wishing for that and wanted things work out between the Virgo and I. But, unfortunately for HIM (LOL) he is simply not ready for a committed relationship, so I had to let that go.
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