says he cares but wants to leave....

My Scorpio has recently broke things off with me but I don't get why because things were going really well between us. His reasons were because he doesn't want to see me hurt over him (I'm not now but he means ever) but when he said that he also said "I care about you this is why I'm doing this, not because I want someone else or because I want this to end, I'm doing this for your own good." But the last 4 weekends he's been with me it has been great we've been on cute little dates and been out drinking together alone or w friends sometimes. I dont know where things went wrong. I dont want to convince him to come back I want that to be his decision, I just want to know why he's saying all of this and if he means it. Some pls help!

This sucks, why? to become involved with someone who you think is the right one.. to have it backfire.... I'm going with Venus and Mars compatibility issues..

1.How do you love each other?

2. How do you interact with each other? In public or inside your own..communication....

3. How do you solve problems? This case...he doesn't right now..

So do you move on or become fwb.. these are our options ladies these days...haha

Can you keep your self in check when arguing with emotions involved.. with emotion clouds your judgement..

Guys don't have emotions rarely...women do...imagine that who the fuck created it like this...

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
This sucks, why? to become involved with someone who you think is the right one.. to have it backfire.... I'm going with Venus and Mars compatibility issues..

1.How do you love each other?

2. How do you interact with each other? In public or inside your own..communication....

3. How do you solve problems? This case...he doesn't right now..

So do you move on or become fwb.. these are our options ladies these days...haha

Can you keep your self in check when arguing with emotions involved.. with emotion clouds your judgement..

Guys don't have emotions rarely...women do...imagine that who the fuck created it like this...

1. I love him because he secures me, he's a gentleman, he makes me happy and I'm so completely comfortable w him even tho I was insecure when we first started out but most of all he's good with my son.

Idk if he loves me tho because he hasn't said it at east sober. Only once drunk but he tried covering it up by adding "I love your bum, I love your face....etc" so I brushed it aside.

2. In public were still so very much in the honey" moon" stage of the relationship so there's a lot of touching especially of the bums or hell make me or want me to hold my arm around his. We kiss a lot publicly and everything a teenage couple would do around school lol.

3. As a Taurus I want to talk about everything then and there's and I try to get him to open up, even tell him to tae his time but he always shuts down and stutters because he doesn't want to say the wrong thing. By the end of it he does and things get better but I have bought one issue up over over and little too much but its one of those things where it'll probably never go away.

I dont want to move on,I'd do almost anything to make him stay even as fwb again but I dont want to always want more when he doesn't.

I cab keep myself in check but I do tend to cry when the emotion is too much for me to handle which is every time we confront each other about issues except it doesn't last that long because he's always eager to sort things out as much as me.

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Posted by deelia
My Scorpio has recently broke things off with me but I don't get why because things were going really well between us. His reasons were because he doesn't want to see me hurt over him (I'm not now but he means ever) but when he said that he also said "I care about you this is why I'm doing this, not because I want someone else or because I want this to end, I'm doing this for your own good." But the last 4 weekends he's been with me it has been great we've been on cute little dates and been out drinking together alone or w friends sometimes. I dont know where things went wrong. I dont want to convince him to come back I want that to be his decision, I just want to know why he's saying all of this and if he means it. Some pls help!

It sounds like he truly cares enough for you to be honest with you about his feelings. Of that you have to respect him for it. Perhaps there is not enough chemistry in his mind to warrant keeping this relationship going.

Have you two had sex yet?

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Yes we have, our relationship started off as fwb. And I wouldn't completely agree w you because the couple of months we've been together have been the best! Unless this was all fake? He means hurt me by never wanting more than a relationship (engagement and so on) because I said I want that in the future but not now and maybe not even w him. I have respected his wishes, I didnt come here to find ways to get him back, but to find ways to understand him especially when he says he cares about me but doesn't want to be w me anymore... It hurts but that's as far as his explanation went.

I am a Taurus too.. so I absolutely get where your mind is at with hm move on, or become fwb and hope it will rekindle the bond...

So what does he do to make you happy? Break aside your son hun...

This will make you feel confused.. here what are the pros and cons, do the pro's out way?? Are there any red flags on both parties here?

If you become attached within the fwb.. it's like you allow sharing what god created, or shake what your momma gave you type of scenery with other people.. eww...It will cause you more pain because out of all the hot and cold interests between you guys..he's already made a decision.. he's a Scorpio a water sign... crush him if he ever dis-respects you k.. ok stay strong..

Oh he will make time to hit that.. don't worry about that...stay safe, use protection, and take care of your son...

Posted by sfsmoke
You won't understand unless your a scorpio. We come from hell and dont deserve relationships

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Posted by SapphireMaiden
The least I could do for someone I used to have a relationship with, out of respect and decency is to let them know the reasons to which I ended things with them on my terms cuz honestly, it's not like I would still want, under any circumstance, to meet them after the breakup. Leaving you hanging and giving vague excuses as to why he ended things doesn't forge any closure at all cuz the other party (you) keeps wondering what went wrong and whether it's really the end for the both of you since he was not upfront towards you to begin with.

I would really deem that act of his as disrespectful and insensitive. And tbh, why should you waste any more time thinking about this person? If he cared about you enough, he shouldn't have ended things with you in a cowardly fashion (the only thing missing is that overly used pathetic line: it's not about you, it's about me bullshit....we'll screw you a******, I ain't got time for that lame ass excuse you use to cover up for your bs...just tell me the goddamn truth and I'll go on being fine with my life, thankfully without you in it)

I was told numerous times in this forum that no one owes you any explanation why they are ending it with you. I thought it is bull.
However now I am thinking what if explanation will hurt her and he can't bare to say it.
Like your have a bad breath or I didn't like sex with you. Wouldn't she be crushed more?

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I'd be heart broken and be told the complete truth than be broken up with no actual good reason and to me the one he gave me counts because who even tell someone they care but want to end things?

Posted by Rabbit
He sounds like an immature turd.

Consider yourself lucky he's running off.

You say the same thing abt every scorp male who has some lady confused in some way,(he's immature) why is that? If its sarcasm then I think its F'ing hilarious, if not then WTF?

Oh no! Run! Run away! When a guy tells you he doesn't want to hurt you or he doesn't deserve you believe him. And, if you have deep feelings for him the truth will hurt worst. It's hard to get over a break up, it's like someone has died, but be strong. Maybe when he's more mature. He's actually being a "good" Scorpio guy by doing this. Take the warning and save yourself.