scorp men and cheating

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lumasunrise
@lumasunrise
14 Years

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i'm a libra woman who's been with a scorpio male for two years now. our relationship has not been all sunshine on a beach, we've been through a lot together, which i like to think only makes us stronger. the connection i have with this person is like nothing i've felt with another human being on this earth yet. it's a strong chemical connection that feels outer worldly. it was intense from the first day we met, and even though we've struggled, we still maintain that connection that neither one of us has had with any other person. it's just different. or so it seems. in the past 6 months, scorpio had grown sort of complacent, and careless, and started drinking heavily and often. scorpio cheats on me off and on while on a binge with another woman. lies about anything ever taking place, to which i find out the truth from another friend. i take scorpio back after apologies and promises to never let it happen again. within 4 months, scorpio starts another relationship with another woman, suddenly tells me he's leaving me, but refuses to actually call the other woman his lover. still calls me always promising a conversation that will "fix it all and tell us where to go from here", but never actually breaks it off with me. he's still holding on for something, but is with another woman. i'm wondering what he's still holding onto, if he's with someone else. i realize how someone obviously wouldn't seem like they really loved or cared about someone to put them through what i've been through in the recent two weeks, so i was hoping someone on here would be able to shed some light on the situation.
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BigGirlPanties
@BigGirlPanties
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You are in a self-esteem destroying, codependent relationship. He sounds like an alcoholic, and you sound like you are addicted to him. He doesnt leave you becuase the string of dependency between you is so enmeshed with familiarity and sick attachment, he can't.

How much more are you willing to accept crumbs? He will never respect or love you until YOU respect and love yourself. Take it from a woman who has been THERE!