Scorp Signals

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BetaBanana
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11 YearsCapricorn

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I've known this scorp for awhile I bartend and he comes in a lot. He had a gf and stopped coming in for a while but suddenly reappeared . I felt like we always had some connection maybe just physical attraction but he's so quiet it was hard to build anything. One night I go out to another bar . It's totally packed and all of the sudden I lock eyes with him and he's there ,starring across the bar at me for like half the night.its so intense like we're the only ones in the room and he finally comes up to me starts small talk buys me a couple drinks . I go off with my friends then catch back up with him and by this point I'm wasted. We go out for a smoke and then instantly start making out and I tell him to go meet me in the bathroom we take it to the bathroom start having sex but someone starts pounding on the door so we go back to the party.after that we kind of separate cuz I don't want anyone knowing what just happened. End of the night comes my friends gunna hang out with me in his truck til I sober up cuz bars closing and I'm too wasted to drive. Scorp insists I wait with him but my friend doesn't know scorp so he doesn't want me alone with him. So me and my friend are hanging out in his truck and the scorp Keeps coming up to it telling me to go with him but my friend keeps telling him no.then we drive around and scorp is following us.. We finally pull over and scorp comes to my window says he'll take care of me ,come on let's go ..my friend asks if I'm sure so I go with scorp haha. So I go in car and we finish what we started . It's amazing just what I wanted/needed its animalistic yet sensual omg. So that's that lol he drives me home and by this point I'm sober and feeling kind of awkward but I try to joke since we've known each other for a while but never really talked much .i assume it's a one night stand and just kiss him goodbye . The next weekend he comes into my job right before were closing and asks to take me out to dinner so I give him my number. I was very surprised to see him there and kind of nervous so I just kept it short and left since we were closing.i felt bad cuz I knew I came off as a bitch lol I was just so nervous. So he gives me a call couple days later and asks if he can come over. I was busy and said maybe another night and plus I was kind of put off cuz I knew it would just be sex ( it was 11pm)and thought maybe he was interested in getting to know me when he mentioned going out.
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11 YearsCapricorn

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The next night he calls about coming over I say fuck it and just have him over. Little conversation and AMAZING SEX. He passes out now I'm expecting him to leave right after but he's all cuddled up on me and I finally get used to the idea of him sleeping over and I fall asleep .in the morning he's gone with no goodbye. I text him later saying I'm glad he came over and get no response . I'm like whatever dude haha.
If something happens when you're wasted one night okay but I'm
Not into the fwb thing really. And it's not that I'm looking to be in any relationship I just expect someone to be up front cuz I'm pretty laid back go with the flow type person . After that I'm like wtf did I do something wrong even if he didn't want to continue having sex or whatever he could be polite lol or whatever not just totally drop me.
So about a month goes by no contact from either parts and he comes into my job .I get so freaking nervous he barely speaks to me .his friend asks if I'm going out later I just give him a maybe.later after work he texts me apologizing that he never called me he's been so busy with work cough-bullshit-cough and asks if I'm gunna come out tonight and I just give him a no. Then he asks if I want to go out to dinner and I just tell him yeah that'd be nice , if you really want to let me know. He's like yeah of course I want to ill pick you up this weekend at this time. So I'm wondering what's this dudes deal .. Is he obviously just looking for sex or what? I'm really attracted to him and other from his no contact for a month he seems like a cool guy and I would love to just get to know him. I would totally ask him what he wants but would that come off as crazy? Too upfront ?

Me
Sun:cap
Moon:virg
Merc:sag
Venus:scorp
Mars:sag

Him
Sun:scorp
Moon:virg
Merc:scorp
Venus:scorp
Mars:gem
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JustEva
@JustEva
10 Years

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Gee whiz. See that's what I'm talking about! I love Scorpios. I hate dancing around other signs. Oh, sorry. Hi. I am a Scorpio. He must really like you, Scorpios love to dominate Capricorns. And if the sex is good he may fall in love with you. If you want him, you need to get a bit romantic. The thing is, you can't control, unless in bed. If you just lay there he will treat you like a booty call. You have to dominate a little. If he's too insensitive, you have to tell him to ease up. I've had 2 Scorpio BFs. We didn't talk much, we expected each other to understand...don't make each other jealous, don't get disrespectful. Sex is really important, if you want them to fall in love with you, you have to take them to the limit. He won't judge you for it, and he won't marry you if the sex is bad. BTW, when the Scorpio man stares at you, he's not sizing you up for your money, your value...he's trying to figure out how to make you scream.
If you are a strong Capi, he'll have really restful sleep with you. Let me into your life...schedule, ...don't talk about money or superficial things. Talk about values and soulful things. Get affectionate. Learn to give a back rub. Work up your lingerie wardrobe. Tell him you want to go out, and suggest a place with water. Ahhh, enjoy. It really doesn't seem to me that he wants a committed relationship. Gone for a month? He maybe seeing someone regularly. Ask him. If you want to see him on a...date? You have to tell him. But, scorps expect sex on a date. Hopefully, you don't mind. They'd rather skip dinner, order Chinese or pizza in and get to it. You can ask him direct questions. Scorps love direct questions. If he hesitates, he's lying. If he evades the question, consider the worst answer as the truth. Trust me, you don't want a slutty Scorpio man. If you can't help yourself, you have to dominate in bed for him to latch on to you. Get him whipped on it. Always be fresh, and never ever look at another guy.