I'm sure all of you are familiar with my "disclaimer" from my other posts so just keep in mind that the same "disclaimer" applies to my opinion on this topic too.
Scorpio DO's: -Look as scrumptious as possible whenever you're in your Scorpio's presence-They will appreciate natural sex appeal or what appears to be natural. Your Scorpio takes great pride in how he presents himself to others & will expect a partner that has the same mindset. Your Scorpio needs to know that you didn't just look sexy on that first date but instead that you ALWAYS look sexy.
-Be ready & willing to talk in great detail about your fantasies & your dirty little secrets. When Scorpios want to talk about sex, just let them. Don't try to protest to having the conversation. Understand that your Scorpio has a very high sex drive & that when he's not around you, he atleast wants to fantasize about you until he gets the chance to see you. Take this as a compliment, not an insult or pressure to do something you don't want to do.
-Share all: your Scorpio will want to know all your hidden desires & will probably want to fulfill them. Make sure your Scorpio is under the assumption that you feel you can open up to them about anything. Once they trust you & believe that you are emotionally available, they will start to do the same for you. But sometimes Scorpio expects for their partners to prove themselves trustworthy & emotionally honest first.
-Become comfortable with the feeling that you're being devoured head to toe by the intense Scorpionic gaze. When your Scorpio stares into your eyes, they won't have to say a word for you to know what's on their mind. When a Scorpio is making eye contact with you, don't look away or make your Scorpio think that you can't maintain eye contact. He might immediately become suspicious & detect dishonesty. Let them know that you can look them straight in the eye the same way they can do with you.
-Scorpio individuals are quite pleased if you understand, approve, and perhaps even appreciate the fact that they do have rather fixed ideas and opinions about most matters. If your Scorpio finds himself always competing with you for who's the "boss" he will eventually stray from you. Your Scorpio is only being himself in all that he does & it's important for your Scorp. to know that not only do you understand this about them, but also accept & love this about them.
-Remember that sexual performance is very importance to a Scorpio. Make sure your Scorpio is under the impression that you can "keep up" with them in the bedroom. They will never feel guilty or feel bad for having such high sex drives & would prefer partners who can get with the program.
-Make sure you tell & show your Scorpio that you are more appreciative than not when it comes to how intense they are in everything they do. Be supportive if they are opening up to you about a goal or dream they have (even if to you, it sounds unrealistic). When your Scorp. is professing their love for you, don't ever make them feel bad for loving you as hard as they do. In their minds, they assume they're doing & loving you the way they are supposed to. If your Scorp. feels that you cannot handle them, they will not try to change you but instead will find someone else who can handle them.
"I think my gem is finally getting the hang of it. "
Good. It seems like finally "getting with the program" with a Scorp. means the world of the difference in relationships with them. Relationships with Scorps. (regardless of your sign) can EITHER be the most complicated & miserable or the most rewarding & "love of my life/let's get married" kind of thing. I think it's just a matter of who knows how to board the ship the right way. I had to learn that Scorps. never change for others & that they will leave even the ones they love before they change who they are or what makes them who they are.
You are so right... I was about to leave my gem because he did not understand as much as I would try and tell him and it was because of his lack of understanding me, certain things I am not going to change for or tolerate. And I was very blunt with him when I would say "as much as I love you I will leave you" and love you from afar. My Gems main concern was whether I still loved him or not.
A partner has to appear sexy..dress well..but like stinger said, sometimes the messy look just does it too..you just want to ravish them there and then...and you right, it isn't all about sex..it's understated sexyness..not in your face trashy sex talk..that makes me sick..you either got it or you aint..don't pretend..it isn't going to work..we'll see it..
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Scorpio DO's:
-Look as scrumptious as possible whenever you're in your Scorpio's presence-They will appreciate natural sex appeal or what appears to be natural. Your Scorpio takes great pride in how he presents himself to others & will expect a partner that has the same mindset. Your Scorpio needs to know that you didn't just look sexy on that first date but instead that you ALWAYS look sexy.
-Be ready & willing to talk in great detail about your fantasies & your dirty little secrets. When Scorpios want to talk about sex, just let them. Don't try to protest to having the conversation. Understand that your Scorpio has a very high sex drive & that when he's not around you, he atleast wants to fantasize about you until he gets the chance to see you. Take this as a compliment, not an insult or pressure to do something you don't want to do.
-Share all: your Scorpio will want to know all your hidden desires & will probably want to fulfill them. Make sure your Scorpio is under the assumption that you feel you can open up to them about anything. Once they trust you & believe that you are emotionally available, they will start to do the same for you. But sometimes Scorpio expects for their partners to prove themselves trustworthy & emotionally honest first.
-Become comfortable with the feeling that you're being devoured head to toe by the intense Scorpionic gaze. When your Scorpio stares into your eyes, they won't have to say a word for you to know what's on their mind. When a Scorpio is making eye contact with you, don't look away or make your Scorpio think that you can't maintain eye contact. He might immediately become suspicious & detect dishonesty. Let them know that you can look them straight in the eye the same way they can do with you.