Scorpio female and libra male.....I need help!!!!!

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Vevy86
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What do guys think of this combination? I love my libra man, he is sweet, loving, charming and all. We have been together for 3 years now and we also living together. My only problem with my libra man is that he flirts too much and I find some texts in his phone and he denied that he would never cheat on me he just do it for fun. My other problem with him he freaking lie for no reason. He is getting over it now because he realizes that everytime he do lie or having some girl he flirting with I FIND OUT...I don't know how, but it happened. I gues this line is true "God doesnt like UGLY" i dont cheat even though he yry to tirn me into one all the time. I'm a Scorpio girl and he knows I don't play that mind game, just be honest and I'll looooooooove you for who you are it will be my choice to stay or not. We still going at it I love him till death and i know he does too. He just can't stop flirting lol.
My question is what make him go around and flirt with other girls when i give him all the goody he needs, the loves and so on, and what do you think of our birthdate?

Him:10/22/88
Me:11/06/86

Ps: He lied to me about his age just to get with me, wich I don't mind. It was too late when I find out anyways...smh lol
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Is he flirting or also doing more stuff with other girls?

Flirt I don't consider cheating, but there is a degree to flirting when it turns from witty into 'I want you!'

You two are very young, but regardless how old you are or he is, it is enough to know how serious he is with you.

You need to make your own decision. Read over what you wrote up there and imagine yourself with a little baby in your arm --> from HIM. Do you think he'd be a good father and husband?

Or do you think, as soon as he smells responsibility, he'd run off with other girls?

In the end, it comes down to what YOU want from him. If you want him as light-weight bf, go ahead... live love and have fun.

If you don't expect anything from him, other than he returns your love... then yeah... make the best of your time together.

If you want a more serious relationship from him...

then what I know from myself as a Scorpio, even when I was 14, the guy had to be loyal to me, have prospects for a good career or future, have class and is reliable. I didn't go just for love because love doesn't feed you or put a roof over your head.

So it's your call.



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RedScorpion
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He's not just a Libra, he's also young and stupid. What hurts him the most? Tell him that when he flirts or texts other girls it hurts you just like it hurts him when you or others do the most hurtful thing to him. Use your assertive communication skills and explain it to him. If it really bothers you, tell him that you don't want him to keep hurting you and if he really loves you that if he does it again, you're gone. Then stick to it.

It all depends on how much what he does hurts you. Good luck.
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Fumredfairy_tales I really really understand what you said up there and thank you for your advise. He is a man. He takes care of everything that you can possible think of. I move in with him because I wanted to see what type of man her really is. I didn't wanna go and married to him without testing him first. Actually I am jobless, I recently lost my job and he the one taking care of me until I get a job. My problem with him is those females friends. Im a scorpio girl I am jealous and I don't believe in females friends.